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Winks, do they mean anything?

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By *ountrylad19 OP   Man
over a year ago

travel all over with work x

So come on. What do you think if you receive a wink and what do you entitle when you send a wink?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I use them as I would a like, no pressure on anyone then, I receive or send one back then we message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means she wants to mount my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually means they want me to go to the website they are promoting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s quite a polite way to say I like your profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, yes. It means someone's interested in a chat. I don't like to message 1st. Rather know somebody wants to talk. Saves time lol

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

To me, it means they have not read my profile.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

What’s a wink?

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

They have something in their eye

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By *ungleTemptressWoman
over a year ago

The Jungle

Nope, sorry to all winkees but I rarely look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the only way single men can communicate with me

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I use them and check them. I think they can start things off and if you both wink then one messages and off you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find they are sent by guys that aren't what I'm looking for so won't message, but want to be seen

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"To me, yes. It means someone's interested in a chat. I don't like to message 1st. Rather know somebody wants to talk. Saves time lol"

Interesting, why do they not want message first? Surely if they want to chat then?

Just curious as why if want to chat why you wouldn't message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send them just to show some sort of interest.

However the last wink i received was almost 2 months ago, but if i do get one it is a massive conference boost.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I often send them just to show some sort of interest.

However the last wink i received was almost 2 months ago, but if i do get one it is a massive conference boost."

and we all like a conference boost

I think the wink is a very useful tool for attracting useful tools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never check them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact I would love to be able to opt out if there was a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, sorry op. I never look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me, yes. It means someone's interested in a chat. I don't like to message 1st. Rather know somebody wants to talk. Saves time lol

Interesting, why do they not want message first? Surely if they want to chat then?

Just curious as why if want to chat why you wouldn't message "

Good question. The reason I don't message 1st is after years on and off fab. I'm aware many women and couples get hundreds of messages from horny blokes. Even the most innocent and non threatening messages get generally ignored. If you're naughty and up front in your message, It's considered desperate and sordid.

If you send a genuinely platonic message. In most cases it's seen as. just a ploy to get sex and is disingenuous. (Totally understand why and fair enough) it's a Lose lose situation unless you're looking for a relationship.

So. I'd rather not add my message to the list of "Way too many messages to get through so mass deleted, sorry"

Does that make sense?

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By *ippBiManMan
over a year ago

Sth Tipp

I use them to indicate that I like someone,as we all know,most women here are pestered daily with silly messages that they're not interested in so I don't like to add to that.

If I get one back,it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, sorry to all winkees but I rarely look"

Heart broken, dreams shattered

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Guaranteed shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a useful wee tool , I'd use it to say I've read your bio and looked at your pictures there's a wink cause I'm interested. Wink back if your interested and I'll send you a quick message.

I always take a bit of thought and effort into my 1st messages but 90% of them get binned . So a wee wink of interest would save all that.

But I still send message just now , saying it would be handy

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By *ungleTemptressWoman
over a year ago

The Jungle


"Nope, sorry to all winkees but I rarely look

Heart broken, dreams shattered "

Got my attention on here though didn't you? Hellooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're a good way of attracting attention when I'm on the prowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it shows they have an interest and would perhaps like to chat X

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I like your profile, wink me back or send a message if you like mine too"

That's pretty much how I use them.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, sorry to all winkees but I rarely look

Heart broken, dreams shattered

Got my attention on here though didn't you? Hellooooo "

Perhaps but it's too late, Jane is escaping to the Cambodian jungle ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me, yes. It means someone's interested in a chat. I don't like to message 1st. Rather know somebody wants to talk. Saves time lol

Interesting, why do they not want message first? Surely if they want to chat then?

Just curious as why if want to chat why you wouldn't message

Good question. The reason I don't message 1st is after years on and off fab. I'm aware many women and couples get hundreds of messages from horny blokes. Even the most innocent and non threatening messages get generally ignored. If you're naughty and up front in your message, It's considered desperate and sordid.

If you send a genuinely platonic message. In most cases it's seen as. just a ploy to get sex and is disingenuous. (Totally understand why and fair enough) it's a Lose lose situation unless you're looking for a relationship.

So. I'd rather not add my message to the list of "Way too many messages to get through so mass deleted, sorry"

Does that make sense? "

Amen to this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve no problem with sending and receiving winks.

They can be nice little icebreakers.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"So come on. What do you think if you receive a wink and what do you entitle when you send a wink?"

I imagine that it means they think I’m a sexy son of a gun and would like to tear my clothes off and lick jam off my nipples

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We send winks as a icebreaker to hopefully start messaging each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means she wants to mount my penis "

Yeah but on which wall...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It usually means they want me to go to the website they are promoting "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them if I like the look of someone. I've occasionally winked back to a wink,but nothing happens so I don't know why they get sent to me.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

We like a wink, great for shy folks to make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means she wants to mount my penis

Yeah but on which wall... "

Lorena Bobbitt by any chance?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I use it as a quick hello, not forgotten about you. How men use them no idea, assume it’s an initial hello and then up to me to respond which I do sometimes

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

They mean Jack cak

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

For women they are worthless......for men they are a precious gift to be celebrated and cherished forever

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"So come on. What do you think if you receive a wink and what do you entitle when you send a wink?"

Nothing, some of us never look at who has winked or even send winks.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

They are like Marmite your either love em or hate em

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey

There's nothing wrong with a good wink and fuck this dislexia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know....cant remember the last time I received one!

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Think they good way breaking the ice .and dont feel so bad if they don't reply .not like uv sent message and bin rejected . Wink are cheeky friendly x

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

No we ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think itsa nice way to like someones profile, a wink back is polite?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i use wink to get attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So come on. What do you think if you receive a wink and what do you entitle when you send a wink?"

Couldn't be arsed to look at them,I just bulk delete them...

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

People can wink if they want but what they ought to do is pay attention to those who don't want to receive them. It's not rocket science. Why send people things they don't want unless you haven't bothered to find out... Ahhh that might be it...

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