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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you like someone.

Just tell them.

There.

Easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting for them to tell me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Good plan. What better way to say it than with cock pictures

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually do! With various effects..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually do! With various effects.. "

I like you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Tess.

I like you.

I think you're awesome.

But, y'know, just in a friends way

How did I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks. I’d rather keep it to myself and be alone.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If you like someone.

Just tell them.

There.

Easy."

I like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected."

In my experience, when I have received a rejection its been kind and respectful. Better to know where you stand, or don't, than waste your time and energy on unreciprocated attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tess.

I like you.

I think you're awesome.

But, y'know, just in a friends way

How did I do? "

Perfect, thats how I feel too xx

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

City Jeans...I like you chum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No thanks. I’d rather keep it to myself and be alone. "

Why?

Do you prefer being alone?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

If I feel it, I say it.

99% of the time it is never felt the same in return though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected."

I dont think I can take any more rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually do! With various effects..

I like you "

Oh thank you! A surprise. I like you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

I dont think I can take any more rejection "

Ditto

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

I dont think I can take any more rejection "

I like you. Even more if you’re prepared to share birthday cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually do! With various effects..

I like you

Oh thank you! A surprise. I like you too "

Not been on the forums for Abit thought I'd see what's happening

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected."

Nobody likes being rejected of course, but what's the point of longing for somebody that you will never have anyway because you won't tell them. That is a very trapped and enclosed feeling. Rejection, while it can hurt, frees you from the captivity of ever knowing (but always wanting).

Sure, if they feel the same they should tell you they do... But what if they don't want to be rejected... Its and endless cycle of never having through fear of maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

I dont think I can take any more rejection "

I'm sure you don't get rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

This! "

How would anyone reject you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s exactly what I do what’s the worst that can happen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

I dont think I can take any more rejection

I'm sure you don't get rejected "

Erm you would be wrong...rejection isnt just for the men! Equal opportunities n all that!

I might just reach out to someone....

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

This! "

Well here is a heads up so you know I wouldn't reject you...

I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder if i have missed any opportunities because i decided it was safer to keep quiet? More is lost in saying nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know if its genuine tho

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"How do you know if its genuine tho "

This is what scares me.

I find it so hard to believe it's genuine. Much easier to just stay quiet and not risk the rejection or the worry that it might be all just a joke to someone.

I've been there and it hurts so much more than initial rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if its genuine tho

This is what scares me.

I find it so hard to believe it's genuine. Much easier to just stay quiet and not risk the rejection or the worry that it might be all just a joke to someone.

I've been there and it hurts so much more than initial rejection. "

Like every opening mail says 'i really like you..' and I'm like you've never talked to me how can you know

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, sure you will miss some but if you never shoot, you’ll never score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s scary

I love you all in the safety of the lounge, but there are actual people OUT THERE

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By *armactrampMan
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

I like you!! Getting knocked back as a single bloke with no public (need to because I realise I know a lot of local people on here)pics is quite normal. Water off a ducks back.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

If I like something about someone I’m pretty happy to tell them but it doesn’t mean I fancy them. Fancying is strictly face to face for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"How do you know if its genuine tho

This is what scares me.

I find it so hard to believe it's genuine. Much easier to just stay quiet and not risk the rejection or the worry that it might be all just a joke to someone.

I've been there and it hurts so much more than initial rejection. "

In a not snarky way, this surprises me. I had you down as being quite forward with men you fancy. Sometimes we get it wrong, don't we?

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

In my experience, when I have received a rejection its been kind and respectful. Better to know where you stand, or don't, than waste your time and energy on unreciprocated attraction."

Do you reject everyone in the same manner? Ie not delete without replying etc? Just asking because I never look for guys but there definitely seems to be a discrepancy in how they are treated?

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I do.although when I do like someone I go all weird and come across as a right pleb!

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected."

Then they have the knowledge that its time to move on instead of dreaming pointlessly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, sure you will miss some but if you never shoot, you’ll never score. "

This is true. Btw I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like ?

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, sure you will miss some but if you never shoot, you’ll never score.

This is true. Btw I like you "

You know I like you too xx

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I like ? "

If marmite don’t know by now then there is no hope for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like ?

If marmite don’t know by now then there is no hope for them "

You’re alright

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol


"If you like someone.

Just tell them.

There.

Easy."

But is it easy......

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton

You get rejected ??

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

This! "
pretty sure rejection dosent happen to you very often x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

He knows x

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton


"I often wonder if i have missed any opportunities because i decided it was safer to keep quiet? More is lost in saying nothing. "
Carpe Diem as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

In my experience, when I have received a rejection its been kind and respectful. Better to know where you stand, or don't, than waste your time and energy on unreciprocated attraction.

Do you reject everyone in the same manner? Ie not delete without replying etc? Just asking because I never look for guys but there definitely seems to be a discrepancy in how they are treated? "

I dont reject everyone in the same manner, no.

I tend to ignore speculative mail from those I havent interacted with via the forum. And just delete as per site rules. Occasionally I get a well constructed, thought out message from someone who has actually read my profile and will offer a polite thanks but no thanks.

The men I interact with on the forums, you can get a sense of whether they like you or not pretty easily, so I tend to concentrate my efforts there, rather than where its not reciprocated.

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By *iscreteguy1287Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected."

Understand it's not gonna happen and move on... Or at least that is what it should happen haha x

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton


"If I like something about someone I’m pretty happy to tell them but it doesn’t mean I fancy them. Fancying is strictly face to face for me "
I like your eyes. How's that ?

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

In my experience, when I have received a rejection its been kind and respectful. Better to know where you stand, or don't, than waste your time and energy on unreciprocated attraction.

Do you reject everyone in the same manner? Ie not delete without replying etc? Just asking because I never look for guys but there definitely seems to be a discrepancy in how they are treated?

I dont reject everyone in the same manner, no.

I tend to ignore speculative mail from those I havent interacted with via the forum. And just delete as per site rules. Occasionally I get a well constructed, thought out message from someone who has actually read my profile and will offer a polite thanks but no thanks.

The men I interact with on the forums, you can get a sense of whether they like you or not pretty easily, so I tend to concentrate my efforts there, rather than where its not reciprocated.

"

Thanks for your answer

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m all ears.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"How do you know if its genuine tho

This is what scares me.

I find it so hard to believe it's genuine. Much easier to just stay quiet and not risk the rejection or the worry that it might be all just a joke to someone.

I've been there and it hurts so much more than initial rejection.

Like every opening mail says 'i really like you..' and I'm like you've never talked to me how can you know "

Yes! This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

I dont think I can take any more rejection

I'm sure you don't get rejected

Erm you would be wrong...rejection isnt just for the men! Equal opportunities n all that!

I might just reach out to someone...."

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on the forum I can tell if anyone's interested. I get ignored,so then I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if its genuine tho

This is what scares me.

I find it so hard to believe it's genuine. Much easier to just stay quiet and not risk the rejection or the worry that it might be all just a joke to someone.

I've been there and it hurts so much more than initial rejection.

Like every opening mail says 'i really like you..' and I'm like you've never talked to me how can you know "

Id like to talk to you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"How do you know if its genuine tho

This is what scares me.

I find it so hard to believe it's genuine. Much easier to just stay quiet and not risk the rejection or the worry that it might be all just a joke to someone.

I've been there and it hurts so much more than initial rejection.

In a not snarky way, this surprises me. I had you down as being quite forward with men you fancy. Sometimes we get it wrong, don't we? "

It depends. I'm flirty, yes, but find it hard to take the actual leap to admit that actually I do fancy a person.

Because that way, terror lies. Sometimes I put my big girl pants on and just bite the bullet, but that's rare.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Been on the forum I can tell if anyone's interested. I get ignored,so then I know."

The forums are a very telling place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told people before and it's not gone as I hoped....so my gobs shut

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm too scared of rejection it's my major downfall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't be scared of rejection because your all very beautiful women in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've told people before and it's not gone as I hoped....so my gobs shut "

But in the long run surely thats better than awaiting someone elses whim to tell you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What if you're like me and just don't like anybody?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

In

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In "

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like someone.

Just tell them.

There.

Easy."

Exactly! If they reject you, nurse your wounded pride for a few minutes then dust yourself off.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection "

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid "

Jeez there is no hope for the rest of us mere mortals then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid "

If you need consoling, hit me up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite comfortable telling people and have done but I often don't let on immediately. I people watch them on the forum for a while first.

Her x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid "

I find that very hard to believe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What if you're like me and just don't like anybody? "

I believe you have learned to love yourself, the ultimate prize!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What if you're like me and just don't like anybody?

I believe you have learned to love yourself, the ultimate prize!"

Well somebody had to love me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid "

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

When I do it, I normally get ignored or told to fuck off... and that’s when I say, hi, how are, how is yr day, I like u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the OP mean on Fab or anywhere? And ‘like’ or ‘fancy’ ?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then. "

^ What he said

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I now will tell someone if I like them. When I first joined and with how big the site is and the number of men I looked at them and thought who the hell will look at me. Some I never approached in fear of rejection and thought (And it's this thing that's been covered before) I'm not in their league. Some I messaged and got rejected but I started using the forums a bit and then a bit more and those who rejected me now showed and interest as I interacted with them and they get to know you that way. And then people I thought wouldn't have an interest did. Confidence grew from that and now I have no fear of telling someone if I like them and if it's a no then that's fine. The forums helped my confidence a lot.

Sorry for waffling on. Carry on folks

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then.

^ What he said "

Guys we can do this, we are winners. We WILL eventually get to feel the warmth of ladies love tunnel once more. Stay strong

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

There’s a great simplicity to this.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I like lots of people. They probably all think I'm an argumentative drama queen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No thanks. I’d rather keep it to myself and be alone.

Why?

Do you prefer being alone?"

No man is an island, except the Isle of Man

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then.

^ What he said

Guys we can do this, we are winners. We WILL eventually get to feel the warmth of ladies love tunnel once more. Stay strong "

I'm not even fussed about that part of it atm , but yes we will get there

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then. "

Ermmm did someone say whiskey??

Where is my invite??

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There’s a great simplicity to this. "

And it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not very good with messaging. I keep getting it wrong and interest comes across as needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like lots of you. You are grrrrreat

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then. "

I’ll join you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then.

Ermmm did someone say whiskey??

Where is my invite??"

You have an open invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then.

I’ll join you "

I like you.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I think this is why I like the FAF threads, very lazy hunting I know. But it works and there are no weird rejection messages involved

You either get a thank you or a lets get it on reply

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In

I bet you don't suffer from rejection

It’s a daily recurrence I’m afraid

*reaches for delete profile button and bottle of whisky*. Then there’s no hope for us mortals then.

Ermmm did someone say whiskey??

Where is my invite??

You have an open invite. "

Ohh that sounds promising x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but what happens if they don't like you back? People don't like being rejected.

Nobody likes being rejected of course, but what's the point of longing for somebody that you will never have anyway because you won't tell them. That is a very trapped and enclosed feeling. Rejection, while it can hurt, frees you from the captivity of ever knowing (but always wanting).

Sure, if they feel the same they should tell you they do... But what if they don't want to be rejected... Its and endless cycle of never having through fear of maybe. "
absolutely this ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Waiting "

Why wait, send a message if you like someone?

In fact, you are a case in point!

I told you I liked you ages ago, you showed no interest, but have always been polite and courteous even when I continue to perve, I mean, look at your thighs!

But did I get all butthurt about it? Nope, theres a glove for every hand xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I now will tell someone if I like them. When I first joined and with how big the site is and the number of men I looked at them and thought who the hell will look at me. Some I never approached in fear of rejection and thought (And it's this thing that's been covered before) I'm not in their league. Some I messaged and got rejected but I started using the forums a bit and then a bit more and those who rejected me now showed and interest as I interacted with them and they get to know you that way. And then people I thought wouldn't have an interest did. Confidence grew from that and now I have no fear of telling someone if I like them and if it's a no then that's fine. The forums helped my confidence a lot.

Sorry for waffling on. Carry on folks "

I am glad it has been a positive experience here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like someone.

Just tell them.

There.

Easy."

What, like adults? That will never happen.

People love to ignore/ delete/ block but if anyone does the same to them.................

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I don't really fancy many people, but I always tell them if I do...I'm no worse off if they don't fancy me back, my ego isn't so large that I can't accept the odd rejection

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Snape: Always

Sorry, my bad, thought we were doing Harry Potter quotes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Snape: Always

Sorry, my bad, thought we were doing Harry Potter quotes"

I wouldnt know!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Snape: Always

Sorry, my bad, thought we were doing Harry Potter quotes"

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We usually do.

After all, shy bairns get nowt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to

Its my secret no one else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tess.

I like you.

I think you're awesome.

But, y'know, just in a friends way

How did I do? "

Posh.

I think I like you

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I refuse to

Its my secret no one else's "

I really really really really like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I refuse to

Its my secret no one else's

I really really really really like you!"

No you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate says you're all fit and will you go with her behind the bus stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mate says you're all fit and will you go with her behind the bus stop? "

No cos she's a slag and she's only doing it to make Ryan jealous!

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