FabSwingers.com forum: Are you introvert or extrovert?.

By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say that I am in the middle of the spectrum, but leaning more to the introvert kind of guy, but being with the right person I become extrovert. I think that it could change depending who you are with, do you think the same too, that from what you are it can change depending who you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ima bit of both. Depending on my mood really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha, great post. 'Are u this or that, I am neither'.

Ok, me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, here to find out x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm definitely more of an introvert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambivert. I'm good at adapting. I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the actual definition of an extrovert!

Introvert/extrovert isn't actually all about how confident etc a person is, as actually introverts can love social situations it's more about how you cope

Ie extroverts need social interactions to thrive whereas as introverts enjoy social situations but need time to oneself after to recover

Shyness is totally different again ...

The loudest person in the room usually isn't the extrovert but seem to be confused with being an extrovert!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Vast majority of people are ambiverts, displaying traits of both intro and extro. Some may be leaning towards one side more than the other but it is pretty rare for anyone to be pure introvert or extrovert.

I am an introverted extrovert.

I prefer my own company, I don't mind being solo or solitary. I dislike large crowds or unfamiliar situations in most cases. I lean much more to introvert, however within comfort zones you would never be able to tell my introverted side exists.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm an omnivert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an extrovert. But yes, it's not about observed behaviour, but actually about what energises you;social interaction stimulates the extrovert, being in their own company charges the batteries for the intovert

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm an introvert but I manage it well. There are some things that I hate so I actively avoid them, parties and gatherings of people I dont know being the obvious. I'm fine one on one and have coping strategies for work situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an extrovert. But yes, it's not about observed behaviour, but actually about what energises you;social interaction stimulates the extrovert, being in their own company charges the batteries for the intovert"

This ^^^

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Being an introvert/extrovert is a spectrum. You can never really be 100% one or the other. An extrovert is someone that thrives on interacting with others. Being with others gives them energy boosts. Being an introvert does not mean you're shy and socially awkward.

Personally, I lean towards the extrovert side of the spectrum.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Male me is introvert, female me more extrovert. I think that might have more to do with confidence and acceptance issues though!

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Ha, great post. 'Are u this or that, I am neither'.

Ok, me too!

"
Ty and yes it is

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I'm not sure, here to find out x "
That is good

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Ambivert. I'm good at adapting. I think. "
That is a good play at the words there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely extrovert xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I'm the actual definition of an extrovert!

Introvert/extrovert isn't actually all about how confident etc a person is, as actually introverts can love social situations it's more about how you cope

Ie extroverts need social interactions to thrive whereas as introverts enjoy social situations but need time to oneself after to recover

Shyness is totally different again ...

The loudest person in the room usually isn't the extrovert but seem to be confused with being an extrovert! "

Yes this. I definitely need my alone time to recharge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently did the 16 personalities test and came back with INFJ, so and extrovert introvert

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm definitely an introvert. I can pretend to be an extrovert when required but it's not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extroverted introvert, its hard work

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I am an introvert.

People tend to think of extrovert and introvert through the definitions of populist publications or social media.

Most misdiagnose themselves. I am definitely an introvert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am naturally an introvert. But if I'm with the right person I can be a bit of an extrovert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely an introvert. I like people and my have my sociable moments, but on the whole, peopling exhausts me. Fortunately I'm very content in my own company. Being a shy extrovert or a self-hating introvert must be awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert... I enjoy my own company: self care for me is alone time, Sid’s an extrovert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I can be defined by mere words alone, all I know is I find myself incredibly fascinating and there’s never enough time in the day to navel gaze and think about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flip into either depending on my mood, circumstances and desire at the time; so I guess that’d make me an ambivert.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I can flip into either depending on my mood, circumstances and desire at the time; so I guess that’d make me an ambivert.

I'm liking this. For me to

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

Definitely extrovert. Can’t shut up and always social butterfly at parties

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Extrovert by default. Whod've guessed?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm a bit of both, but definitely lean more towards extrovert...although sometimes things get too peopley for me and I need some time on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be both, I think it all depends on mood, surroundings/setting and who I am with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can be both, I think it all depends on mood, surroundings/setting and who I am with. "

It actually means whether you thrive and need social interaction (extrovert) or whether you need time to recover or lone time around social interaction (introvert) not about how you are socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally an introvert but have learned to be more outgoing and enjoy it so now probably depends on circumstances and company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally introverted. Learnt to mix up, make jokes and small talk, socialize in gatherings and all that. But it took time to learn and sometimes, it's still too much effort!

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Totally introverted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extrovert. Though if I'm in a group I tone down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm introverted but that doesnt mean i dont like social outings, im fine with them however it gets to the point where i find them to be quite draining. I can speak to people to a certain point depending on what the converstaions is about. However i do like the comfort of my own home where i can spend my time thinking new ideas and write.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I can be both, I think it all depends on mood, surroundings/setting and who I am with.

It actually means whether you thrive and need social interaction (extrovert) or whether you need time to recover or lone time around social interaction (introvert) not about how you are socially"

Agree....... except for the recover part....

Being an introvert isn't an illness. They don't suffer from socialising.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I can be both, I think it all depends on mood, surroundings/setting and who I am with.

It actually means whether you thrive and need social interaction (extrovert) or whether you need time to recover or lone time around social interaction (introvert) not about how you are socially"

In that case I'm definitely an introvert, I don't struggle with only myself for company.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm perfectly happy in my own company most of the time so I'm pretty introvert I'd say!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Introvert/ situational extrovert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert in that I need time to myself to recharge after social situations but an extrovert when around people I'm comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outwardly extrovert to cover for inherent shyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a vert.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An introvert, definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an introvert. I love people and socialising, but I draw my energy from alone time, and then I'm ready to get back out there.

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By *faliMan
over a year ago

Grand Canal Dock

I am so tired of acting like an extrovert

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I’m an extrovert for sure, I really really miss being around people. Od is more of an introvert though. Freya

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm an introvert. I love people and socialising, but I draw my energy from alone time, and then I'm ready to get back out there."

Couldnt have worded it better myself to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m an extrovert for sure, I really really miss being around people. Od is more of an introvert though. Freya "

There was me thinking you were the shy retiring type!

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Bit of both depending on mood and situation

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By *wig1963Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Really leaning towards introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a cave

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Definitely introverted.

LvM

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Extroverted introvert.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Tend to be extrovert, but it can hide a multitude of things

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Pervert.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

One would say I was an introverted extrovert....

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Very much introvert

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Culvert

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