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By *..First OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”"

definitely no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'll find some 'ladies' that would be into this.

Otherwise pay an escort.

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By *..First OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?” definitely no "

That’s absolute then.

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By *..First OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I'm sure you'll find some 'ladies' that would be into this.

Otherwise pay an escort."

My hope would be that both needs are satisfied.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

You would probably more men wanting to do it ! Going by some of the post on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”"

It’s good to see that you offer so much op and ask for so little which is Rae in these me me me times.

T

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By *..First OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"You would probably more men wanting to do it ! Going by some of the post on here"

That’s the thing... if a couple are sharing my cock ... maybe. But while a guys may well give me the best blowjob of my life... i don’t think it is for me.

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By *..First OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”

It’s good to see that you offer so much op and ask for so little which is Rae in these me me me times.

T"

No, I know it is self indulgent/selfish and my questing truly is if there are those who simply want to suck a cock and that be that.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Few and far between.

I'm not one of the few

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I can’t imagine many women would be up for this with a stranger.. a partner maybe, but not a randomer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great, but what’s in it for you though ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a definite no from me.

I expect there are some women who might want this, but not many. Even less who'd want to do it for a stranger.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Might be the kind of thing to be found at dogging sites from the (possibly skewed) perception I have of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guessing it’ll be a definite no from majority of the lady’s and wouldn’t blame them either (no guy’s that special).

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

You'll have more luck at a club than a woman letting you in to their home for a blowjob But yes, I'm sure they exist.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glory hole's were developed for this!!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Op I'd like to find a woman that would meet me have a mutual connection and both enjoy ourselves in one and others company seems I have no hope if you can't even get a suck and blow

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

There's no harm in asking for exactly what you want.

After restrictions are lifted of course.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d be happy to just walk in to tea and biscuits. I’d obviously drink the cup dry!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women"

They certainly do!

Link n go "I just wanna taste some pussy"

I can hand on heart say I've never thought to myself "I really wanna nosh a cock right now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it maybe something cuckold couples would do, or bucket list ticks. On the whole, it's doubtful though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women

They certainly do!

Link n go "I just wanna taste some pussy"

I can hand on heart say I've never thought to myself "I really wanna nosh a cock right now"

"

Well I have thought something along those lines but not under the circs described

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If I were having my dirty bitch phase then yes. I have met men I’ve been chatting to, in their car, sucked them off and then buggered off home again.

For a few reasons.

1. It feels exceptionally naughty and “dirty”.

2. I don’t have to make small talk.

3. I enjoy making a fella cum within 10 minutes and being back home for the DPD parcel I’m usually waiting on.

It’s usually more of a Summer thing.

I don’t get much from being licked out and sometimes I can’t be arsed getting a bad shag. I do, however, love sucking a cock.

I don’t do it all the time, just when the mood strikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women"

Yeah, but do they mean it though?

I doubt they do

Its just another ruse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women

Yeah, but do they mean it though?

I doubt they do

Its just another ruse"

Exactly - or they have ED

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides. "

For the record, I'm more than happy to wank for you

LvM

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women

Yeah, but do they mean it though?

I doubt they do

Its just another ruse"

I don't know if they mean it or not. Are you trying to say people say things they don't mean on fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women

Yeah, but do they mean it though?

I doubt they do

Its just another ruse

I don't know if they mean it or not. Are you trying to say people say things they don't mean on fab... "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be a no for me op

Mean not that I haven’t fantasies about doing this or a quick walk in shut door seeing to in the hall way at the door and walk back out

Just takes me far to long to get ready for a quick 3-4 minute meet

Maybe would do it if someone cought me on the back end off a meet and didn’t mind seconds but that’s about the only way

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women

They certainly do!

Link n go "I just wanna taste some pussy"

I can hand on heart say I've never thought to myself "I really wanna nosh a cock right now"

Well I have thought something along those lines but not under the circs described "

I've often thought *rubs legs all pervy and drools a little*

"Corrrrrr, I really wanna nosh YOUR cock right now" when thinking of a particular person, but not a penis for the sake of it being penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were having my dirty bitch phase then yes. I have met men I’ve been chatting to, in their car, sucked them off and then buggered off home again.

For a few reasons.

1. It feels exceptionally naughty and “dirty”.

2. I don’t have to make small talk.

3. I enjoy making a fella cum within 10 minutes and being back home for the DPD parcel I’m usually waiting on.

It’s usually more of a Summer thing.

I don’t get much from being licked out and sometimes I can’t be arsed getting a bad shag. I do, however, love sucking a cock.

I don’t do it all the time, just when the mood strikes.

"

Roll on the Summer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys would love this, Women, and couples probably not so much but then again gloryholes, blowbangs and such show their are people interested. You just need to find them which I guess is the purpose of this post.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have came across one or 2 females profiles that are oral only but that's mutual i would assume.

It sound more like a dom/sub situe to me, Where the sub would be pleasured by obeying essentially. Quite niche though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a glory hole sure, if you've paid for someone's time that's fine! But treat a lady with such disrespect and she might just might it off

Just saying

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”"

This definitely happens, also the come to your home suck you dry and say goodbye.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes love these type of one offs! No talking or interaction apart from the deed and nothing else to happen! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would probably more men wanting to do it ! Going by some of the post on here"
I totally agree with that! If ever I log in while working in a new area well you can guess what happens lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have more luck at a club than a woman letting you in to their home for a blowjob But yes, I'm sure they exist.

LvM"

On fabguys there’s a few peeps who have a similar idea and have glory hole set-up within their home. They advertise cum and go service, no chit chat etc. just the deed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides.

For the record, I'm more than happy to wank for you

LvM"

Is it OK if I dress up as The Grinch and we book a hotel somewhere in Whoville?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One lady on here was asking for just that. Sorry, long time ago and can't remember who...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides.

For the record, I'm more than happy to wank for you

LvM

Is it OK if I dress up as The Grinch and we book a hotel somewhere in Whoville? "

Elf outfit ftw. And the load

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No chance, for the following reasons:


"I would really like to just arrive at your home"

I don’t let anyone come to my home.


"have a lady suck my cock dry"

I only swallow for one man, no-one else gets to cum in my mouth.


"and leave."

Lol forever, no way. What’s in it for me? Where’s the pleasure? Good luck finding anyone willing to do this without payment.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Plenty of men offer the opposite service to women"

That doesn’t interest me either, plus I don’t trust those offers not to turn into an attempt to get more.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”

It’s good to see that you offer so much op and ask for so little which is Rae in these me me me times.

T

No, I know it is self indulgent/selfish and my questing truly is if there are those who simply want to suck a cock and that be that. "

Good luck, not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides.

For the record, I'm more than happy to wank for you

LvM

Is it OK if I dress up as The Grinch and we book a hotel somewhere in Whoville?

Elf outfit ftw. And the load"

I would look pretty cute in an elf outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would really like to just arrive at your home, have a lady suck my cock dry and leave.

I suppose the question is, “Are there women or couples for whom this sounds ideal?”"

I have female friends that don't mind this with a regular. It's not for me though as I'm more of a pleaser than a receiver. I always like to go for silver, come 2md for those that don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides.

For the record, I'm more than happy to wank for you

LvM

Is it OK if I dress up as The Grinch and we book a hotel somewhere in Whoville?

Elf outfit ftw. And the load

I would look pretty cute in an elf outfit. "

I'll dress as Santa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally its a ‘oh hell no’ from me, just seems selfish, but OP has has some good suggestions: glory hole, cuck challenge, an escort or a fab lady whos in the mood to do it.

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford


"Sounds great, but what’s in it for you though ?"

What's in it for the OP? He gets to have an orgasm without giving one back. Not for us, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to give a woman oral pleasure and leave

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not for me, thanks. (maybe with a regular friend, occasionally)

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"It's a fantasy of mine and I'd definitely get pleasure from it as long as I was attracted to the guy. I'd also like to meet a man and have him wank and cum for me and then leave. I'm not confident enough to be intimate with a complete stranger so I wouldn't go through with it.

I definitely think you would find women out there who would be into it. It's not too crazy and there will be pleasure on both sides.

For the record, I'm more than happy to wank for you

LvM

Is it OK if I dress up as The Grinch and we book a hotel somewhere in Whoville? "

Sounds good to me... though I'm not helping you clean out any jizz that gets matted in your green fuzz

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it. T'was fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glory hole's were developed for this!! "

Wow! There’s an R&D department somewhere that came up with this? I need to go work there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is actually on our to do list, we both like the idea of arranging this kind of meet for each other Both think it would be fun little game to play if we are honest, we both like giving oral and add to that the excitement of not knowing who is turning up as partner has arranged it

However feel I have more luck than Mr of living this out As mentioned above women generally think it’s has some alternative intentions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would probably more men wanting to do it ! Going by some of the post on here"

Only the fab straight ones

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If I were having my dirty bitch phase then yes. I have met men I’ve been chatting to, in their car, sucked them off and then buggered off home again.

For a few reasons.

1. It feels exceptionally naughty and “dirty”.

2. I don’t have to make small talk.

3. I enjoy making a fella cum within 10 minutes and being back home for the DPD parcel I’m usually waiting on.

It’s usually more of a Summer thing.

I don’t get much from being licked out and sometimes I can’t be arsed getting a bad shag. I do, however, love sucking a cock.

I don’t do it all the time, just when the mood strikes.

"

I like the line "It's usually more of a summer thing."

Kind of like open-toed sandals

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"If I were having my dirty bitch phase then yes. I have met men I’ve been chatting to, in their car, sucked them off and then buggered off home again.

For a few reasons.

1. It feels exceptionally naughty and “dirty”.

2. I don’t have to make small talk.

3. I enjoy making a fella cum within 10 minutes and being back home for the DPD parcel I’m usually waiting on.

It’s usually more of a Summer thing.

I don’t get much from being licked out and sometimes I can’t be arsed getting a bad shag. I do, however, love sucking a cock.

I don’t do it all the time, just when the mood strikes.

I like the line "It's usually more of a summer thing."

Kind of like open-toed sandals "

I’m a cock hungry whore in the Summer. Rest of the year I’m like “meh”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes... I really enjoy sucking dick and sometimes after a stressful day I do like to and don't want anything in return lol... I wouldnt do it for a stranger tho, I have a few fwb who I'd drop a message to when the mood strikes me

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