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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? " Get them from time to time and like many, i delete. They are either chancing thee arm or after an ogle at ya pics etc | |||
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"More than likely just to perve your private pics. Not to chat to you lol" Make a girl feel confident lol | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going " Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon | |||
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"More than likely just to perve your private pics. Not to chat to you lol Make a girl feel confident lol " Haha well I just looked at your public ones and it takes some willpower not to hit that friend button | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon " I know yeah, poor cat | |||
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"More than likely just to perve your private pics. Not to chat to you lol Make a girl feel confident lol Haha well I just looked at your public ones and it takes some willpower not to hit that friend button " Why thank you | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon I know yeah, poor cat " Yerrrr I missed | |||
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"We get them all the time and rant lol They get deleted and like others blocked if persistent. The best we find is when they do message you, it is "why have you not accepted my friend request" " Yeah and we're like ' do we know you?' I just don't see the point what so ever | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon I know yeah, poor cat Yerrrr I missed " Have to work on that aim of yours | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon I know yeah, poor cat Yerrrr I missed Have to work on that aim of yours " sokay....... i got loads ready and waiting, he wont be crapping in my garden for a while | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon I know yeah, poor cat Yerrrr I missed Have to work on that aim of yours sokay....... i got loads ready and waiting, he wont be crapping in my garden for a while " Lol poor Mr felix | |||
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"We get them all the time and rant lol They get deleted and like others blocked if persistent. The best we find is when they do message you, it is "why have you not accepted my friend request" Yeah and we're like ' do we know you?' I just don't see the point what so ever " I'm behind you there, bet you didn't notice I am creeping up on that friend request button lol but hey we have talked now, so no need for introductions | |||
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"We get them all the time and rant lol They get deleted and like others blocked if persistent. The best we find is when they do message you, it is "why have you not accepted my friend request" " Lol classic. Or "did you receive my friend request? " | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? " Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! | |||
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"We get them all the time and rant lol They get deleted and like others blocked if persistent. The best we find is when they do message you, it is "why have you not accepted my friend request" Lol classic. Or "did you receive my friend request? "" I went to check how many I had now but no where is it! I demand one now | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting!" I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests | |||
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"i had a couple get abusive after i told them i do not accept friends requests unless ive chatted to them and plan to meet. so after that i just remove the request and dont bother. if they are genuine and interested they will message you" ive had the same from a few couples.,. I pointed out that they stated that they didnt make friends without a conversation and get a load of verbal. Blocked! Lol... | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests " Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests " Exactly our life doesn't revolve around Fab and if we replyed to every single person/couple who added us or wrote to us and we didn't like just to say no thanks then we'd be on here 24/7 and believe it or not, some people have lives outside of fab | |||
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"We get them all the time and rant lol They get deleted and like others blocked if persistent. The best we find is when they do message you, it is "why have you not accepted my friend request" Yeah and we're like ' do we know you?' I just don't see the point what so ever I'm behind you there, bet you didn't notice I am creeping up on that friend request button lol but hey we have talked now, so no need for introductions " Hit that button lol promise we won't rant at you | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! " Oh dear not long enough for me to think that it is entirely up to us who we reply to... Not bad manners as this is our a/c! And every time you get junk mail, I hope that you reply to every company saying no thanks! | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! Oh dear not long enough for me to think that it is entirely up to us who we reply to... Not bad manners as this is our a/c! And every time you get junk mail, I hope that you reply to every company saying no thanks! " Totally agree! Life's a bitch, that's what these forums are for, don't get a reply? Just post a forum and have a rant! | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! Oh dear not long enough for me to think that it is entirely up to us who we reply to... Not bad manners as this is our a/c! And every time you get junk mail, I hope that you reply to every company saying no thanks! " Do I fuck reply to them but I dont think they are rude I ignore them Its not hard. What has it to do with junk mail anyway? Its a pretty crap example to use. You need to learn some basics and that sending friends invites isn't rude, neither is not replying to every unsolicited piece of mail. There is a mass delete button and one click they are all gone and they can't request for another 30 days! | |||
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"It is a bit annoying but not worth getting upset over just delete the requests lol Somtimes I get the opposite, I mean if I'm chatting to somebody for a while I'm thinking shall I send a friend request or not sometimes I don't bother sometimes I do depends on how it's going . Rather a rant on here than trying to splatt nextdoors cat with a water balloon " sorry it wasnt meant to sound like that sorry | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! Oh dear not long enough for me to think that it is entirely up to us who we reply to... Not bad manners as this is our a/c! And every time you get junk mail, I hope that you reply to every company saying no thanks! Do I fuck reply to them but I dont think they are rude I ignore them Its not hard. What has it to do with junk mail anyway? Its a pretty crap example to use. You need to learn some basics and that sending friends invites isn't rude, neither is not replying to every unsolicited piece of mail. There is a mass delete button and one click they are all gone and they can't request for another 30 days! " Yes as stated earlier on in this thread but like I said many things can be deleted etc with a click of a button but still very annoying | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? " As pointless as getting upset by it to be honest. This site gives us many tools to realise if we may want to meet someone or not, if you believe sending a friends request with no previous conversation is a no no then you can block and delete if you so please. | |||
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"What's a friends request Goes back to my billy no mates step " Aw, I'll send you one. Does a quick comment on the forum ok us to become friends? | |||
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"What's a friends request Goes back to my billy no mates step Aw, I'll send you one. Does a quick comment on the forum ok us to become friends? " Hell yes | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! Oh dear not long enough for me to think that it is entirely up to us who we reply to... Not bad manners as this is our a/c! And every time you get junk mail, I hope that you reply to every company saying no thanks! Do I fuck reply to them but I dont think they are rude I ignore them Its not hard. What has it to do with junk mail anyway? Its a pretty crap example to use. You need to learn some basics and that sending friends invites isn't rude, neither is not replying to every unsolicited piece of mail. There is a mass delete button and one click they are all gone and they can't request for another 30 days! Yes as stated earlier on in this thread but like I said many things can be deleted etc with a click of a button but still very annoying " Really annoying someone can send you an invite? Something you can one click delete? There are lots of filters on here, they slim down who can contact you. If its a huge annoyance you can block all other peoples first contact and go select people you want to interact with. Sending winks, messages, friends requests shouldn't annoy people but if they do the filters and delete buttons all work. | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? Just to get this right....it's up to you to add people to your friend's list - you are receiving a request! On my profile I state that if I send out a Friend Request it means that I would be interested in meeting. Prior to this I used to send a message to prospective meets but didn't always receive a reply (whether positive or otherwise). Because of this (which is only politeness after all) I send a Friend Request. I understand that some on Fab will receive a stack of mail but a simple "thanks but no thanks" would suffice. Not receiving a reply to a message can be a little off-putting! I find it is bad manners to assume someone would want to be your friend without even a simple hello .. And re answering I do not always have the time to say no thanks, and most do not listen and continue to message anyway, let alone send friend requests Sorry but that's fucking laughable! Its bad manners to send a friends request but its not bad manners to not reply with a no thanks! Think about it then scweem and scweem and scweem until you are sick! Oh dear not long enough for me to think that it is entirely up to us who we reply to... Not bad manners as this is our a/c! And every time you get junk mail, I hope that you reply to every company saying no thanks! Do I fuck reply to them but I dont think they are rude I ignore them Its not hard. What has it to do with junk mail anyway? Its a pretty crap example to use. You need to learn some basics and that sending friends invites isn't rude, neither is not replying to every unsolicited piece of mail. There is a mass delete button and one click they are all gone and they can't request for another 30 days! Yes as stated earlier on in this thread but like I said many things can be deleted etc with a click of a button but still very annoying Really annoying someone can send you an invite? Something you can one click delete? There are lots of filters on here, they slim down who can contact you. If its a huge annoyance you can block all other peoples first contact and go select people you want to interact with. Sending winks, messages, friends requests shouldn't annoy people but if they do the filters and delete buttons all work. " Thank you for that information, but think we'll pass and just have the odd rant on here waheyy | |||
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" There are lots of filters on here, they slim down who can contact you. If its a huge annoyance you can block all other peoples first contact and go select people you want to interact with. Sending winks, messages, friends requests shouldn't annoy people but if they do the filters and delete buttons all work. " I get where you are coming from but when we have it stated on our profile to not send a FR without sending a message first, its clear people are not interested in us, just the photos, otherwise they would have read the full profile. | |||
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"I have an android phone with a touch screen. And sometimes I press the wrong icon as I use the desktop version , I apolagise to people who don't like friends invite without a message but the android version of fabs puts me off big time I just don't like the looks of it and before they got it out I explain on my profile my little touch screen problem . I hope you guys understand and of course I know that it's only me and that most people do that because they just think that fabs is for fucking so they just assume that they just have to wink and that they are are going to get laid " When I get friend requests from people that haven't chatted I usually have a look at their profile anyway. 99% get deleted. If I'd seen that on a profile that you said I would've mailed to agree that sometimes I hit the wrong thing too. | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? " I have better n bigger things to get annoyed about....IGNORE | |||
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"OMG ive had three friends invites since i last logged on. I really dont know what to do, should i spend a second clicking delete now or save it till later " Fill your pram with all your toys and try and hit the kitchen sunk with them. | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? " there are 2 answers to this... 1) don't accept them... 2) accept them when they are offline... look at their pics... then take them off your friends list..... or you could get pent up over it... | |||
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"Really annoys us when we get people adding us as friends when we don't even know them and they can't even be bothered to send a message, really what's the point? Really royals us, anybody else feel the same or understand why people do this?? there are 2 answers to this... 1) don't accept them... 2) accept them when they are offline... look at their pics... then take them off your friends list..... or you could get pent up over it..." Option 2 is what I do lol | |||
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"Tut tut That's very very naughty missbehaving lol You deserve to be bent over my knee ........ Hardly naughty... I regularly warn them this is what I do via status update " Do you wanna be my friend? | |||
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"OMG ive had three friends invites since i last logged on. I really dont know what to do, should i spend a second clicking delete now or save it till later " Hmmm decisions, decisions! | |||
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