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First time at Killing Kittens party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey so a cougar fuck buddy of mine has invited me to a Killing Kittens party when the club's open again and I'm torn. In my mind I think it'll be really hot but on the other I'm of an anxious disposition and struggle to get aroused when I feel that way. Any advice on relaxing and having a good time? Will I be the youngest one there? I'm not a tall guy either at only 5'3" so I feel like I might be a bit out of place...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’ve seen the Don’t fuck with cats documentary so I’d give it a miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol that's what I thought when I first heard about it but apparently it's this big worldwide community run by women for all sorts of sexual exploration...men can only join if they're invited by one of the members

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You must have something going for you to get an invite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey Buxom, yeah I've been quite fortunate in that myself and her get on quite well in general. We both have other partners but I think for her I'm the only one she's actually proper friends with...guess that's the bonus I get for actually getting to know people I sleep with haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's what I thought when I first heard about it but apparently it's this big worldwide community run by women for all sorts of sexual exploration...men can only join if they're invited by one of the members "

Really? I didnt know that

I thought it was just like any other club, anyone can apply to join, but they reject alot of people

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Go to it, see how you feel. If you realy hated it, which I would be shocked at, leave.

Go, find your feet and have a great time.

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

People who start sentences with hey or so need to put down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you would be the youngest just go along and see have a good time someone has invited you like buxom has said you must have something going for you look forward to it don’t over think things too much

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't all attendees have to be "approved" by the club and they have a reputation for only accepting a certain "type"? If so, even if they'd have me, which they wouldn't - it wouldn't be a club I'd want to attend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah idk, all I know is the friend that invited me got accepted into it today and that she's allowed to invite me to one the parties :S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't all attendees have to be "approved" by the club and they have a reputation for only accepting a certain "type"? If so, even if they'd have me, which they wouldn't - it wouldn't be a club I'd want to attend."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who start sentences with hey or so need to put down lol "

Euthenizing the poor lad seems a little strong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah like i said I don't know much about it, just something that came up today

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I wouldn't go. Any club that only allows people they deem attractive enough to be worthy is a bit naff. I like to meet a range of folk whom I might decide I fancy, rather than have it decided for me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Don't overthink it. I've been to a very similar club night and I remember right to the point of me going inside I was so convinced the organiser would say hang on, no, you can't go in, you don't fit the bill. It didn't happen.

On the day itself, even in the run up to it, do things that have you feeling yourself - whether that's a haircut, a good shave, a nice long soak in the bath so your skin is ever so soft to the touch. On the night, don't drink too much, enjoy it and don't have any expectations about anything. Enjoy it for what it is, a chance to get dressed up and have fun.

Next time I go I'm going to stop overthinking as much and talk to people who try and flirt with me and not think I'm fraud.

So tl; dr? Pamper the beep out of yourself and don't overthink it.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Hey so a cougar fuck buddy of mine has invited me to a Killing Kittens party when the club's open again and I'm torn. In my mind I think it'll be really hot but on the other I'm of an anxious disposition and struggle to get aroused when I feel that way. Any advice on relaxing and having a good time? Will I be the youngest one there? I'm not a tall guy either at only 5'3" so I feel like I might be a bit out of place..."

Go for it.... Enjoy it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh is that what it is huh they discriminate on looks? I thought it might be based on what you're into or your ethics or something. That does sound a bit naff...I've enjoyed the company of women of all shapes sizes and ages and each one was special in their own way. I love the diversity in which we live I wouldn't wanna go somewhere that discourages that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh is that what it is huh they discriminate on looks? I thought it might be based on what you're into or your ethics or something. That does sound a bit naff...I've enjoyed the company of women of all shapes sizes and ages and each one was special in their own way. I love the diversity in which we live I wouldn't wanna go somewhere that discourages that"

Rumour has it, yes

That they only accept the beautiful ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ugh that's disgusting conduct...their website makes it sounds like they're empowering women but how does that work it they're not letting women join who don't look a certain way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God here we go again... First off killing kittens is not a club, it’s a community or organization that arranges parties, workshops and events. You OP actually have to be a member of killing kittens to attend a party. But if you aren’t in a couple then only women can invite men to go to parties. Exactly the same as clubs limiting the numbers of single guys to keep the balance. You would not be the youngest, they don’t vet people on looks... they have moved on 10 years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been to a fair few when i lived in london with my playmate, theyre great, no pressure, unsleezy & chilled.

If you get a invite dress to impress and have a good time it lead to some amazing mansion partys. id go to another in a heartbeat and plan too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhhh interesting stuff thanks for the info guys! Guess things must've changed over the years

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I killed a kitten once, very sad but no choice sadly, no RSPCA on Aitutaki

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha lol

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Elitist nonsense.

The thing we have always liked about swinging is the all inclusive nature, everyone big or small, black or white or other.

Gender, look's...

Every club we have been too caters for all sorts and a club night is like box of chocolates a good mixture.

Any club that is so selective that you are pre judged on age ,size and looks is very Logan's run.

Naaa it's a pass from us.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a nice time at ‘stray alley cats’ / a similar thing but slightly lower standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn seems like there's very polarised views about this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and see for yourself. And enjoy. I wouldn't listen to advice from anyone (and especially those who haven't actually experienced it for themselves) as I like to make my own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn seems like there's very polarised views about this place"

All i can say is listen to people that have been. All this about it being 'elitist' you get people from all walks of life all ethnicities and strives of life.

I find kk parties cleaner and a much nicer safer setting.

What you dont get is suspect singles frantically frapping off a inch behind you stinking of fags and b o.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as for advice, relax and have an open mind and don't go with expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sound advice scarlet, I'm also one to judge things for myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ew yeah Gatsby that sounds disgusting, have people no manners

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Great parties. Just go and see for yourself mate.

Life is for living.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Hey so a cougar fuck buddy of mine has invited me to a Killing Kittens party when the club's open again and I'm torn. In my mind I think it'll be really hot but on the other I'm of an anxious disposition and struggle to get aroused when I feel that way. Any advice on relaxing and having a good time? Will I be the youngest one there? I'm not a tall guy either at only 5'3" so I feel like I might be a bit out of place..."
Go for it...you may surprise yourself ..not everybody gets the opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew yeah Gatsby that sounds disgusting, have people no manners "

Im not saying all clubs are like this by any means but ive been to 3 'walk in' clubs and it wasnt our gig whatso ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha I certainly feel like I've lived more than many people my age, never stop exploring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ew yeah Gatsby that sounds disgusting, have people no manners

Im not saying all clubs are like this by any means but ive been to 3 'walk in' clubs and it wasnt our gig whatso ever "

Yeah I guess that applies to all things doesn't it, always a range on the market haha

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Damn seems like there's very polarised views about this place

All i can say is listen to people that have been. All this about it being 'elitist' you get people from all walks of life all ethnicities and strives of life.

I find kk parties cleaner and a much nicer safer setting.

What you dont get is suspect singles frantically frapping off a inch behind you stinking of fags and b o.

"

It seems that have actually been have enjoyed them. And those that have not been have the opposite opinion. Go along op if you get a chance. Then you'll know for yourself. You'll be unlucky if you don't enjoy yourself.

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