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"Tip one: be hot as fuck Tip two: see tip one " Not necessary to be hot as fuck! | |||
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"Tip one: be a hot as fuck woman Tip two: see tip one " Just clarified it a bit more | |||
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"Tip one: be a hot as fuck woman Tip two: see tip one Just clarified it a bit more " Define ‘hot’ ? | |||
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"Tip one: be hot as fuck Tip two: see tip one Not necessary to be hot as fuck!" Ah ok, why didn’t my PR team get me there, they ran an excellent campaign I thought ?! | |||
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"Tip one: be a hot as fuck woman Tip two: see tip one Just clarified it a bit more Define ‘hot’ ? " Sizzling | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed " I have to say I might disagree with the women lying about liking average part. How many guys fab guys pics? Do they fab ripped and big cocks too? | |||
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"Accept every friend request Post pics often Show your face A lot of the people have 1000's on their friends list so they will get maybe 500 fabs straight away as any new pics show on their updates. It's not really that complicated R" Tip (whatever number we're on now) Never block anyone | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed I have to say I might disagree with the women lying about liking average part. How many guys fab guys pics? Do they fab ripped and big cocks too? " Quite possibly, but I’d imagine the percentage to be quiet small! Of course not all women like the same thing so there are plenty of women who don’t want big and ripped men. But as this is about hot photos, going off the ones that are fabbed the most, more do prefer larger cocks and ripped bodies as they are the pics that get the attention. It’s not a negative thing, more an observation | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed I have to say I might disagree with the women lying about liking average part. How many guys fab guys pics? Do they fab ripped and big cocks too? " It’s basically 90% men that fab the men on hot pics. Having been to the top spot I can assure you it’s pure gay lust that propels them to the top. | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed I have to say I might disagree with the women lying about liking average part. How many guys fab guys pics? Do they fab ripped and big cocks too? It’s basically 90% men that fab the men on hot pics. Having been to the top spot I can assure you it’s pure gay lust that propels them to the top." Well this blows my argument out of the water! Fair enough.... as you were | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed I have to say I might disagree with the women lying about liking average part. How many guys fab guys pics? Do they fab ripped and big cocks too? " We get a lot that like J's cock pics too, a lot of them are straight guys too. I'm sure everyone can appreciate a good cock! | |||
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" Well this blows my argument out of the water! Fair enough.... as you were " I’d be perfectly happy to play along and hold onto the belief that it’s horny women furiously flicking their beans whilst perusing the beautiful men folk that drive the men’s hot pics. But unfortunately... it ain’t. | |||
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" Well this blows my argument out of the water! Fair enough.... as you were I’d be perfectly happy to play along and hold onto the belief that it’s horny women furiously flicking their beans whilst perusing the beautiful men folk that drive the men’s hot pics. But unfortunately... it ain’t." Another dream shattered | |||
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"Keep begging as often s possible by updating your status every 15 minutes or so to keep it at the top of local sttus updates. Keep changing your location and update as above to reach a wider audience. offer all sots of sexual favours in exchange for fabs. why fucking bother, only the one in the pic gives 2 fucks they are at number one in a swingers site photo. " | |||
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"Accept every friend request Post pics often Show your face A lot of the people have 1000's on their friends list so they will get maybe 500 fabs straight away as any new pics show on their updates. It's not really that complicated R" Idk why but the thought if this gives me anxiety lol. 1000s of friend on a list that I'd not speak with. I have 2 people as friends and that's only because I've met them, I kind of see the friend list like a fb one. I'm probably just thinking to much on it. But would hate to invite even more to the DMs for one liners of "wanna fuck" in different language | |||
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" Well this blows my argument out of the water! Fair enough.... as you were I’d be perfectly happy to play along and hold onto the belief that it’s horny women furiously flicking their beans whilst perusing the beautiful men folk that drive the men’s hot pics. But unfortunately... it ain’t." Bugger... back to the drawing board | |||
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"Accept every friend request Post pics often Show your face A lot of the people have 1000's on their friends list so they will get maybe 500 fabs straight away as any new pics show on their updates. It's not really that complicated R Idk why but the thought if this gives me anxiety lol. 1000s of friend on a list that I'd not speak with. I have 2 people as friends and that's only because I've met them, I kind of see the friend list like a fb one. I'm probably just thinking to much on it. But would hate to invite even more to the DMs for one liners of "wanna fuck" in different language " I know that lots of people who get on page 1 don’t have hundreds of friends. I got on with my last profile a few times and I only had people i knew on my friends list. | |||
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"Accept every friend request Post pics often Show your face A lot of the people have 1000's on their friends list so they will get maybe 500 fabs straight away as any new pics show on their updates. It's not really that complicated R" This And some profiles specify that if you don't fab their pics than you have no place being a "friend" and you'll be defriended | |||
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"Accept every friend request Post pics often Show your face A lot of the people have 1000's on their friends list so they will get maybe 500 fabs straight away as any new pics show on their updates. It's not really that complicated R Idk why but the thought if this gives me anxiety lol. 1000s of friend on a list that I'd not speak with. I have 2 people as friends and that's only because I've met them, I kind of see the friend list like a fb one. I'm probably just thinking to much on it. But would hate to invite even more to the DMs for one liners of "wanna fuck" in different language I know that lots of people who get on page 1 don’t have hundreds of friends. I got on with my last profile a few times and I only had people i knew on my friends list. " I second this. I have very few on my friends list. | |||
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"Some of these tips may work but are also myths for most of us. I have a huge block list and only 20 friends (people I have met or intend to) My method is usually: Upload when many are online Update status, once maybe twice That is it (My current status is tongue in cheek atm, i never usually ask for fabs)" Oh and upload regular photos, normally between once a day- 3 a week x | |||
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"This is a bit of a snipey thread " Love that word ‘snipey’. | |||
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"Some of these tips may work but are also myths for most of us. I have a huge block list and only 20 friends (people I have met or intend to) My method is usually: Upload when many are online Update status, once maybe twice That is it (My current status is tongue in cheek atm, i never usually ask for fabs)" My block list is massive too and I don't always put a status on. If I do I may change a it a couple of times at most. I never change my location. | |||
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"Is there any sort of algorithm on fab? I noticed my fabs went down quite significantly recently, it coincides with less members online, so may be just that, or I’m just not taking very good pics(waaaaa) " Your photos are gorgeous whether there is an algorithm or not | |||
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"Is there any sort of algorithm on fab? I noticed my fabs went down quite significantly recently, it coincides with less members online, so may be just that, or I’m just not taking very good pics(waaaaa) " I think it's quieter lately, has been for months. Also depends how much you show as being online though doesn't it. Mine follow the same pattern with fabs. Can almost predict how it will go. | |||
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"I know of some that don’t have a lot of friends and have been on at the top. I think the time you upload helps and if you do get on the hot pics pages you will end up on people’s hotlist so the next time you post they will probably fab it and you’ll end up on more people’s hotlists and so on..." Yep.... Build your fan base But that means bit blocking anyone too. Sod that. | |||
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"I know of some that don’t have a lot of friends and have been on at the top. I think the time you upload helps and if you do get on the hot pics pages you will end up on people’s hotlist so the next time you post they will probably fab it and you’ll end up on more people’s hotlists and so on..." This | |||
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"Is there any sort of algorithm on fab? I noticed my fabs went down quite significantly recently, it coincides with less members online, so may be just that, or I’m just not taking very good pics(waaaaa) " Maybe the negative correlation is your pics drove traffic away from Fab | |||
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"Is there any sort of algorithm on fab? I noticed my fabs went down quite significantly recently, it coincides with less members online, so may be just that, or I’m just not taking very good pics(waaaaa) " On my previous profile pre covid, I know had a lot more interaction than I do this one. Even though I have the same username as I had before. So not sure if it's just a covid impact on people not being as active as they were? Tbh I am happy about that though, it would really get to me, having abusive messages because I couldnt reply and I'm not a rude person. Now however am over that, there is no way you can reply to all or please everyone. How they react is on them. But at the same time I dont particularly want to welcome more. | |||
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"1000s of friends How on earth would you manage that?! I can't keep up with my handful now " Can add 1 more if you like | |||
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"1000s of friends How on earth would you manage that?! I can't keep up with my handful now " They're not real friends,it's ok to ignore them | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed " Just be yourself | |||
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"Have Morningstar in your pic licking your arse!" You told me I couldn’t show that one | |||
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"Is there any sort of algorithm on fab? I noticed my fabs went down quite significantly recently, it coincides with less members online, so may be just that, or I’m just not taking very good pics(waaaaa) I think it's quieter lately, has been for months. Also depends how much you show as being online though doesn't it. Mine follow the same pattern with fabs. Can almost predict how it will go. " That’s the funny thing. I could predict how mine could go, but not now. I’m curious as to why | |||
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"Have Morningstar in your pic licking your arse! You told me I couldn’t show that one " That's because yours is hairy! | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches." Dam it is that where I've been going wrong. | |||
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"It’s mainly all women. Looking at the men pics that get the most fabs they all have massive dicks and ripped as fuck. So women are lying when they say they like the average! I am neither so if I get a few fabs then great. Tips welcomed Just be yourself " I am it’s just not working... | |||
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"Have Morningstar in your pic licking your arse! You told me I couldn’t show that one That's because yours is hairy!" You were looking in the mirror, that was yours | |||
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"Have Morningstar in your pic licking your arse! You told me I couldn’t show that one That's because yours is hairy! You were looking in the mirror, that was yours " You have a mirror in your arse now ? Women in 2021 never seem to amaze me! | |||
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"Have Morningstar in your pic licking your arse! You told me I couldn’t show that one That's because yours is hairy! You were looking in the mirror, that was yours You have a mirror in your arse now ? Women in 2021 never seem to amaze me!" Ffs, keep up | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches." I might try this and see | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. Dam it is that where I've been going wrong. " Sarcasm is met with a spanking | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. Dam it is that where I've been going wrong. Sarcasm is met with a spanking " Shall change my profile pic to the one where I'm bending over ready now? | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. Dam it is that where I've been going wrong. Sarcasm is met with a spanking Shall change my profile pic to the one where I'm bending over ready now? " Good girl! | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see " I have a semi experiment on, lingerie shot vs my face pic | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. " Fabbed | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. " It’s hardly obsessing, it’s ok to like getting fabs, and I don’t get why it can be considered such a bad thing on here. | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see I have a semi experiment on, lingerie shot vs my face pic" I have a semi too | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see I have a semi experiment on, lingerie shot vs my face pic" Slap a lingerie shot with ya face in and you’ll break fab | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see I have a semi experiment on, lingerie shot vs my face pic Slap a lingerie shot with ya face in and you’ll break fab " Haha yeah I don't think so | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. It’s hardly obsessing, it’s ok to like getting fabs, and I don’t get why it can be considered such a bad thing on here. " Agreed. | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see I have a semi experiment on, lingerie shot vs my face pic Slap a lingerie shot with ya face in and you’ll break fab Haha yeah I don't think so" Well I’ll bloody enjoy it, do it for me | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. It’s hardly obsessing, it’s ok to like getting fabs, and I don’t get why it can be considered such a bad thing on here. " But pics can be an ego boost can they not?? | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. It’s hardly obsessing, it’s ok to like getting fabs, and I don’t get why it can be considered such a bad thing on here. " Totally agree with this. Really don’t get why it is such a bad thing? If it makes someone feel better about themselves then surely that’s a good thing? Freya x | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. It’s hardly obsessing, it’s ok to like getting fabs, and I don’t get why it can be considered such a bad thing on here. But pics can be an ego boost can they not?? " Nothing wrong with getting fabs and we wouldn't post pics if we didn't want an ego boost. It becomes an obsession though if you post daily and use every tip and trick to get to the top of hotpics. For some it has become their only reason for being on fab. Their only interaction on the site is to build and maintain that fab- base. | |||
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"Tip one: be hot as fuck Tip two: see tip one Not necessary to be hot as fuck!" Truth | |||
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"I don’t see an issue with people wanting & enjoying fabs, whether it’s for an ego boost or validation from others or just plain showing off, who cares. I know from my point until joining here I was never particularly body confident. Having my pics fabbed or complimented has definitely helped me see myself in a more confident, positive light & that’s no bad thing in my book. " Here here! | |||
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"I don’t see an issue with people wanting & enjoying fabs, whether it’s for an ego boost or validation from others or just plain showing off, who cares. I know from my point until joining here I was never particularly body confident. Having my pics fabbed or complimented has definitely helped me see myself in a more confident, positive light & that’s no bad thing in my book. " | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. It’s hardly obsessing, it’s ok to like getting fabs, and I don’t get why it can be considered such a bad thing on here. But pics can be an ego boost can they not?? Nothing wrong with getting fabs and we wouldn't post pics if we didn't want an ego boost. It becomes an obsession though if you post daily and use every tip and trick to get to the top of hotpics. For some it has become their only reason for being on fab. Their only interaction on the site is to build and maintain that fab- base. " Like others have said on this thread it can build confidence and there's nothing wrong with it at all. | |||
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"Who cares really? The obsession with attention and need for validation is sad. " I dont always see it as an obsession. But to a degree I will agree on the validation side. Only that if you solely rely on your confidence from others validation. I know like some on here I found a different body confidence in taking my photos, but I gain it from how I view it. It could become an issue if you are relying solely on others to continue feeling that confidence. It could be a very damaging way to gain a false confidence and/or lose confidence if the expected reaction arent met. But there is nothing wrong with sharing and enjoying others enjoyment of your images/body. Photog is art, your imagination goes in to creating it, you're expressing yourself through it and naturally some want to share it. | |||
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"There's a few of the furoms regular males on the hot list at the moment." I know I will never get there! I'm lucky if I get 5! | |||
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"I don’t see an issue with people wanting & enjoying fabs, whether it’s for an ego boost or validation from others or just plain showing off, who cares. I know from my point until joining here I was never particularly body confident. Having my pics fabbed or complimented has definitely helped me see myself in a more confident, positive light & that’s no bad thing in my book. " Fab guys only fab and compliment pics in the hope to get into our knickers......fact. | |||
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"I don’t see an issue with people wanting & enjoying fabs, whether it’s for an ego boost or validation from others or just plain showing off, who cares. I know from my point until joining here I was never particularly body confident. Having my pics fabbed or complimented has definitely helped me see myself in a more confident, positive light & that’s no bad thing in my book. Fab guys only fab and compliment pics in the hope to get into our knickers......fact. " I fab loads of photos with no hope of knicker invasion! If it's a nice photo or I think someone would appreciate it I fab. | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see " So I experimented with this. I got no more fabs than normal, but I did get a huge influx of messages from couples. | |||
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"Most of the top pic's are people who have hundreds of pics and post two or three every Day fair play to them that they have the time of talking pics of boobs and vag in all different angles and also probally have hundreds of friend's as I've seen seen status where people ask for there pics to be fab or to add them as friends and people to mail them etc ...but if that is what gets them through a Day fair play to them.." Haven’t you been on page 1? | |||
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"Make sure you tick all the boxes in “looking for”, put yourself in a highly populated area (except London) and make yourself bi or bi-curious ie try and get yourself in the largest possible searches. I might try this and see So I experimented with this. I got no more fabs than normal, but I did get a huge influx of messages from couples." Oops! I guess it’s a result still: more views! | |||
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"Most of the top pic's are people who have hundreds of pics and post two or three every Day fair play to them that they have the time of talking pics of boobs and vag in all different angles and also probally have hundreds of friend's as I've seen seen status where people ask for there pics to be fab or to add them as friends and people to mail them etc ...but if that is what gets them through a Day fair play to them.. Haven’t you been on page 1? " I was once or twice on the Irish one and only know when someone would say it to me I don't check it I post pics for myself and of course to try and get a meet fabs are no use to me they can't chat to me or have a laugh with me so I don't care about them..that's just me tho.. | |||
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