FabSwingers.com forum: 1st meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone give me any advice on how to get my 1st meet, I am always polite and send face pics with messages and respect other peoples rules and im good looking.

Can anyone help?

thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

the people you're looking for are in the minority so they have a wide choice.You will need to make your profile a bit different and oustanding in some way and include a picture, a nice torso shot or clothed picture would be fine and no need to show your face.

Good luck I'm sure you'll get to meet someone at some point

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

the same advice you were given last week when you asked the same question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I took on board everyones advice from last week and altered my profile and put up some private pics but most of the time i do not get a response when i message someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With no profile pic on display youre not going to get much response from women to be honest.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

try a club or a social near you to get known.

good luck and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try a club or a social near you to get known.

good luck and welcome"

best advice..actually I think they should have this as some automatic response to any parties struggling to find a meet.The site doesnt supply the meets...but gives u the best tools to manage at least finding something to build upon.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"I took on board everyones advice from last week and altered my profile and put up some private pics but most of the time i do not get a response when i message someone

well if you are hoping your wit and charm is going to win women over, its never going to happen wit a list of bullet points.

you have to make yourself stand out from those that always get meets, or have fantastic profiles.

no one said get some private pics on, they actually said get some pics up.

are you in such a high profile position that you cant show what you look like (again, clothed body, or naked torso, whatever you choose, just hide your identity like the vast majority of people do)

no one, and i mean no one, will give a silhouette the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took on board everyones advice from last week and altered my profile and put up some private pics but most of the time i do not get a response when i message someone

well if you are hoping your wit and charm is going to win women over, its never going to happen wit a list of bullet points.

you have to make yourself stand out from those that always get meets, or have fantastic profiles.

no one said get some private pics on, they actually said get some pics up.

are you in such a high profile position that you cant show what you look like (again, clothed body, or naked torso, whatever you choose, just hide your identity like the vast majority of people do)

no one, and i mean no one, will give a silhouette the time of day"

except silhouette pupeteers

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I took on board everyones advice from last week and altered my profile and put up some private pics but most of the time i do not get a response when i message someone

well if you are hoping your wit and charm is going to win women over, its never going to happen wit a list of bullet points.

you have to make yourself stand out from those that always get meets, or have fantastic profiles.

no one said get some private pics on, they actually said get some pics up.

are you in such a high profile position that you cant show what you look like (again, clothed body, or naked torso, whatever you choose, just hide your identity like the vast majority of people do)

no one, and i mean no one, will give a silhouette the time of day"

another person with a silhouette profile maybe... i know people verified from meets and they had no pics... it is harder, but not impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took on board everyones advice from last week and altered my profile and put up some private pics but most of the time i do not get a response when i message someone

well if you are hoping your wit and charm is going to win women over, its never going to happen wit a list of bullet points.

you have to make yourself stand out from those that always get meets, or have fantastic profiles.

no one said get some private pics on, they actually said get some pics up.

are you in such a high profile position that you cant show what you look like (again, clothed body, or naked torso, whatever you choose, just hide your identity like the vast majority of people do)

no one, and i mean no one, will give a silhouette the time of day

another person with a silhouette profile maybe... i know people verified from meets and they had no pics... it is harder, but not impossible"

I am with you on that nothing is impossible it will reduce your chances but so will a picture if you look like one of the walking dead. Anyway so many on here say "its the personality that counts" would not need a picture if you are nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone give me any advice on how to get my 1st meet, I am always polite and send face pics with messages and respect other peoples rules and im good looking.

Can anyone help?

thanks"

I looked and honestly it doesn't stand out at all. So many others on here they blur into one without pictures. You need both and visible ones to change your fortunes and more soul in your profile.

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By *exyminxy111Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Can anyone give me any advice on how to get my 1st meet, I am always polite and send face pics with messages and respect other peoples rules and im good looking.

Can anyone help?

thanks

I looked and honestly it doesn't stand out at all. So many others on here they blur into one without pictures. You need both and visible ones to change your fortunes and more soul in your profile."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took on board everyones advice from last week and altered my profile and put up some private pics but most of the time i do not get a response when i message someone

well if you are hoping your wit and charm is going to win women over, its never going to happen wit a list of bullet points.

you have to make yourself stand out from those that always get meets, or have fantastic profiles.

no one said get some private pics on, they actually said get some pics up.

are you in such a high profile position that you cant show what you look like (again, clothed body, or naked torso, whatever you choose, just hide your identity like the vast majority of people do)

no one, and i mean no one, will give a silhouette the time of day

another person with a silhouette profile maybe... i know people verified from meets and they had no pics... it is harder, but not impossible"

Never had a problem here... me n my silhouette go together everywhere

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