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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.

I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,

At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be in the majority here, loads of people love kissing , and say it's a deal breaker for them if someone doesn't like to kiss.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"You will be in the majority here, loads of people love kissing , and say it's a deal breaker for them if someone doesn't like to kiss."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm on a few dating sites and girls don't seem to be that into it. They like kissing sure but they don't seem invested in a kiss if you know what i mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will be in the majority here, loads of people love kissing , and say it's a deal breaker for them if someone doesn't like to kiss."
I agree 100% deal breaker for me xxx

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By *lacklovingwomanWoman
over a year ago

St. Neots

Yes most definitely a deal breaker for me too x

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By *ilvery brownMan
over a year ago

lewisham

Ditto. Love a nice unrushed sensual slow kiss, feeling the softness smell and texture of lips and tongue and how it can just relax and ease the moment.

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

A MUST X

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By *igboywxmMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Love it! Got to be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to kiss but for me it's not the most important thing. For me it's touch, being embraced, our hands caressing and exploring each other. Using my lips to kiss his neck and chest, and him mine. That turns me on so much, more than just standard kissing, but that doesn't mean I like it rushed and impersonal either.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Oh my days, I love a good snog. And god help them if they’re a good kisser.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Got 2 kiss slow soft tender kisses leading 2 passionate full on tongues .4 me its part of the process of making love .b4 during and after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.

I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,

At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." "

Sex without love is an empty and soul less experience.

But as empty soul less experiences go' its got to be one of the best!

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings


"I like to kiss but for me it's not the most important thing. For me it's touch, being embraced, our hands caressing and exploring each other. Using my lips to kiss his neck and chest, and him mine. That turns me on so much, more than just standard kissing, but that doesn't mean I like it rushed and impersonal either."

Love this is so insite full for use guys but I do love a deep passionate kiss.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're not aware of it dying out in the slightest. We're big on kissing. We wouldn't get seriously involved with anybody else who wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kiss during sex not a deal breaker if someone doesn’t like to know some couples over the years that it was definitely a no no

I always ask before hand nothing worse then going for me mid way and have them pull back and ends the meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah for me if my partner doesn't kiss i can't sexually connect. When i go on dates i determine if i want to see them purely on the first kiss (whether 1st date or 2nd) if the kiss is dead then I'll know she isn't on my wavelength sexually so i can't see her again.

A good kiss is everything and sets the whole mood and tempo for me. I've met a couple of women on here and they weren't big on kissing hense only met once. Guess i was naive at the time.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Kissing is fundamental to the whole experience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.

I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,

At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....."

Sex without love is an empty and soul less experience.

But as empty soul less experiences go' its got to be one of the best!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is fundamental to the whole experience.."

This for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.

I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,

At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." "

We meet for socials, get a feel for our prospective partners and discuss our likes and dislikes but we don't kiss them.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Id rather have a hot cup of tea than sex without kissing, its far more satisfying but it does burn your tallywhacker a bit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.

I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,

At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." "

Totally agree. Kissing before , during and after sex is a winner every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no fuckery

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"No kissing, no fuckery"

Exactly this!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've only spoken to one man on here who didn't kiss. He didn't give oral either so I wondered if he was just after a suck and fuck, which I don't want.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What’s kissing? I can’t remember!

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By *llez WorldWoman
over a year ago

SE London


"Nah for me if my partner doesn't kiss i can't sexually connect. When i go on dates i determine if i want to see them purely on the first kiss (whether 1st date or 2nd) if the kiss is dead then I'll know she isn't on my wavelength sexually so i can't see her again.

A good kiss is everything and sets the whole mood and tempo for me. I've met a couple of women on here and they weren't big on kissing hense only met once. Guess i was naive at the time. "

Totally agree with this. Everything for me is determined by kissing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No snogging , no meeting, !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get compliments on my kissing skills!

I'm totally into kissing. No kissing = no connection, no connection = no sex. I could kiss for hours.

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Kissing is horny as in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Especially that raunchy lustfill snogging in the midst of deep and grindy sex. Always feels so slurry. Grrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only spoken to one man on here who didn't kiss. He didn't give oral either so I wondered if he was just after a suck and fuck, which I don't want.

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Probably was.

I won't name names but i went on a social with someone off here and we had a drink sat at the table. She was talking about her oral skills and it got me hot, really wanted to test her skills haha. After the date went in for a kiss and smelled a bit of bad breath so made a swift B-line to her cheek. Now most guys would just meet her and not kiss and just get a bj and sex but for me that's not an option. Its so important. Sex is about quality not quantity for me but each to their own. Someome people have crazy meets on here. I rather keep it fewer but better

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing beats that first touch of someone's lips on mine, feeling that spark ignite and the passion building slowly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get compliments on my kissing skills!

I'm totally into kissing. No kissing = no connection, no connection = no sex. I could kiss for hours. "

Everyone says that haha. 1 thing guys do is lie to women about their kissing and BJ skills. Its because they want more when when they are in a drought.

But i totally get you. I have a fetish for it. I could do a just kissing meet and not even have sex

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's a big big part of sex,probably the key to the best sex I think

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You will be in the majority here, loads of people love kissing , and say it's a deal breaker for them if someone doesn't like to kiss."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God, I miss kissing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In need of a good snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk about sex on the first social. Or kiss.

Apart from once. We both felt a spark from that kiss.

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Must be tongues as well that's horny

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

In a relationship kissing is one of my absolute favourite things. With virtual strangers though, in clubs or meets, then I can take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing is most certainly far less enjoyable for me

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I’ve got to be honest for myself I find that kissing is the best part and I’m the same op i feel like I’m old fashioned. I would rather get to know someone a bit and enjoy a kiss than a wham bam session as it feels empty and soulless.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I wouldn't have sex without kissing. It just wouldn't feel right to me, or nowhere near as enjoyable.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Kissing plays a huge part in sex, not sure if it's just me but I wouldn't enjoy it as much if there was no kissing at all

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