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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you feel obligated or under pressure to accommodate meets? (Please draw on pre covid experiences or plans for post covid, as no one was meeting during the pandemic?! )

But yes do you feel its always down to you to host? Do any men prefer not to have randoms in their home and opt for hotels or club only. Im curious.....

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not particularly. Hotels seem like the ideal choice as there's less pressure on both parties.

LvM

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not in the slightest, and if that were felt the meet wouldn't be happening.

All of my non-social meets have been in a hotel or club with all costs shared equally between us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in the slightest, and if that were felt the meet wouldn't be happening.

All of my non-social meets have been in a hotel or club with all costs shared equally between us."

I’d say thats fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have previously been flexible, but always have a social first anyway. Both my previous fwb always wanted to meet at theirs thereafter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all. I like my privacy and more than fine with booking a hotel, but having strangers in my homes a no no. If it became a regular meet then yes id be fine with having them round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is another part of the difficulties for single guys on Fab.

Not accommodating, which could be for any number of valid reasons often leads to the rolling eye emoji and an assumption they are married.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

No, that's what hotels are for. It's different if you've met before though.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

My private and fab life are completely seperate entities and private is how i would like to keep it; i have family and friends who would not understand my life choice...

As in real life, Fab too has its share of loony loony nut jobs, present company excluded.

Im not talking about those that suffer from mental health issues but those who are just a bit strange or become overly possessive..

I have met a few people on Fab who seemed ok initially when chatting and fortunately, i always insist on meeting socially first as i would not trust them not to turn up at my doorstep after i met them face to face..

Mutual environments are definitely the best place to meet, whether hotel, club or outdoors..

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

For a first plat meet I prefer a hotel if I'm honest , unless I really have been talking to them a long time and a rapport has built up.

After that I'm happy to accommodate

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"For a first plat meet I prefer a hotel if I'm honest , unless I really have been talking to them a long time and a rapport has built up.

After that I'm happy to accommodate "

Oh ffs *play

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I've been pretty fortunate to have my meets at clubs or a hotel. Have been offered accomodation but can never be too sure can you unless you know them well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been offered a meet so it's not an issue for me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If I’ve met beforehand it’s not a problem.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Not obligated or pressured, but offered.

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