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By *rad670 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

This is something I have never had and do wish to experience being one of very few things I have never done. I would go to great lengths just to experience it however it never really looks like the giver is enjoying the experience and usually looks quite brutal and this would put me off if it was hurting or uncomfortable as I only do things that are pleasurable for both and couldn't bear the thought of hurting someone for my own pleasure. Is this the case or is there enjoyment to be had both ways? Have any males ever experienced it and not enjoyed it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't hurt. I love it. There should only be enjoyment there I agree. But there are females and males that love a cock in their throat. For m me its a dominance thing, makes you light headed in a an amazing way and I love how messy it is. I hope you find someone who enjoys it so you can experience it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something I have never had and do wish to experience being one of very few things I have never done. I would go to great lengths just to experience it however it never really looks like the giver is enjoying the experience and usually looks quite brutal and this would put me off if it was hurting or uncomfortable as I only do things that are pleasurable for both and couldn't bear the thought of hurting someone for my own pleasure. Is this the case or is there enjoyment to be had both ways? Have any males ever experienced it and not enjoyed it? "

To tell you the thruth i dont enjoy it, headplay is what does it for me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not painful but it is quite intense as you can't breath. Personally I get off on it being a bit brutal but that's a personal thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not painful but it is quite intense as you can't breath. Personally I get off on it being a bit brutal but that's a personal thing. "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It doesn't always have to be brutal - that's often the way it's depicted in porn (much like CFNM is shown in a humiliation/Domme way). It can be hot if it's part of more intense foreplay but equally it can be sexy in a sensual, intimate way as part of a good long sloppy blowjob - there's something really sexy about being able to take a full length in my mouth and look at a man as I do so.

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By *rad670 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"It doesn't hurt. I love it. There should only be enjoyment there I agree. But there are females and males that love a cock in their throat. For m me its a dominance thing, makes you light headed in a an amazing way and I love how messy it is. I hope you find someone who enjoys it so you can experience it "

That's actually good to know it can be enjoyed by the giver, it just looks very uncomfortable most of the time. Thank you for your perspective on it as it makes me feel better for wanting to experience it, I do struggle when I think I have hurt someone in the past, it has had it's amusing moments with the "no, no, ow, fuck stop" followed by the "why have you stopped" just confuses me and I struggle with rough sex.

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By *rad670 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"It doesn't always have to be brutal - that's often the way it's depicted in porn (much like CFNM is shown in a humiliation/Domme way). It can be hot if it's part of more intense foreplay but equally it can be sexy in a sensual, intimate way as part of a good long sloppy blowjob - there's something really sexy about being able to take a full length in my mouth and look at a man as I do so."

And I have a very sexy vision of that in my mind now.

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's something I very much enjoy receiving, both from the obvious physical pleasure it gives, but also as much from the often submissive nature of it. I once had a play partner who spent a good couple of months practicing and training herself to do it (as part of a sub/dom relationship), which was an incredibly powerful thing for her to do for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something I have never had and do wish to experience being one of very few things I have never done. I would go to great lengths just to experience it however it never really looks like the giver is enjoying the experience and usually looks quite brutal and this would put me off if it was hurting or uncomfortable as I only do things that are pleasurable for both and couldn't bear the thought of hurting someone for my own pleasure. Is this the case or is there enjoyment to be had both ways? Have any males ever experienced it and not enjoyed it? "

The giver goes to great lengths too, you can have that one!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Whether I deep throat or not depends on the girth and shape of the penis.

I've easily managed an 8.5 inch penis that wasn't thick, but struggled with a 6 inch very thick penis and ones that bend upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if I was too big ( ), but thecladtvtimevi received, I found it a little painful. Just a bit too tight on my sensitive bits!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I like the feeling as it slips past my uvula, down into my throat, repeatedly.

I only do it if I'm confident the man will let me up for air if I tap out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, if you think it usually looks quite brutal, why are you so keen to do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a submissive and love giving messy, deep throat BJ’s.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

If the person giving it lies with their head hanging off the bed they'll find it much easier to give OP

Deleted first post as typed parson instead of person

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's only enjoyment from giving deep throat. If you've seen something different in porn, it's perhaps to show a different dynamic or kink. You'll not know how it feels until you have had it several times, probably from several people. Like anything, your experience and enjoyment can vary day to day. If the giver is especially needing to give it, you may get a lot more from it than from the equivalent of a human sucking tube.

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By *rad670 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Op, if you think it usually looks quite brutal, why are you so keen to do it?"

Hence my asking for real opinions rather than take porn as the benchmark, as I have mentioned I'm not into giving or recieving pain but have always wanted to experience DT and would not even consider it if it would be painful or uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, if you think it usually looks quite brutal, why are you so keen to do it?

Hence my asking for real opinions rather than take porn as the benchmark, as I have mentioned I'm not into giving or recieving pain but have always wanted to experience DT and would not even consider it if it would be painful or uncomfortable."

So will others opinions stop you thinking of it as something brutal in your mind?

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By *rad670 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Op, if you think it usually looks quite brutal, why are you so keen to do it?

Hence my asking for real opinions rather than take porn as the benchmark, as I have mentioned I'm not into giving or recieving pain but have always wanted to experience DT and would not even consider it if it would be painful or uncomfortable.

So will others opinions stop you thinking of it as something brutal in your mind?"

Yes and I should know better than to think things are portrayed in a real fashion in porn, as most people have now said it is pleasurable to give I would have no problem if given the chance to experience it, it's a good example of why the forum is here and I'm thankful for the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect, or a banana a day keeps the gagging away

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