FabSwingers.com forum: Friends - Doing something wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have some very beautiful woman on my friends list.. They delete any message I send them or don't reply.. Yet they stay friends with me and fab all my photos I upload.

Is it just me? Do other guys experience the same?

It's a shame because I'd really love tk talk to them! Especially if they like my photos.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that's a strange situation... People on my friends list are those I possibly intend on meeting post lockdown and enjoy talking too. Every couple of weeks, I go through and unfriend anyone I haven't spoken to recently. I wouldn't delete messages from those friends...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe they're not interested in online chat, or otherwise the content of your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have some very beautiful woman on my friends list.. They delete any message I send them or don't reply.. Yet they stay friends with me and fab all my photos I upload.

Is it just me? Do other guys experience the same?

It's a shame because I'd really love tk talk to them! Especially if they like my photos. "

They do it because they want you to fab their pictures in the hopes of climbing up the leaderboard of top pics. I've seen it time and time again....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Well I’d have defriended them by now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all.. Guess I thought I was lucky for a change!

Think I see their true intentions now.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We only have people on our friends list that we chat to and have met up with... If it bothers you then just delete them

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have these beautiful women fabbed the pic of your cock and NHS uniform ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have these beautiful women fabbed the pic of your cock and NHS uniform ?"

Fabbed my photos prior to me uploading any uniform pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them. "

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Use the site for what you want, if you are happy to see the friends pics of untouchable hotties then crack on but understand its their rules you play that game by not yours. I play by my rules and you need to think about what you are happy with.

Hope this helps

Her x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Hope this helps

Her x"

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Well said MrsHW

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Hope this helps

Her x"

Thanks!

You're right.. Unfriended them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Hope this helps

Her x

Thanks!

You're right.. Unfriended them now"

Her x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You have to remember. Fab friends are not like real friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have to remember. Fab friends are not like real friends. "

I am aware of that thank you. I don't think I was asking a lot for someone in my friends list to actually respond and talk.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could always delete them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you read above you'll see that I've done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a shame, the friends I have, I message them and they message me, you need to find some better friends OP

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Hope this helps

Her x"

Absolutely this. You're a very wise lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's a shame, the friends I have, I message them and they message me, you need to find some better friends OP

I do indeed! Very tricky though being a solo male but that's going to be the case.

However I'm just outside of the age preference for some who's profiles look like I'd get on with. But hey ho that's their preference, I respect it

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Also OP it's worth saying that we are all different and behave so.

Some of the 'friends' on your list will in fact just be busy with life outside of Fab and fab your pictures as a way of saying that they are there, just not able to talk 'right now'.

Who knows. But you shouldn't take it so personally.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also OP it's worth saying that we are all different and behave so.

Some of the 'friends' on your list will in fact just be busy with life outside of Fab and fab your pictures as a way of saying that they are there, just not able to talk 'right now'.

Who knows. But you shouldn't take it so personally.

Jo.Xx "

Yeah I get that too.. With my work and everything else I can completely understand that they can be busy.

However they seem to fab within minutes of the upload so can't be too busy.. I'm siding with the view that they're fabbing to get me to fab theirs.

Sad that people are like that.. More to life than being the top?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Also OP it's worth saying that we are all different and behave so.

Some of the 'friends' on your list will in fact just be busy with life outside of Fab and fab your pictures as a way of saying that they are there, just not able to talk 'right now'.

Who knows. But you shouldn't take it so personally.

Jo.Xx

Yeah I get that too.. With my work and everything else I can completely understand that they can be busy.

However they seem to fab within minutes of the upload so can't be too busy.. I'm siding with the view that they're fabbing to get me to fab theirs.

Sad that people are like that.. More to life than being the top? "

Of course there is so much more to life than being on page 1. But to some it is a priority for whatever reason that may be.

Don't hate appreciate?

Just know yourself and trust your instincts OP.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also OP it's worth saying that we are all different and behave so.

Some of the 'friends' on your list will in fact just be busy with life outside of Fab and fab your pictures as a way of saying that they are there, just not able to talk 'right now'.

Who knows. But you shouldn't take it so personally.

Jo.Xx

Yeah I get that too.. With my work and everything else I can completely understand that they can be busy.

However they seem to fab within minutes of the upload so can't be too busy.. I'm siding with the view that they're fabbing to get me to fab theirs.

Sad that people are like that.. More to life than being the top?

Of course there is so much more to life than being on page 1. But to some it is a priority for whatever reason that may be.

Don't hate appreciate?

Just know yourself and trust your instincts OP.

Jo.Xx "

Thank you.. One thing I've noticed on this site is the number of genuine people who are a pleasure to interact with.

I just need to catch one haha

Thanks again x

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Hope this helps

Her x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's possible they're not actually interested, and they're the type who adds everyone to their friends list to up their fabs and get on the hotlist

I can understand that completely however fabbing my photos I'm not sure how that would up their fabs? If people fab my photos I don't fab theirs unless I actually like them.

Because it keeps you interested in them, its their offer of interaction with you to get you to return the favour. My lovely its just a game of cat and mouse.

My friends are people that I have met, intend/would like to meet, or friendships made from the forums.

Hope this helps

Her x this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If you read above you'll see that I've done that. "
if, I didn’t bother reading the whole thread. I always find it’s a lot more fun to read only the every third post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have these beautiful women fabbed the pic of your cock and NHS uniform ?

Fabbed my photos prior to me uploading any uniform pictures "

Ever so slightly missing the point there

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