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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see comments about guys 'lasting for hours' and my immediate thought is would anyone actually want to be shagged for hours?

Where does the threshold lie between sex being enjoyable and fun and sex becoming just laborious?

Is there an optimal shag window?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see comments about guys 'lasting for hours' and my immediate thought is would anyone actually want to be shagged for hours?

Where does the threshold lie between sex being enjoyable and fun and sex becoming just laborious?

Is there an optimal shag window? "

I'm talking a single shag, not a series of shags say over the process of an overnight meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had optimal shag windows installed last year but they still mist up on a cold day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My optimal shag windows are annoying as they need constant updates and the subscription only lasts a year.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I used to have Shag Windows until the upgrade to Windows 10 was available.

To answer the OP though, it varies from person to person. Some women need a long time to build up, others want to crack on.

Personally I just think rather than claiming to be able to go for a long time, I will adapt and go with what the lady wants or needs in the situation. I never want to leave a lady unsatisfied, and rarely have since joining the swinging game. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More seriously OP, as they say in gambling adverts, when the fun stops, stop. Once sex become more about performing than pleasure I think the shag window starts to close.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Roughly about 30 minutes to 45 minutes max (including foreplay). Not set in stone.

Longer sessions I like a tea break in between.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I see comments about guys 'lasting for hours’ ...."

There’s a chance, just a chance that people put on their profile what they think will get them laid most easily rather than the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they count orgasms and push you for one more.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I tend not to think of "shagging" as the aim of sex, more just an element of the whole - so as such don't have an optimal time for it.

Even looking at the overall experience I don't think there's an "optimal" time beyond the time it takes for all involved to be content - and that may vary not only from person to person, but also occasion to occasion. I've had wholly satisfying (for all) experiences that have lasted minutes, and others that have been a lot longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want any aspect of sex to last for hours as my attention span would definitely get distracted and I could get sore.

Natural breaks, cuddles, chats, snacks, kisses, snuggling up and wandering hands, building up of passion to have sex again... that's what I like and this aspect could go on for hours or has gone on all night.

Her x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

As soon as the bolt has been shot, the window slams shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I like hours off fun with brakes inbween no harm in 10-15 minutes brakes with cuddling talk giggling and such

I think it’s more to do with the time it takes me to get ready rather than have sex for long periods off time

Takes me a day and bit to get ready for a meet or

Shave the night before and maybe fake tan all depends on if that’s the look they want if they say not bothed then I normally skip the fake tan

Then takes me a hour to a hour and hafe before meet to get make up and such on

lot off time wasted for a 3-7 minute pump and splat and run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lasting for hours and heavy cummers total turn off.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I like to see the “fruit of my labour” so I prefer a repeater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that include foreplay? For me foreplay lasts longer than the actual fuck itself but i don't think that's a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see comments about guys 'lasting for hours' and my immediate thought is would anyone actually want to be shagged for hours?

Where does the threshold lie between sex being enjoyable and fun and sex becoming just laborious?

Is there an optimal shag window? "

We only have their Word that they Excel.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I see comments about guys 'lasting for hours' and my immediate thought is would anyone actually want to be shagged for hours?

Where does the threshold lie between sex being enjoyable and fun and sex becoming just laborious?

Is there an optimal shag window?

We only have their Word that they Excel. "

Maybe not if they operate in Teams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see comments about guys 'lasting for hours' and my immediate thought is would anyone actually want to be shagged for hours?

Where does the threshold lie between sex being enjoyable and fun and sex becoming just laborious?

Is there an optimal shag window? "

“Optimal shag window” Hahaa

Not thought about It before. A constant in and out for hours would be a nightmare i reckon! Would get in my tits, and not in a good way. Whilst I had a gorgeous 5 hour session with a meet, it was broken up with play, chat, laughs. I wouldn’t want to be shagged for 5 hours non stop. Nope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only have their Word that they Excel. "

Would a PowerPoint help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a chance, just a chance that people put on their profile what they think will get them laid most easily rather than the truth"

Adam, are you suggesting that people may have fluid standards of honesty on their profiles? Perish the thought...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Shag induced coma from monotonous, robotic bumping isn't something I long for. 1 guy asked me if I was 'bored yet?'. I sensed partner boredom was a typical experience for him. I've never wanted a cheap fucking machine that goes through the motions, so don't engage with those who want to deliver the equivalent.

Monotony doesn't build peaks of fulfilment but can wear you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimal shag window.

From dry to avoiding the wet patch - approx 30 to 45 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought "

That's from dry innit. It includes the 40 minute conversation "do you wanna shag" "yeah if you do" "are you sure" "yeah I haven't had a shag in 6 months so got blue balls" "my fanny is dry you might not like it" "I'd fuck an apple pie if I could find one" "ooh I like apple pie" "really so do I" "do you have it with custard" "depends really" "ice cream is good" "vanilla" "yeah" "it's good innit" "yeah" "well wanna shag then" "I suppose so" (grunt pump grunt pump) "thanks luv see ya!!"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Optimal shag window.

From dry to avoiding the wet patch - approx 30 to 45 minutes. "

Durex advise their condoms to be used in up to a 30 min window

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought

That's from dry innit. It includes the 40 minute conversation "do you wanna shag" "yeah if you do" "are you sure" "yeah I haven't had a shag in 6 months so got blue balls" "my fanny is dry you might not like it" "I'd fuck an apple pie if I could find one" "ooh I like apple pie" "really so do I" "do you have it with custard" "depends really" "ice cream is good" "vanilla" "yeah" "it's good innit" "yeah" "well wanna shag then" "I suppose so" (grunt pump grunt pump) "thanks luv see ya!!""

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I made the mistake of 2 meets in one day. Both young, both really long stamina, 2 hrs each. It was so boring, I was doing mental food shopping lists

I'd say about 10 mins will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought

That's from dry innit. It includes the 40 minute conversation "do you wanna shag" "yeah if you do" "are you sure" "yeah I haven't had a shag in 6 months so got blue balls" "my fanny is dry you might not like it" "I'd fuck an apple pie if I could find one" "ooh I like apple pie" "really so do I" "do you have it with custard" "depends really" "ice cream is good" "vanilla" "yeah" "it's good innit" "yeah" "well wanna shag then" "I suppose so" (grunt pump grunt pump) "thanks luv see ya!!""

That's how all my sex happens

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought "

You just have to half it really - Take into account the 5 minutes of windmilling the cock in excited anticipation, 5 minutes waiting for them to stop drooling, that soon eats into the sexy time

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought

You just have to half it really - Take into account the 5 minutes of windmilling the cock in excited anticipation, 5 minutes waiting for them to stop drooling, that soon eats into the sexy time "

Don't forget the 5 mins of blowing on the nutsack and laughing in excited awe at it doing the ball dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When one window closes a back door opens.

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I’ll get me coat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lasting for hours and heavy cummers total turn off. "

This. Also saying they want to “Lick you for hours”

Ouch. No thanks. If it’s done properly it certainly won’t take hours!

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want any aspect of sex to last for hours as my attention span would definitely get distracted and I could get sore.

Natural breaks, cuddles, chats, snacks, kisses, snuggling up and wandering hands, building up of passion to have sex again... that's what I like and this aspect could go on for hours or has gone on all night.

Her x"

You had me at snacks

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"45 minutes

I'm wheezing at the thought

You just have to half it really - Take into account the 5 minutes of windmilling the cock in excited anticipation, 5 minutes waiting for them to stop drooling, that soon eats into the sexy time

Don't forget the 5 mins of blowing on the nutsack and laughing in excited awe at it doing the ball dance "

Yep! Forgot that, it’s been so long...

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