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By *iaisonseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Can you self-identify as a BBW? Or is there a certain minimum size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you self-identify as a BBW? Or is there a certain minimum size?"

I identify as a BBW.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Often other people apply that label. We have had messages from men saying how much they admire BBW. Otherwise it's a self identify thing

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It's a strange one, and I actually don't know the answer. I think I must be on the borderline, as I get called it a lot but I've also been told I'm too small to be considered BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can identify as anything they want these days

For me a BBW is a size 18 or over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know and I’m aware I’m fat. This is not news to me.

I wouldn’t class myself as a BBW because I’m not conventionally attractive. So although I think I’m not bad looking, I’m no great beauty.

I’m just a big woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m as large as your mind thinks I am

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By *iaisonseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Perhaps it's like VWE in reverse. Men are very keen to apply that label to themselves but women seem less likely to claim BBW

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Can you self-identify as a BBW? Or is there a certain minimum size?"

If you feel you are a BBW you can say you are. Why not put it on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you women got called BBW but didn’t think you was that must be horrible to hear? Not that any size matters you’re all beautiful

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Perhaps it's like VWE in reverse. Men are very keen to apply that label to themselves but women seem less likely to claim BBW "

Check out the profiles with BBW in the name and the long running sequence of BBW threads. A lot of women are happy to identify as such.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Don't mind being referred to as one. Bigger women with bigger asses are more accepted these days.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Unfortunately it's a label that's often assigned to people without their prior consent (not cool lol), for me a BBW is anyone who identifies that way. I know I fit the BBW model as a hearty size 20 but I hate the term, doesn't stop the barrage of messages from singles saying how much they love a BBW. Swift block from me on that one usually.

Call a spade a spade, I have excess body fat, I'm hot, the two aren't mutually exclusive but I don't like to be fetishized for just existing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one is a normal no such thing enjoy what you are and be confident in yourself everyone is different

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

I identify as me - I have BBW in my profile because I don't want the hassle of people contacting me if large women aren't their thing.

It's not about being a fetish for someone but just being honest and saves time all around.

I am who I am - and I'm fine with that.

Mr KC loves me for all that I am - thats the only opinion i need to be concerned with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I identify as a nameless, shapeless blob.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Unfortunately it's a label that's often assigned to people without their prior consent (not cool lol), for me a BBW is anyone who identifies that way. I know I fit the BBW model as a hearty size 20 but I hate the term, doesn't stop the barrage of messages from singles saying how much they love a BBW. Swift block from me on that one usually.

Call a spade a spade, I have excess body fat, I'm hot, the two aren't mutually exclusive but I don't like to be fetishized for just existing "

Exactly this for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab seems to put me in that category, though I only fit in because I’m fat and a woman. I don’t like being fetishised though. I’m just me x

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By *iaisonseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Perhaps it's like VWE in reverse. Men are very keen to apply that label to themselves but women seem less likely to claim BBW

Check out the profiles with BBW in the name and the long running sequence of BBW threads. A lot of women are happy to identify as such."

True. I guess I'm wondering if people use the BBW category in their username to reclaim it after it's been imposed on them.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"Unfortunately it's a label that's often assigned to people without their prior consent (not cool lol), for me a BBW is anyone who identifies that way. I know I fit the BBW model as a hearty size 20 but I hate the term, doesn't stop the barrage of messages from singles saying how much they love a BBW. Swift block from me on that one usually.

Call a spade a spade, I have excess body fat, I'm hot, the two aren't mutually exclusive but I don't like to be fetishized for just existing "

Absolutely this

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By *iaisonseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm also wondering if I'm attracted to BBWs in the conventional sense; I like chubby girls (among others) with large, soft breasts that jiggle when getting fucked but I don't think that's a fetish as such

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm also wondering if I'm attracted to BBWs in the conventional sense; I like chubby girls (among others) with large, soft breasts that jiggle when getting fucked but I don't think that's a fetish as such "

No, it might not be a fetish, just that oft used forum word of preference.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

People can identify themselves as a butternut squash if they want to. It's their profile afterall.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do NOT identify as a BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can identify themselves as a butternut squash if they want to. It's their profile afterall.

T "

Love it!!

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

I don't identify as bbw, just curvy, do slimmer women have a tag to? SBW?

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"People can identify themselves as a butternut squash if they want to. It's their profile afterall.

T "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sounds a bit taboo-ish. Almost as if you're drifting outside the norms i.e bbc, bbw, sbbw

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"I know and I’m aware I’m fat. This is not news to me.

I wouldn’t class myself as a BBW because I’m not conventionally attractive. So although I think I’m not bad looking, I’m no great beauty.

I’m just a big woman."

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder x

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By *ent41Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I'm also wondering if I'm attracted to BBWs in the conventional sense; I like chubby girls (among others) with large, soft breasts that jiggle when getting fucked but I don't think that's a fetish as such "

I am the same. I think it is normal. Why not?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't identify as bbw, just curvy, do slimmer women have a tag to? SBW?"

I've never heard of one.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

I’m just a BW (Big Woman). I wouldn’t call myself a BBW but I’m well aware I have a lot of padding on my big bones.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone can identify as anything they want these days

For me a BBW is a size 18 or over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm size 18.

I may be in denial, but I don't identify as bbw. I dont like being pigeon-holed. I don't like conforming to someone else's idea of body shape. Nor do I want to remain this size for good: lockdown weight has made me gain a dress size, but I'm not embracing tgat as a positive change.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Surely if you women got called BBW but didn’t think you was that must be horrible to hear? Not that any size matters you’re all beautiful "

I don't like the term personally because it fetishises size. I don't want to be a fetish. But if others are happy to use the term, that's excellent for them. It's the automatic assumption that a woman with a bit of chub are okay to be referred to as BBW.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I am me..just a big old bird

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By *evensnipeMan
over a year ago

Dinbych

I think it’s up to the individual to self identify as they wish .My late wife had massive fluctuations in weight and measurements over the years, especially during her final three years of life. Her dress size went up and down like a yo-yo fro 22 to 24. She was hot as hell the whole time no matter what size she was. Sometimes her bigger arse got excellent paddling when in full bloom and spankable/ punishable. Sometimes her tits were fatter or longer and better for severe rope bondage or a restrictive bra. Fleshy thighs that responded so nicely to very tight roping restrictionswere always a pleasure to play with.

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