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By *adame 2Swords OP Woman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

why do they not wear wedding rings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

I always wear mine

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some do...some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Job?

Steering wheel damage?

Comfort?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

That would give the game away. My female friend met a guy in Fab. He had a big mark on his finger where he had taken his ring off. Swore blind to her he was single. Later admitted he wasn’t. Lol.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

I have never worn one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would give the game away. My female friend met a guy in Fab. He had a big mark on his finger where he had taken his ring off. Swore blind to her he was single. Later admitted he wasn’t. Lol. "

This.

Cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t wear my wedding ring for many years. After baby number 2 it didn’t fit for quite a while then with my work and hobbies it was easier to not wear it.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"why do they not wear wedding rings?

I always wear mine

I don't think you're the target audience here. Your misses knows

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

To be fair I never had a wedding ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly ever wore mine constantly losing it with taking on and off for work and it just wasnt comfy.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time it’s cause they cause skin Irritation and as we are all fully aware married men have very delicate skin.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wear mine. Why shouldn’t I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear mine. Why shouldn’t I? "

Alright Steve, bit defensive

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I wear mine. Why shouldn’t I?

Alright Steve, bit defensive "

Yeah, well. I get a lot of stick sometimes being on here and being married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wear our engagement rings.

We’d probably take it off for a party/long session, but that’s purely because her’s costs too much for a pointless shiny thing and I wouldn’t want it lost/damaged and I have a habit of losing it. Inside someone once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they not wear wedding rings?

I always wear mine

I don't think you're the target audience here. Your misses knows

Shah its meant to be a secret lol

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

What do I know? Hang on what? You are on fab? What the?

Hee hee

Also I put that ring on you can't get it off easily with those knuckles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wore mine on honeymoon but never worn it since. 2 reasons..1st is my job, get a hot spark on gold and it can heat up real quick, and 2nd is it was my dads, and i dont want to scuff it and batter it at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do I know? Hang on what? You are on fab? What the?

Hee hee

Also I put that ring on you can't get it off easily with those knuckles!

Ooh hello, fancy seeing you here,

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

Never have. I don't wear any bling including a watch. Never have, never will.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

I wore one for a bit after I got married and I absolutely detested having this solid bit of metal round my finger. It was so uncomfortable and felt so unnatural. I didn't last more than a few weeks before I just put in a draw. I haven't seen it for years. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All men lie.

To be fair so does everyone else on here.

Mostly to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All men lie."

Not all. Wish I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear mine when doing nice stuff but it’s dangerous for work so I only really put it on when I’m going out somewhere nice.

It’s like a fashion accessory for me.

I have absolutely no issue wearing it, I’ve worn it for the annual lads holiday I go on and the chicks just seem to be even more determined by the sight of it.

One chick even insisted I finger banged her with my wedding finger whilst whispering my vows into her ear.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"All men lie.

I have never lied to anyone, unfortunately that doesn't always make you popular

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"All men lie.

I have never lied to anyone, unfortunately that doesn't always make you popular"

All men don't lie some do some dont like all humans

Peel the onion and find the decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear mine when doing nice stuff but it’s dangerous for work so I only really put it on when I’m going out somewhere nice.

It’s like a fashion accessory for me.

I have absolutely no issue wearing it, I’ve worn it for the annual lads holiday I go on and the chicks just seem to be even more determined by the sight of it.

One chick even insisted I finger banged her with my wedding finger whilst whispering my vows into her ear."

That girl definitely has issues!!

I bet she was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear mine when doing nice stuff but it’s dangerous for work so I only really put it on when I’m going out somewhere nice.

It’s like a fashion accessory for me.

I have absolutely no issue wearing it, I’ve worn it for the annual lads holiday I go on and the chicks just seem to be even more determined by the sight of it.

One chick even insisted I finger banged her with my wedding finger whilst whispering my vows into her ear."

Can confirm that. While on lad's nights out when I was still wed. I would repetitively tap my wedding ring on my pint glass when a woman was flirting with me a little too much for my comfort, nothing wrong with some flirting, but some seem to see it as a challenge. Shrugs. No biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear mine when doing nice stuff but it’s dangerous for work so I only really put it on when I’m going out somewhere nice.

It’s like a fashion accessory for me.

I have absolutely no issue wearing it, I’ve worn it for the annual lads holiday I go on and the chicks just seem to be even more determined by the sight of it.

One chick even insisted I finger banged her with my wedding finger whilst whispering my vows into her ear.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I used to wear mine apart from when doing anything that might damage or lose it (DIY, sport, swimming, diving, etc)

I stopped wearing it when we separated about 5 years ago.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Mr KC doesn't wear one. Never has. Doesn't wear any jewellery or similar at all apart from a watch

It's not that unusual is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to take it off for a mri scan. Wont go back on as its to tight .

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Cause it’s the 21st century and having a little ‘owners’ stamp is so outdated

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Some probably don't even have a ring

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My husband didn't have a ring.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

[Removed by poster at 23/02/21 20:43:44]

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Ultimately a ring means nothing unless there is something behind, such love, but that shouldn't need any symbol. Ring is just a peice of metal

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"What do I know? Hang on what? You are on fab? What the?

Hee hee

Also I put that ring on you can't get it off easily with those knuckles!

He's grateful it's on his finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do I know? Hang on what? You are on fab? What the?

Hee hee

Also I put that ring on you can't get it off easily with those knuckles!

He's grateful it's on his finger

Yep I am bloody lucky!! And I know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not terribly romantic or sentimental about most things but being told he wouldnt wear a ring made me a bit miffed. Good job we never got married! They can be awfully dangerous though, mine have snagged a few times and I know people who have had gruesome accidents with fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t bare jewellery to be honest, plus with my hands on job I’d loose fingers.

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By *lter_ego78Man
over a year ago

wirral

"Job?

Steering wheel damage?

Comfort?

Steering wheel damage? Not heard of that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Job?

Steering wheel damage?

Comfort?

Steering wheel damage? Not heard of that one"

Rocks can cut and tear the wheel.

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By *hesweetcheeksMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I mean does it really matter if they don’t ?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Cause it’s the 21st century and having a little ‘owners’ stamp is so outdated "

This was why I was reluctant to wear my wedding ring. I now wear it pretty much all the time and don't notice it any more.

To me it's just something that catches my eye occasionally that reminds me I've got my hubster in my corner,my rock, my cheerleader and the one that loves me because of our differences. (a poly/mono relationship is hard work - but for us worth it)

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Might be allergic to commitm...... gold!

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"What do I know? Hang on what? You are on fab? What the?

Hee hee

Also I put that ring on you can't get it off easily with those knuckles!

He's grateful it's on his finger

Yep I am bloody lucky!! And I know it

Awwwww. I do think there's an assumption on here that married on a single profile = cheating and they aren't synonymous.

Equally I think people struggle to believe you when you say you aren't cheating anyway.

Ring removal I think for some people is about trying to be someone else or hide it. But not every happily married person wears a ring so you can't draw conclusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Job?

Steering wheel damage?

Comfort?

Steering wheel damage? Not heard of that one

Rocks can cut and tear the wheel. "

Indeed especially alcantara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear mine

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Probably the same reasons as married women don't I'd say.

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Never had one but then again I don’t wear any jewellery not even a watch

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Neither of us like, own or wear jewelry of any description.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Probably the same reasons as married women don't I'd say. "

Was just going to say, not condoning anything don't kill the messenger, there is a tendency to assume it is all the preserve of males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t wear mine due to job, have caught wedding ring whilst working nearly lost my finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

I never wore one day to day cause of my work but always wore it if we went out, until I discovered the silicone rings now it can stay on all the time

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"why do they not wear wedding rings?

I never wore one day to day cause of my work but always wore it if we went out, until I discovered the silicone rings now it can stay on all the time

Where are you wearing this silicone ring all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are you wearing this silicone ring all the time

left hand lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

Same for married women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rings are incredibly dangerous at work - and remember you don't only do work at work you DIYers! I never really took the H&S posters very seriously till a mate had is ring finger almost completely ripped off while I was on shift - pretty horrible to see and although they saved it they never got the finger working properly again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are lots of reasons, some honourable some less so

It all comes down to personal choice and not everyone wants someone who's attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the time it’s cause they cause skin Irritation and as we are all fully aware married men have very delicate skin. "

I lolled at this more than I should have

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"Rings are incredibly dangerous at work - and remember you don't only do work at work you DIYers! I never really took the H&S posters very seriously till a mate had is ring finger almost completely ripped off while I was on shift - pretty horrible to see and although they saved it they never got the finger working properly again."

Just this and if squashed can be a real problem so just not worth it. But will generally where it when out shopping or to the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they not wear wedding rings?"

So they think what if they come across mrs slow

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"I didn’t wear my wedding ring for many years. After baby number 2 it didn’t fit for quite a while then with my work and hobbies it was easier to not wear it. "

You look amazing would never believe you’d had kids

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Where are you wearing this silicone ring all the time

left hand lol

Sorry I have genuinely never heard of silicone rings for hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are you wearing this silicone ring all the time

left hand lol

Sorry I have genuinely never heard of silicone rings for hands"

Less than a tenner and dont cause any issues with weights, sports or tools and if you're not a fan of jewelry or wearing metal the colours available are very subtle aswell, leas subtle colours available too

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By *reg.worcsMan
over a year ago

worcester

most men married in the 60's or 70's dont wear wedding rings .It wasnt fashionable back then.

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