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Have any of you ever lost your libdo

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By *rogu90 OP   Man
over a year ago

surrey

I feel lately that nothing reallt os helping me get back to finding content or people etc fun and horny i feel like im loosing interest and not sure why but i want it back

Jas anybody had this before

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Many many people and for varying reasons.

I've been like it a year now.

Before that I only got horny for my ex.

Before him I was ok and in touch with my sexual self.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Yep happens a lot to me (mr) various things can cause a dip to me. Change in diet, build up of training injuries, work load etc.

The more I notice a drop in libido the worse I make it in my head. That’s not to say ignore how you’re feeling, I just try to now dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling like it now.

It’s nice having a perv at pics here, but I struggle a bit to imagine having sexual contact with anyone and some days the thought is even off putting.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not yet. Sometimes I am too tired but fine after a snooze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had celibate stages in life (now is one but not through libido) stress and mood things going on in your life how you feel about yourself lots of things contribute. At times I have super increased libido really depends on lifes circumstances xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. I was celibate a whole 2 years and barely had a lady wank! Thankfully it passed.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

For emotional/psychological reasons, yes. Not for physical reasons (yet).

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Yeah mr mix looses it when stressed, and I follow suit sadly we end up wanting cuddles more than sex. But once the stress breaks we find ourselves hornier than ever

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Mine is mostly often low for the last few years for one reason or another

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yep the last few days it's been non existent tbh . Not sure why , wether it's just tiredness or not feeling like I'm sexy I dunno

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Yes, definitely. With all the covid stuff, locking down and not getting out and about. We were ok for a while but certainly have noted a lack of oomph these past few months.

Hoping that when the sun comes out and things gradually open up a bit more, we'll get back our mojo.

Getting a fabby playdate will help enormously I'm sure, whenever that's going to be.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Constantly. My libido will generally be linked to an individual of interest rather than a general thing. It’s been dead for some time and I’ve not missed it.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah mr mix looses it when stressed, and I follow suit sadly we end up wanting cuddles more than sex. But once the stress breaks we find ourselves hornier than ever "

It sounds rather heart-warming that your libidos are so intertwined that you can pivot to different forms of physical affection

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I've been like that on and off for 12 months. I think it comes down to stress from other parts of life, lack of contact with people at work and getting over a bereavement. There are several times I've come close to just deleting my profile. I did just hide it for a while.

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By *ewlySingleMaleMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I've had zero sex drive for the past 18 months / 2 years. I thought it was blood pressure related as I also suffer from ED which started at the same time, but having been on BP tablets for the past year nothing has really changed so I don't think it is related to that now.

It's got to the point where I'm actually considering talking to my GP about it, which won't be a very comfortable conversation !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens regularly...

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I did for about 3 years in my mid thirties , it came back with a revenge

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

I've had it about year don't feel like sex at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah in Ibiza... Wind just took it right off. I still had an inflatable dolphin so it wasn't a complete loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t lose it. I switch it off. It saves me feeling frustrated. It took practice. Choosing celibacy is a lot better than feeling it is being forced on you through circumstances.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Me. I was depressed. It came back with a vengeance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is hibernating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't find any chemistry with anyone on here anymore and don't know if it's just me. It never used to be like this, I think this is the reason why for me.

Hope everyone feeling the same gets to the bottom of it and it picks up again soon xxx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Mine is variable... sometimes I want sex 3/4 days in a row others not for a week or more.

Usually depends on how tired or stressed I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost interest in sex as well! I'm not even pleasuring myself anymore I think it's more because I'm exhausted from battling with 3 children on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stress?

Anxiety?

Lack of sleep ?

Then it usually passes after a few day.. becoming more frequently nowadays tho

However.. during this Lockdown fiasco I can self indulge 4/6 times a week without physical contact

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