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Do cats sincerely love you back or..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are they just devious sneekycreepies that play you like a fiddle for fuss and comfort?

I like to believe that mine love me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Course they love you.

But with cats, you belong to them. They like to retain an image of aloof independence. But really they love you. They just play it cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Course they love you.

But with cats, you belong to them. They like to retain an image of aloof independence. But really they love you. They just play it cool."

Its cool for cats. Wait a minute, I've just had a song idea.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We want animals, especially those that we love, to have the same emotions and relationship qualities that we do. It's unrealistic, probably. We've evolved differently. I've had cats that seemed devoted and loving. But I think that we probably misinterpret their devotion and dedication to us. It's not to say that our love is superior, potentially their emotional bond to us is that

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They go where the good food is.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Dogs have masters. Cats have staff.

Ed

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

They’re evil geniuses.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Course they love you.

But with cats, you belong to them. They like to retain an image of aloof independence. But really they love you. They just play it cool."

That’s right, cats truly believe they own you and if they bring you live animals it’s because they are trying to train you to hunt. I’m not sure my cats love me , we certainly have a complex relationship !

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

My kitten thinks I'm his mummy. He follows me everywhere. Hes just had a few days in the pet hospital with pneumonia and is now even more clingy but I still think I love him more than he loves me x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A definite bond can be forged between humans and animals but love means something very different to an animal than a human

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We want animals, especially those that we love, to have the same emotions and relationship qualities that we do. It's unrealistic, probably. We've evolved differently. I've had cats that seemed devoted and loving. But I think that we probably misinterpret their devotion and dedication to us. It's not to say that our love is superior, potentially their emotional bond to us is that "

Deep. But

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dogs have masters. Cats have staff.

Ed"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Course they love you.

But with cats, you belong to them. They like to retain an image of aloof independence. But really they love you. They just play it cool.

That’s right, cats truly believe they own you and if they bring you live animals it’s because they are trying to train you to hunt. I’m not sure my cats love me , we certainly have a complex relationship ! "

Had many mouse offerings sadly. Always rescue them if they're savable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A definite bond can be forged between humans and animals but love means something very different to an animal than a human "

Humans love one another from chemistry (attraction) kindness, selflessness, and mindfulness. Wonder what makes a cat tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cats (and probably all animals, pets I mean) are incredibly special and grow to have unique bonds with us.

I grew up with a pet cat from the age of two. Who was so very gentle. My parents secretly got rid of her and told me she went to ‘live on a farm’.

Then another from when I was 11 -21, she was an amazing character. Used to steal fish from the next door neighbours pond and leave them as gifts for me on the back door.

Finally, I was lucky to meet Tiger at the cats rescue centre, very very shy at first but took a shine to me and she honestly helped me (obviously without knowing) through some difficult growing up as a young person.

Cats are brilliant and all have unique personalities.

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Ours cuddles up to you then starts play fighting and biting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours cuddles up to you then starts play fighting and biting lol"

Oh yes, play nibbles. Still ouch though.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

My kitten is a angel she snuggles under the blankets with us craves attention and is so sweet .My Tom is a grumpy miserable selfish old man that does what he wants when he wants but we love him unconditionally anyway.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

A University study determined couple of years ago that cats are gods and own us, we are their servents

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My kitten is a angel she snuggles under the blankets with us craves attention and is so sweet .My Tom is a grumpy miserable selfish old man that does what he wants when he wants but we love him unconditionally anyway."

My Tom is best described as awkward. He sits next to me giving you love eyes, but if I pick him up. He wriggles and claws you within 3 seconds. Wierdo.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Cat's are like women, you can never take their love and affection for granted. You have to constantly re-affirm your affections for them and you're always working to retain their love!

And giving them nice little treats to eat helps!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

To an extent yes but I'm under no illusion that if someone else took him in and fed him he would even look back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they are furry evil overlords who view you as nothing more than a butler who brings food

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"Cat's are like women, you can never take their love and affection for granted. You have to constantly re-affirm your affections for them and you're always working to retain their love!

And giving them nice little treats to eat helps! "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think mine love me, they are so cute and snuggly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine hates me but she’s gone def now or she just can’t be assed to listen to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Ancient Egyptians worshipped them with good reason.

I lost one of my 5 yesterday and feel it keenly, and the others have been clingy and subdued.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

No, they are just oafs who conspire to destroy your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In their own way they do. Ours is an independent wee madam who doesn't like cuddles. Only time she's willingly came and showed me affection is when I got some bad news last year and was sitting by myself quite upset. She came over and cooried into my lap and gazed up at me. They understand far more than we give them credit for.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Cats do not love you.

Nor does any other animal love you.

I do realise I am working on my definition of love .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Cat's are like women, you can never take their love and affection for granted. You have to constantly re-affirm your affections for them and you're always working to retain their love!

And giving them nice little treats to eat helps! "

like mice ?

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"Cat's are like women, you can never take their love and affection for granted. You have to constantly re-affirm your affections for them and you're always working to retain their love!

And giving them nice little treats to eat helps!

like mice ?"

Yes I love them. Especially on toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know how we love them because they’re our pet?

That’s literally reversed. We’re their pet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they just devious sneekycreepies that play you like a fiddle for fuss and comfort?

I like to believe that mine love me."

A dog looks up and sees the person who feeds him, tends to him when ill, and treats him well and thinks YOU MUST BE GOD.

A cat looks up and sees the person who feeds him, tends him when ill and treats him well and thinks I MUST BE GOD.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently, Churchill once said, "Dogs look up to you, cats look down on you, but pigs treat you as equals"

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