FabSwingers.com forum: What kind of lover are you?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Good evening,

Been musing today.

During a conversation with my fwb today, I asked him out of curiosity what kind of lover I am. He says I am demanding which surprised me cos I don’t think I am.

So Fabbers what kind of lover are you? I’m curious to hear.......

This is for guys and gals.

Bhubaysi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the options ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enthusiastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extraordinaire;-)

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By *akjourneyMan
over a year ago

Weston

I would say initially attentive and sustainable. Although I may have a little switch in me so both parties win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver and encourager haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say initially attentive and sustainable. Although I may have a little switch in me so both parties win lol"

I chuckled a little at "sustainable"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious and eager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adaptive

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It varies dependant on mood and who I'm with... I'm never submissive, although sometimes happy to let a partner take the lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very enthusiastic, love giving, submissive but feisty, energetic, I like to have a break and then go again

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd have guessed demanding from your posting style OP.

I'm not a particular style so I guess a situational lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grateful

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The kind of lover I am is:-

Giving

Fun

Unselfish

Enthusiastic

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I am a generous if slightly breast-fixated lover.

#sorrynotsorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and sensual. The more pleasure the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erotic and passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swift and apologetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It varies dependant on mood and who I'm with... I'm never submissive, although sometimes happy to let a partner take the lead "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playful and eager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grateful"

Best answer yet

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I kinda go with the flow I guess , just do what feels right at the time , I dont really know tbh

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swift and apologetic "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Giving, experimental, notices little tell tale clues when things are hitting the right spots and works well with instruction so I've been told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"notices little tell tale clues when things are hitting the right spots

Pure fucking gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given my lack of meets here.... hopeful?

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Weirdly talkative

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

I’m not in the habit of seeking sexual references for men on Fab. Intimacy is different with each lover.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Now I'm one that now has Phil Collins singing Easy Lover stuck in my head

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Me attentive.

L, energetic.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

I’m not in the habit of seeking sexual references for men on Fab. Intimacy is different with each lover. "

Is that from men ?

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Sensous, passionate and naughty. Depends on my mood

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

I’m not in the habit of seeking sexual references for men on Fab. Intimacy is different with each lover.

Is that from men ? "

I’m not in the habit of contacting lovers of men for references about them.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Legend... wait for it... dary.

LvM

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Somewhere between attentive,erotic, passionate and wild sometimes all of them, depends on the dynamic

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I was simply answering the question, I wasn't asking for contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to think sensual and passionate ! Love lots of kissing xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we have the options again

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can we have the options again "

Confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a sensual lover and a giver...

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

You make a good point. Nobody is going to state that they are a useless lover. You would get a more accurate answer by asking the person they are a lover to

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

You make a good point. Nobody is going to state that they are a useless lover. You would get a more accurate answer by asking the person they are a lover to"

That’s what I did and I was surprised with the response I’m demanding, never thought I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Giving & filthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Observant

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Observant"

Do you make notes?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Multifaceted

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

You make a good point. Nobody is going to state that they are a useless lover. You would get a more accurate answer by asking the person they are a lover to

That’s what I did and I was surprised with the response I’m demanding, never thought I was. "

Factor in not wanting to offend...

Ideally to find out if someone is a good lover you'd have to ask everyone they have shagged to get a good idea. I know that's not realistic.

All you will get on this thread are folk saying positive stuff about themselves. Testimonials are the same. Who's going to publish one that describes how crap they are

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

You make a good point. Nobody is going to state that they are a useless lover. You would get a more accurate answer by asking the person they are a lover to

That’s what I did and I was surprised with the response I’m demanding, never thought I was. "

The question i would pose is "Are you actually demanding, or just looking for something you haven't found yet" which could be a little frustrating, but misconstrued as demanding. Just food for thought

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm obliging and active in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

You make a good point. Nobody is going to state that they are a useless lover. You would get a more accurate answer by asking the person they are a lover to"

Why? Others would soon find out.

I'm not particularly good at much other than oral really. I'm fecking ace at that though

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Observant"

You lay back and watch her do all the work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual. I love kissing and like to enjoy my partners body and him mine. It's been said that I know what I want and know how to get it. Not really sure about that

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A horny, dirty bitch with loads of stanima but a heart of gold.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"I am a very conscientious lover, non presumptuous, tantric. I do not assume, I am very much believer in two way communication and enjoyment, sensual, understanding and respectful.

I can hear the BS merchants chanting

. There is only way to find out ... ask the people who know me

You make a good point. Nobody is going to state that they are a useless lover. You would get a more accurate answer by asking the person they are a lover to

Why? Others would soon find out.

I'm not particularly good at much other than oral really. I'm fecking ace at that though "

Stop press: humans are capable of not telling the truth or are sometimes delusional

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Very sensual, very selfless, pleaser xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Increasingly selfish and increasingly lazy

The days of me being seen as a good fuck are well & truly behind me

At least I'm honest

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Increasingly selfish and increasingly lazy

The days of me being seen as a good fuck are well & truly behind me

At least I'm honest

That's m'boy!

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap (mrs)..i'm noisy, insatiable, shag for to long and love cock a bit to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual and filthy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Risk Averse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Crap (mrs)..i'm noisy, insatiable, shag for to long and love cock a bit to much

You really must correct these flaws...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap (mrs)..i'm noisy, insatiable, shag for to long and love cock a bit to much

You really must correct these flaws..."

Iv'e tried really hard honest i have ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual and a pleaser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adaptable, sensual, sometimes a bit lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enthusiastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Giver and encourager haha "

Me too

Thats great. Well done! Keep it up.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Caring, giving, pleasing, open minded, adventurous, kinky, considerate, vanilla, filthy, switch....and more

Mrs

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Apparently I’m a ‘noisy f****r’.

Not my words lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the horses mouth, apparently I am... submissive, playful- mischievous sometimes, highly strung and explosive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...So Fabbers what kind of lover are you? I’m curious to hear.......

This is for guys and gals.

Bhubaysi xx

At the moment, “frustrated” - thank you, Lockdown!

But I’d like to think that I’m kind and considerate - if my partner’s not enjoying my attention then it’s not going to be anything great for either of us.

But right now, I’d settle for a good chat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky. Haha !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A serious answer (for once!).

I genuinely get off on knowing that whoever I am with is turned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I’m with, mood I’m in.I have been known to doze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try my best .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who I’m with, mood I’m in.I have been known to doze

Yeah. I thought the snoring was a bit much though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ruder than I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In out in out shake it all about type of person

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m very selfish and once I’ve cum after 3 minutes I’m off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who I’m with, mood I’m in.I have been known to doze

Yeah. I thought the snoring was a bit much though! "

Sorry about that Jennie

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

There are two types, a Bear lover and a Salmon lover!

I am a Salmon lover

If you want to know the difference PM me,

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Well, apparently I “look like butter wouldn’t melt, but are filthy as fuck”. I’ll take that

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’d say I’m like Ian botham, an all rounder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a good tipper

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