FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people post in threads they have no interest in?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone care to help shed some light?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Anyone care to help shed some light?"

Sorry, I can't help. I have no opinion on this.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Different for each individual.

What makes you think they have no interest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe simply to do with boredom, killing time!

After lock-down is lifted and a level of norm. should resume then peeps will spend less time chit-chatting and more time playing...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because despite saying they have no interest, they are actually heavily invested.

It's the same with people who say "I don't use Facebook"then go on to tell you what's wrong with it. I wonder how they know if they don't use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's a forum open to everyone and they can.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Because it's a forum open to everyone and they can.

This. And also because it's a way to interact with different people.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Because despite saying they have no interest, they are actually heavily invested.

It's the same with people who say "I don't use Facebook"then go on to tell you what's wrong with it. I wonder how they know if they don't use it. "

Yup.

If they don't care about the topic, they at least care about knocking those who do care

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

What was the OP asking again?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Boredom and loneliness I guess they need interaction or just like to create a drama

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

They do have an interest it, be it that they want to tell your opinion is wrong or their own insecurities on a subject. It is how many people work, just the way it is

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I would imagine the fact that we are socialy distant at the moment, some people just need to reach out and feel a part of something. Not everybody on this site has a parner, part of a couple or connected with anybody so, for those people it's the feeling of being part of a social group.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It depends what the topic of the thread is and who has posted on it. Some threads are quite specific, that's why I never venture into the Politics forum, cos I don't do politics, but will occasionally post on a thread that I've read through and find has gone off course and is humorous

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Anyone care to help shed some light?"

They dont and you can tell with the many posts that are not filled.

If its a known member oh yes filled to the brim and closed, an unknown member and it simply gets ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone care to help shed some light?"

I love sheds.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

To keep up their stock so they’re not forgotten. Don’t forget Fab is their whole world and they can’t function without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, not interested in this. Tasmin

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

There are a lot of experts here

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Just to be a pain in the Ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By no interest, do you mean where they disagree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see the avatar of my wife wearing stocking on our bed !!!!

And I also have an opinion at times but not all the time.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I do wonder, especially if it’s a bit of a niche subject that people are quite passionate about. I only post if I have an opinion or to add something to the discussion that’s not been brought up yet.

There’s all sorts of threads that annoy me (especially those ‘let’s be nice today type, as if I have to be told !!) but I don’t comment on them just pass them by.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I don't recall seeing any posts in a thread where the poster says that they aren't interested in the subject matter but here's my thoughts anyway (or words to that effect) - maybe I haven't been paying attention? They may not have a clue about the subject matter but that a whole different thing.

By the way OP, interesting thread, I hope you appreciate my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s vital that people get to hear about my indifference to something I have no interest in.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I think it’s vital that people get to hear about my indifference to something I have no interest in. "

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Anyway I was on the eighth fairway and I took an 8 iron out the bag and ....................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knobheadery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous combustion

According to Dr.Hugo Z Hackenbush,

they are heart scared if they don't have an input,they will spontaneously combust.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I think it’s vital that people get to hear about my indifference to something I have no interest in. "

Also if they don't post in at least 90% of threads, their forum membership gets revoked.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Compulsion.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

By interest so you mean dislike the topic, or contribute nothing to the topic at all other than to tear it down at every turn - statements, not discussion?

I generally dislike football, therfore I don't post or contribute to the threads. I have zero fucks or opinions about it.

I however will jump in and offer a counter opinion or play devil's advocate to threads that give room for discussion that I may not like or agree with.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I do wonder, especially if it’s a bit of a niche subject that people are quite passionate about. I only post if I have an opinion or to add something to the discussion that’s not been brought up yet.

There’s all sorts of threads that annoy me (especially those ‘let’s be nice today type, as if I have to be told !!) but I don’t comment on them just pass them by.

They get up my proverbial Stephanie.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The O.P. is a.w.o.l.........

Someone start a thread....... Why do people start threads and then bugger off for the day ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Sorry, no autographs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got my driver's license last week just like we always talked about.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

There should be the option to kill some threads...they just waste space on the forum..

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Common theme is people post silly subjects cos it gets them noticed, well they hope.

People post to express their on view, don't like when people disagree.

Some post cos they want some sort of group acceptance.

Some you have to contribute to just because they are fun, even if the motives are little bit self serving.

It is what it, just try not to take things too seriously, else forums is probably not the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because despite saying they have no interest, they are actually heavily invested.

It's the same with people who say "I don't use Facebook"then go on to tell you what's wrong with it. I wonder how they know if they don't use it. "

I don’t use Facebook - purely because all the Live laugh loving, frenchie owning, lonsdale trainer wearing, scummy mummy, council estate bellends bang on about it in the school playground - sounds like the internet version of teeside, and i just dont need that in my life

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

For the same reason people answer questions on Amazon with "I don't know"

They are just attention seeking post whores.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Filling the endless void of lockdown life.

Wanting to post inane drivel on the internet.

Because they can.

To offer an opinion on something.

To raise their post count/status from "Forum Newbie" to "Old Timer"

Who knows? Who cares?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"For the same reason people answer questions on Amazon with "I don't know"

They are just attention seeking post whores."

Potato

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the same reason people answer questions on Amazon with "I don't know"

They are just attention seeking post whores.

Potato "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure why I'm posting as I'm not interested why they do that.

Oh wait..

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Anyone care to help shed some light?"

I’ve started finding friends through the forums that’s why.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Boredom

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Because it isn't always clear from a post title what it is about, then the first post is a question so you decide that while you're there you may as well answer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone care to help shed some light?

They dont and you can tell with the many posts that are not filled.

If its a known member oh yes filled to the brim and closed, an unknown member and it simply gets ignored.

Very true

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Another thing.

Why do people start a thread asking a question then don't come back to it?

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Cause there busy

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