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By *hloe sussex OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Notice when you look at a couple’s profile and there pics 90 percent of the pics are of the female , and an occasional willy pic of the guy lol now I appreciate the female form is normally more pleasing to the eye ( sorry guys ) but spread the love guys be brave and put a few of your pics in there too lol

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"Notice when you look at a couple’s profile and there pics 90 percent of the pics are of the female , and an occasional willy pic of the guy lol now I appreciate the female form is normally more pleasing to the eye ( sorry guys ) but spread the love guys be brave and put a few of your pics in there too lol "

I'm too shy

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

When I ask couples why there are none or only the odd photo of men on their profile, their most common reply is that their husband is shy. Not too shy to have sex with a stranger though

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

On our couples profile there are definitely more of me but plenty of him so you can see what we look like, I find it odd when both expect to play but no pics of Mr are sent.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Notice when you look at a couple’s profile and there pics 90 percent of the pics are of the female , and an occasional willy pic of the guy lol now I appreciate the female form is normally more pleasing to the eye ( sorry guys ) but spread the love guys be brave and put a few of your pics in there too lol "

People put the pictures on for different reasons some as a brag.

Others because it attracts more views.

Lots only really want to meet the woman.

A picture of an old fat bald guy and his cock doesnt really do it for most on here puts more off than it attracts

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

But it wastes people's time. Chatting with the hope of compatibility, only to find that there is no physical attraction. I don't get it.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I find it very frustrating when a profile only has pics of the female half, surely there needs to be an attraction for all involved?

We always try to have a pretty even mix of pics of us both (currently hidden though as we are not looking for meets at the moment)

K

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By *hloe sussex OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"When I ask couples why there are none or only the odd photo of men on their profile, their most common reply is that their husband is shy. Not too shy to have sex with a stranger though "
or to post pics of his wife the hypocrite lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They have their reasons but we avoid.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have a good mix of each of us and quite a few together too

We never quite understand why profiles have hardly any male pics, if they are playing...if not and just watching then fine.

But everyone uses their profile differently...

K

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

FAB is a shop-front you are more likely to go inside If there is something nice in the window, even if the inside is full of tat.

If there is something less pleasing to the eye in the window, you less likely to go inside even if the inside contains lots of wonderful things.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"FAB is a shop-front you are more likely to go inside If there is something nice in the window, even if the inside is full of tat.

If there is something less pleasing to the eye in the window, you less likely to go inside even if the inside contains lots of wonderful things.

"

Wouldn't you be disappointed if you liked what was in the shop window but there wasn't anything inside you wanted?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's disappointing the amount of couples who want to meet other couples and there's no male pics on their profile.

As a straight female, I feel like I'm not important to those types of profiles, so I pass them by. It's up to them what they use on their profile sure, but shows me we are not compatible.

I get couples who only meet men, only having the lady on display, but if we get a message from a couple with no pics of the male, we delete. Why? Because experience has shown more than once that by the time I finally see a pic of the male, there's no attraction to him for me.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This is referring to my couple profile, when we look to meet.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We find you can do more with a woman's body in terms of pictures, plus there is a bigger variety in outfits. We've got some ideas for Mr that we'll try that aren't just the predictable dick pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The woman are used as bait a lot of the time.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Mine's away a lot of the year and we still manage to get photos of us both. We also only meet together for most meets (except exceptional, already met circumstances), so verifications have met us both.

If there's no pictures of the male in a couple, as a female with a straight husband... what gives me any incentive to show interest? Yes your wife may be hot, but that doesn't mean I'm going to fancy you both or "take one for the team"

Couples are a package deal

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

[Removed by poster at 22/02/21 12:48:38]

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I don't consider myself a bad looking guy for my age, carrying few extra lockdown pounds, but reasonably fit, we are very active.

My OH is very attractive lady. Her on the profile get 100s views and messages, put me on the profile that would drop by about 90% plus. Which makes meeting compatible people quite difficult, before we get into interests etc.

We are not actively meeting even pre or post covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who would like fun with both parties with a couple, I think its crap and turns me off.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion Simply putting forward a viewpoint with respect to the OPs post as to why guys don't put pictures/or many on couples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn’t about shyness for us - hopefully that is clear from our pics. We try and keep a balance of sorts between the two of us, but her pics attract much more attention than his.

Like others we skip profiles which have no pics of him as we assume he is hiding for a reason and we want this to be about sharing.

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