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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too??

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Never no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not even as Desperate Dan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! But I leave hang hoping I will add them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too?? "

Not sure I have ever had any!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no and wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

My profile says I won't but they still send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Never understood the thought process behind those who send random requests out.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Nope, clearly say I won't on my profile but still they come... Oh yep cause they probably haven't read it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

Never understood the thought process behind those who send random requests out. "
Exactly This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I won’t accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope !

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Nope, clearly say I won't on my profile but still they come... Oh yep cause they probably haven't read it "

You have writing on your profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and my profile clearly states I wont accept random friend requests. I do leave them there for a week in the hope they will mesagae, other deleted and blocked as can't follow a simple request.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend. "

I have been known to do this from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.

I have been known to do this from time to time."

Lol... aybe I'm missing a trick, i just delete all mine

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By *awksordMan
over a year ago

Wirral.

Yes I accept most of them. You can always block them.

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By *t9090Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nope delete straight away

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.

I have been known to do this from time to time.

Lol... aybe I'm missing a trick, i just delete all mine"

If I wanna peep on the sly without them knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.

I have been known to do this from time to time.

Lol... aybe I'm missing a trick, i just delete all mine"

You might as well. If they’re rude enough to request without saying hey, you might as well look before rejecting. Unless they don’t have any or are not attractive, in which case it’s a block, then delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too?? "

Reading through the replies looks like most wouldn’t.

I would you always delete and block if required.

Maybe I’m too trusting.....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It's funny a profile will have no pics yet demand to see my friends pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

No

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

Nope don’t know why people send them when they have never spoken. We get loads but never accept one yet and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accidentally sent an invite to an unknown. The button is right next to “add to hotlist”. Was too embarrassed to message and explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only accept them briefly when the sender is offline to peek at their pics and then remove them as a friend. Usually only cock pics anyway

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do. I imagine them with their cock in their hand ready to see some filth. They click on my Friends pics and see my finger in my pie.....

And then they quickly Unfriend me.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yeah I do. I imagine them with their cock in their hand ready to see some filth. They click on my Friends pics and see my finger in my pie.....

And then they quickly Unfriend me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only accept them briefly when the sender is offline to peek at their pics and then remove them as a friend. Usually only cock pics anyway

Her x"

That's the bit i don't get lol.. You know it's just cock, so why bother?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whys it always blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too?? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do then wait until they’re offline and have a peek at their profiles then remove them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whys it always blokes "

We get couples, women, trans and guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do then wait until they’re offline and have a peek at their profiles then remove them! "

I do this often. Dont know why people bother sending me friends requests cause I've nae private pictures

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Nope not unless im intetested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging. "

* Quickly deletes request *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.

* Quickly deletes request * "

Can you do that?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

No never

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend. "

Hands up I am actually guilty of this

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.

* Quickly deletes request *

Can you do that?"

No idea

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Nope, clearly say I won't on my profile but still they come... Oh yep cause they probably haven't read it

You have writing on your profile?? "

I know amazing right

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Nope, clearly say I won't on my profile but still they come... Oh yep cause they probably haven't read it

You have writing on your profile??

I know amazing right "

Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a friend request?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No, never. My friends list is kept purely for people who I have met in person & actually consider to be friends, I say this on my profile, but of course most don't bother to read that

I don't delete requests though, just leave them sitting pending as it stops them being able to send another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.

* Quickly deletes request *

Can you do that?

No idea "

I admit to doing it once when tipsy then being horrified about it. There was no way to delete it.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Nope, never. I think those that do send them out have completely no understanding of what the website is about and forget a real human is on the other side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if their profile reads well and we share similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.

I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.

That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.

I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.

That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot."

It's a good comedy

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.

I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.

That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot."

Nah 2 things, really either they are using friends list as some kinda verifications, more friends etc.

But on our couples profile it was primarily picture hunters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.

I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.

That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot.

It's a good comedy "

I've got a couple more in the pipeline just for you haha

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Never accept random requests, still have some from ages ago

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.

* Quickly deletes request *

Can you do that?

No idea

I admit to doing it once when tipsy then being horrified about it. There was no way to delete it. "

Tip 1. Dr*nk and fab dont mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, but it went against my core principles, but my curiosity got the better of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.

I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.

That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot.

Nah 2 things, really either they are using friends list as some kinda verifications, more friends etc.

But on our couples profile it was primarily picture hunters"

That seems mad to me. Surely if you want pictures just google them? There's plenty of amateur porn out there if that's your thing..

There's nowt queer as folk

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nope, never. My friends list is only for people I’ve met or intend to meet. Randos who want to perv at my friends only pics and vids can do one.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes i was curious, they were not on line at the time . Had a look not for me/ us unfriended straight away.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Had 2 today. Never spoke to them so deleted. They're only being nosey. My friends list is just that. Friends or people I've met or intend to

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No, it's just weird sending random friend requests.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.

I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. If they cannot be arsed to make an effort to chat to us for a while before sending a request i cannot be arsed to add them as a friend. Do not understand their logic in sending a friend request without even attempting to chat. John

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW


"Nope delete straight away"

Mmmmmmmm in that case I’ll just perv at the public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll accept when they're off line and have a look.

A few have stayed as friends and ended up in meets

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW


"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.

I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests

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If your interest in someone a nice introductory message and a face pic is always going to get a more favourable response hun and read their profile as people sometimes as you to use a certain word in your message to prove you read the profile. That way you should get a response even if it’s a no thank you. At least you will know either way. Most folk just ignore or delete requests from someone they haven’t swapped a t least a few messages with.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Completely pointless. They are just after your friends only pictures.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I receive a lot of friends invites which I just delete more often than not. If they specifically ask to be friends I always ask “why? What have you got that id really want to see”!

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Nope never do

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Wait till they are off line add quick perv through thier private pics then block play em at their own game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the profile sending it whether I’ll accept or not. Yes, it’s lazy to send a request without chatting, but it has led places in the past on my previous profiles.

Bear in mind I have men blocked, so the handful of unrequited requests I’d get in a year aren’t like the numbers women and couples would

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow


"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.

I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests

If your interest in someone a nice introductory message and a face pic is always going to get a more favourable response hun and read their profile as people sometimes as you to use a certain word in your message to prove you read the profile. That way you should get a response even if it’s a no thank you. At least you will know either way. Most folk just ignore or delete requests from someone they haven’t swapped a t least a few messages with. "

Its more they message me, or continue liking my pics so I give them an add and they don't accept.

Slightly confusing, but I'd never just randomly add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Completely pointless. They are just after your friends only pictures. "

Thats why our other pics are set to private

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.

I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests

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Hotlist them instead and you can see their updates on that feed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.

I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests

Hotlist them instead and you can see their updates on that feed x"

Oooh, you be a crafty and sensible one.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. It deters me from wanting to know them. I think some gyys mix it up with adding you to their hotlist, with the added bonus of some extra photos for wank fodder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It deters me from wanting to know them. I think some gyys mix it up with adding you to their hotlist, with the added bonus of some extra photos for wank fodder "

I use my hotlist for this. If I want to chat and don't have a first message in my mind straight away I'll add someone to my hotlist. Or, if I know it's not going to happen (say geography wise) then I might add so I can have a little perv every now and again.

I only add people as friends if we've spoken for a while and I wouldn't feel awkward adding them.

In my head, my little litmus test is, if you wouldn't feel comfortable answering the question "Erm..Why have you added me?" then don't add them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do - so long as they are photo verified as who they claim to be and have a good selection of photos we'd be tempted. However you have to have one or 2 public to entice us

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I do but obviously I check their profile 1st then decide if you accept or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because it will mean I have 2 friends on fab then.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept everyone as im needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope instant delete and if they carry on trying i block with a note saying irritating c**t for future reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s funny to get them from men with no photos, not a lot of info on profile and a friend request out of the blue.

Always ignore them.

Now if a lady does it then it may be different

#thinkwithmydick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No absolutely not,and as it says on our profile,any sent from someone we haven't met,a private note will be put on their profile,saying so,and should they send any correspondence at a later date,it will be ignored,unopened.

Which is a shame,as we have had to ignore some lovely profiles over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive complained about this a few times and raised it in the fab site suggestions. The responses implied i was getting my knickers in a twist about something so small. So from there i just ignore ppl who send unsolicited friend request. What more can you do?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too?? "

Nope and we won't. We like to exchange face pictures and have a chat before we even contemplate on accepting friend requests.

Dont stop people sending them though

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

No

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No and we don't exchange any pictures until we have chatted.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I'm still waiting on my first friend request xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. And as a rule I never send a request, which I feel should come from the woman when she's ready.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, says I don't on profile and I don't even have friends only pictures so really have no idea why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No, I have around 25 + pending (probably just want to see my friends only pictures) I don’t delete too often so they can’t send another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its an instant delete of the request.

if they do it again without chatting then they get blocked

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By *ristenloveCouple
over a year ago

London

We only accept friendrequest from ladies and couples

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Funny that I only ever get these from guys, half of them from Str8 guys lol.... Instant delete....

Just take the time to send a brief introductory email at the very least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I'm not bothered about getting attention and pic collectors do nothing for me.

So what's the point.

Those I consider friends are on my friends list not strangers x

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