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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Everyone, I'm a little shy and honestly no idea what I'm doing. Or should I say how all this works so hoping there are a few out there willing to get in touch and guide me through all this.

Not much to know about me but happy to talk to anyone at anytime. Not looking for anything more than friends, not saying would say no to more but just a few friends to chat with here is all.

I love all things beautiful and believe there can be beauty found in all things. I also believe that if it makes you happy and smile and doesnt hurt anyone carry on otherwise stop. Hopefully can find a few that have similar views to me and are just here for a little fun, smiles, laughter and to enjoy some of the beauty the world has to offer.

Please feel free to PM or add me on here. Might not reply immediately but that's only because only log in on rare occassions right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi and welcome to the forums.

Its a tricky time at moment and I would normally suggest attending a local fab social, You can normally find them in the meets and requests section on the forums (closed at the moment due to covid restrictions).

Also worth looking at your local updates and if you see any social profiles then pop them on your hotlist so when they start happening again you know about them.

The forums can be a great way to get to know people and be involved there are all kinds of threads and some that are about a specific topic or bit flirty, photo challenges ect.. and others like the nocturnal thread and the good morning thread are usually very inclusive and just general chat threads.

So my advice is get stuck in and enjoy.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You're doing right by joining in here in the forums. Just be yourself, join in the fun threads, it's a good way of interacting with others.

As the above person has said, social events are a great way of getting into the lifestyle, and also clubs. Didn't go to a club expecting play, just treat it as a social event and see what happens. Obviously socials and clubs once people are able to meet.

Good luck and hope you enjoy what this lifestyle can offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise. Think if I went to club or social I'd have to be dragged there by my gf as I'm way to shy to attend one on my own.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Thanks for the advise. Think if I went to club or social I'd have to be dragged there by my gf as I'm way to shy to attend one on my own."

Oh, you're profile says you're newly single. That's confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment "

You will need to open a couple's profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment "

If you are planning on meeting as a couple then its best to open a couples account.

If you are only going to meet as a single man then I'd remove the bottom bit as its confusing but if you want to you can make clear you are not single but are meeting alone. Hope thats helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment

If you are planning on meeting as a couple then its best to open a couples account.

If you are only going to meet as a single man then I'd remove the bottom bit as its confusing but if you want to you can make clear you are not single but are meeting alone. Hope thats helpful. "

I'll be honest, I've no experience in this field at all and am very shy so not sure if I could do anything without my gf support but also not sure I could do anything with her around either lol.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment

If you are planning on meeting as a couple then its best to open a couples account.

If you are only going to meet as a single man then I'd remove the bottom bit as its confusing but if you want to you can make clear you are not single but are meeting alone. Hope thats helpful.

I'll be honest, I've no experience in this field at all and am very shy so not sure if I could do anything without my gf support but also not sure I could do anything with her around either lol."

The only way to find out is to give it a go. Start slowly perhaps and let your confidence build. If you're girlfriend is joining you in this lifestyle, then you will have each other for support and confidence. Its not that scary, honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment

If you are planning on meeting as a couple then its best to open a couples account.

If you are only going to meet as a single man then I'd remove the bottom bit as its confusing but if you want to you can make clear you are not single but are meeting alone. Hope thats helpful.

I'll be honest, I've no experience in this field at all and am very shy so not sure if I could do anything without my gf support but also not sure I could do anything with her around either lol.

The only way to find out is to give it a go. Start slowly perhaps and let your confidence build. If you're girlfriend is joining you in this lifestyle, then you will have each other for support and confidence. Its not that scary, honest "

That's easy for you to say but I've only ever been with 2 women and seen 2 naked women in my adult life. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment

If you are planning on meeting as a couple then its best to open a couples account.

If you are only going to meet as a single man then I'd remove the bottom bit as its confusing but if you want to you can make clear you are not single but are meeting alone. Hope thats helpful.

I'll be honest, I've no experience in this field at all and am very shy so not sure if I could do anything without my gf support but also not sure I could do anything with her around either lol."

Then I really would suggest trying the social side first.

Its a fantastic way to meet people and be part of the lifestyle while you find your feet.

Me personally thats all I'm interested in really, the social, club and party side rather than individual meets.

There is a place for everyone but just need to figure out what you want from it.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I actually just added note to the bottom as created account when I was single but not sure how to change it to couple account so just added note on the bottom at the moment

If you are planning on meeting as a couple then its best to open a couples account.

If you are only going to meet as a single man then I'd remove the bottom bit as its confusing but if you want to you can make clear you are not single but are meeting alone. Hope thats helpful.

I'll be honest, I've no experience in this field at all and am very shy so not sure if I could do anything without my gf support but also not sure I could do anything with her around either lol.

The only way to find out is to give it a go. Start slowly perhaps and let your confidence build. If you're girlfriend is joining you in this lifestyle, then you will have each other for support and confidence. Its not that scary, honest

That's easy for you to say but I've only ever been with 2 women and seen 2 naked women in my adult life. Lol."

We all had to start somewhere. Don't put any pressure on yourself and just enjoy the journey. Go with the flow and see what happens.

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