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Are some people just naturally awkward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really do not people on here. They seem to delight in changing the goal posts. Intense chat, then communications black out?

All on for meeting, then all of a sudden, oh sorry, got some drama going on.

Should it be this hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are, you just have to accept that and move on and find others who don't game play. Sorry you feel you've been messed about, it's not fun at all.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Its ok to have a rant here, but I'd change your profile, not very positive, therefore not sexy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not everyone who doesn't play by your rules is awkward....

They just play by their own rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they change their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you need to remember is that you and I are one of hundreds if not thousands of men on this site.

You sometimes get lost in their inbox or a guys p*saved them off so they have gone offline.

Keep the faith. Some really decent people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the comments, i have changed the profile several times, will have a look.

What things would ladies like to see?

Am trying to come from a chat/friend focus first. Them if things get more interesting, then can show my naughty side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really do not people on here. They seem to delight in changing the goal posts. Intense chat, then communications black out?

All on for meeting, then all of a sudden, oh sorry, got some drama going on.

Should it be this hard?"

All on for meeting?

Why are you looking to meet?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Really do not people on here. They seem to delight in changing the goal posts. Intense chat, then communications black out?

All on for meeting, then all of a sudden, oh sorry, got some drama going on.

Should it be this hard?"

So, pretty much a reflection on real life?

Have little expectation, project positivity and the universe delights with wonderful surprises!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must remember that there is a human at the centre of all your interactions and we are unique and have 99million things happening in our lives that could cause us to change our perspectives by the minute..

There are no guarantees and I'll defend every person's right on here (and everywhere) to change their mind, for whatever reason, or even no reason

Maybe also bear in mind, from my experience, i find a lot of random contacts have expectations which are unmatched and unrealistic.. So bear in mind when engaging !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If I find a chat too hard, I just stop engaging

People do have lives away from fab and all sorts is happening for people at the min.

I figure if they still want to chat another time, they'll say hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the comments, i have changed the profile several times, will have a look.

What things would ladies like to see?

Am trying to come from a chat/friend focus first. Them if things get more interesting, then can show my naughty side."

Depends what you’re looking for

Personally I didn’t see anything wrong with the profile , but you can’t please everyone

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


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What things would ladies like to see?"

That my profile's been read and responses address what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Putting on my positive pants as we speak!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

"

Not everyone like to cam. I dont even zoom call with my family, I hate video chats. So that too could be a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

"

So you said meet, when you meant something else?

Perhaps those awkward people got vibes that you dont say what you really mean?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

"

I hate being on cam I also hate talking to people on the phone must rather meet people in person and nervously giggle in their faces guess that makes me awkward

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

"

Hi OP, if they disappear at this point it would indicate they either aren't really interested in meeting or aren't genuine.

Lots of men on here pretending to be couples or women. Once theyve got their titilation/wank out the way they tend to disappear.

You'll learn to spot them.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

I hate being on cam I also hate talking to people on the phone must rather meet people in person and nervously giggle in their faces guess that makes me awkward "

We'll giggle together and shyly hide behind the curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moving goalposts would make football a bit more watchable.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"If I find a chat too hard, I just stop engaging

People do have lives away from fab and all sorts is happening for people at the min.

I figure if they still want to chat another time, they'll say hi. "
Completely agree. We all have other things going on in our lives and if someone stops chatting, it could be for a number of reasons, home-schooling, family, jobs a slight case of global pandemic.

I'm sure if they want to chat at some later date, they will message you.

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

What meeting, during covid are we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What meeting, during covid are we?

"

Yeah he didnt mean meet apparently

He mis typed

Easily done

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Juat to clarify, when i say meet, as in video call or cam.

As its a quick way to verify they are genuine.

I hate being on cam I also hate talking to people on the phone must rather meet people in person and nervously giggle in their faces guess that makes me awkward

We'll giggle together and shyly hide behind the curtains "

Ohh yeah the curtains

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also appreciate that people have stufd going, so do I, but i would at least politely say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also hate zoom and talking on the phone so I avoid it.

People change their mind, and are absolutely entitled to do so.

Or maybe you showed your naughty side too soon? Who knows

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston


"What meeting, during covid are we?

Yeah he didnt mean meet apparently

He mis typed

Easily done"

Freudian slip no doubt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What meeting, during covid are we?

Yeah he didnt mean meet apparently

He mis typed

Easily done

Freudian slip no doubt

"

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's everyones perogative to change their mind. Maybe they decked something they may not have liked. You can get to know someone online after chatting for quite a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i am totally honest from the outset, so people know where I am coming from...

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