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"There's pros and cons to it. I'm more than happy being single until someone just right comes along, I won't settle just for the sake of it." very true that’s why I have been single 4 years | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man" Yeah, but I'm a builder and could soon knock up a spare bedroom  | |||
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"Aww been married too long wanted out in relationship wreck my head and single liked it now bored of been lonely, want company but obviously can’t so follow guidelines and see what happens "Hugs When this over I think a lot of people are going to get some serious slutting on  | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man" I think it would be an effort after being single so long.... | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man I think it would be an effort after being single so long...." It's effort I don't want to make. I like life as it is. | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man I think it would be an effort after being single so long.... It's effort I don't want to make. I like life as it is." I'm pretty much the same, although I'm not looking for a long term relationship, I wouldn't rule it out of the equation. After 8 years on your own you kinda get used to waking up and finding everything exactly where you left it  | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man I think it would be an effort after being single so long.... It's effort I don't want to make. I like life as it is. I'm pretty much the same, although I'm not looking for a long term relationship, I wouldn't rule it out of the equation. After 8 years on your own you kinda get used to waking up and finding everything exactly where you left it "I've ruled it out. I can't be arsed with having to consider someone else | |||
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"We’ve been married 6 together for 12 and I (mr) used to work away during the week a lot so we were both kind of living a single life. I don’t miss the single life since settling down with Mrs CT. We know each other well enough that we give each other space if they need it " Awesome | |||
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"I’m a flip side on this! Having been married then divorced and only having 2 long term relationships in my life... I’m not sure I know what I want yet. I mean obviously there are ideals.... I’ve had a fab fling live with me but it got boring really quickly and he lived with me so it’s not like I could just text him and say you’re not for me. He moved out, or rather he packed up for work and never came home. I did like someone living with me, having someone else there to adult on occasion but I’m not sure I want it all!! It’s annoying when I’m horny though... maybe a lodger with a good cock is all I need lol Picky are we women folk "not to be rude but just a bit lol | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man" been single 4 years my self ha | |||
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"Aww been married too long wanted out in relationship wreck my head and single liked it now bored of been lonely, want company but obviously can’t so follow guidelines and see what happens "hopefully it all will all be over soon | |||
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"Aww been married too long wanted out in relationship wreck my head and single liked it now bored of been lonely, want company but obviously can’t so follow guidelines and see what happens
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"Been single for 4 years now. It has its good and the bad really. If the opportunity presents itself and I find someone special then that's great but if not.. I'll just wait patiently" same here pal | |||
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"Been single for 4 years now. It has its good and the bad really. If the opportunity presents itself and I find someone special then that's great but if not.. I'll just wait patiently same here pal" I'm sure the right person for you is just round the corner from you bud. Speaking of which.. thats my downside too, you get chatting to someone that you think could be the one then luck has it.. they live too far from you. | |||
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"I've been single that long not sure if i could cope living with a man again especially if he leaves the toilet seat up lol x my daughter is getting older now few more years and im sure she'll be leaving home. So I think it's time to get myself back out there!! but where do you even start to look for a decent genuine guy?? "one here hello lol and I clean up after my self  | |||
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"10 years on my own and I'm pretty used to it but of course I still get lonely . Not sure I could live with anyone full time now... Maybe one day though "Never say never who knows what the future holds really | |||
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"10 years on my own and I'm pretty used to it but of course I still get lonely . Not sure I could live with anyone full time now... Maybe one day though
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"10 years on my own and I'm pretty used to it but of course I still get lonely . Not sure I could live with anyone full time now... Maybe one day though "maybe x | |||
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"Semi-single here. Lucy and I meet up two or three times a week for rampant and very enjoyable sex. We both have an outside life though. I don't miss the end of the old relationship and the alcoholic madness I was putting up with, and I would be very careful not to get into a relationship like that again." really it works put me off for life | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single." is very hard to find pal | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single." Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x " just be honest it’s the way forward lol | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x " I thought fab would be the answer as I’m more likely to get chatting openly about swinging here than out in the field. I’m not sure if swinging is something couples enter after agreeing they would like to or if one can meet a single swinger and form that “relationship” I guess I’ll just keep seeing where life takes me x | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol" Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol" Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! " Obviously put it more subtle than what I just did lol but I suppose it depends on the person doesn't it? Some may be intrigued, some may not. Question though, if you were seeing someone and they aren't into swinging, would you leave the swinging world? | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! Obviously put it more subtle than what I just did lol but I suppose it depends on the person doesn't it? Some may be intrigued, some may not. Question though, if you were seeing someone and they aren't into swinging, would you leave the swinging world? " If I fell in love then yes I would. Swinging is fun and I enjoy meeting people and of course the great sex but if I fell in love then I’d be hers one hundred percent. Ooooh I feel all silly now | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! Obviously put it more subtle than what I just did lol but I suppose it depends on the person doesn't it? Some may be intrigued, some may not. Question though, if you were seeing someone and they aren't into swinging, would you leave the swinging world? If I fell in love then yes I would. Swinging is fun and I enjoy meeting people and of course the great sex but if I fell in love then I’d be hers one hundred percent. Ooooh I feel all silly now "Nah, don't be.. I would do exactly the same so you're not alone with that kind of thinking | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! Obviously put it more subtle than what I just did lol but I suppose it depends on the person doesn't it? Some may be intrigued, some may not. Question though, if you were seeing someone and they aren't into swinging, would you leave the swinging world? " Now that is the big question yes , I'm not sure I could settle down with someone who isn't into the lifestyle as theres too many unfulfilled fantasies that have to happen . Maybe if she was so so special then perhaps . But atm I can't see myself settling for a non swinger no | |||
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"Yeah, I agree with you both. I do crave intimacy most of the time. Cuddling the pillow just doesn't do it anymore " ^ And this too | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! Obviously put it more subtle than what I just did lol but I suppose it depends on the person doesn't it? Some may be intrigued, some may not. Question though, if you were seeing someone and they aren't into swinging, would you leave the swinging world? Now that is the big question yes , I'm not sure I could settle down with someone who isn't into the lifestyle as theres too many unfulfilled fantasies that have to happen . Maybe if she was so so special then perhaps . But atm I can't see myself settling for a non swinger no "Fair enough though. Nah, I can definitely see myself leaving the swing world if I would of thought she was special enough | |||
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"It’s a tricky one for me as I’d like to meet someone who’d be interested in the swing lifestyle but I’m ok with being single. Oh yes that would be ideal. How do you tell someone new you enjoy the swinging lifestyle?? Be perfect to find someone from fab for a relationship x just be honest it’s the way forward lol Maybe not mention it on the 1st date though. Save it for the 3rd one during a game of crazy golf along the lines of "speaking of putting balls in holes, did I tell you..." It can go either way really lol Hmmmmm.....I fear that could result in a swift boot to the bollocks! Obviously put it more subtle than what I just did lol but I suppose it depends on the person doesn't it? Some may be intrigued, some may not. Question though, if you were seeing someone and they aren't into swinging, would you leave the swinging world? Now that is the big question yes , I'm not sure I could settle down with someone who isn't into the lifestyle as theres too many unfulfilled fantasies that have to happen . Maybe if she was so so special then perhaps . But atm I can't see myself settling for a non swinger no
Fair enough though. Nah, I can definitely see myself leaving the swing world if I would of thought she was special enough "Well I hope it happens for you one day buddy , we all deserve happiness | |||
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"I will probably stay single. I've been single for so long, I don't think I could make room in my life for a man" I am.the same I am ok with my own company and have never been someone who needed a woman in my life to complete, or look after me. Been single most.of my adult life, though I do wonder sometimes if I have made the right decision. | |||
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"There's pros and cons to it. I'm more than happy being single until someone just right comes along, I won't settle just for the sake of it." This. | |||
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"Aww been married too long wanted out in relationship wreck my head and single liked it now bored of been lonely, want company but obviously can’t so follow guidelines and see what happens "This pretty much sums it up for me as well. | |||
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"Most of the time i like being single but theres a few times i wish there was someone who wants to be with me to share everything with" I have thought that at times in my life however I have come to understand that I do not want permanence. I really do think that what is needed in society is more kibbutzy type stuff where people meet and socialise...... living as nuclear families in streets ISNT good for human beings. | |||
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" Separated/divorced 12 years, two relationships that lasted 2 years and alone for the last 5 years.. My ideal is we both have our own places and can spend a couple of nights at each others leaving enough time to be free." Have free time or be free to shag around ? See I can believe in commitment but not in living together | |||
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"Single life do you enjoy it or not ?" Not really, but I also found out that I am probably not suitable for a too close relationship and trying to keep a distance. So it is better with a number of close friends and I hope to establish my connection with my FWB after lock-down or find new ones. | |||
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"Single life do you enjoy it or not ?" Generally - yes - but no right now! Pre-pandemic it meant, within reason, going where I wanted, when I wanted and with whom I wanted. It also meant having a (small) variety of sexual partners to have fun with. Now it means a total lack of like minded company, affection or intimacy - and a total reliance on my wand for sexual release.  | |||
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"Single = safe OK I'll have nobody to cook for or cook for me. OK I go days at times without using my voice and only my thumbs to type. OK I have nobody to share glances with, smiles with, walks with. OK, I have nobody to hold me when I'm sad. OK, I might fall down the stairs, paralyse myself in the process and spend a week stuck and dying before I breathe my last breath But, I also have nobody to fight with... " It scares me to look at the big picture, to think of getting old and being alone and lonely. But I don't want kids, and marriage holds little appeal. I had a great relationship with a lovely woman, intelligent, fun, easy to get along with, and very attractive. She wanted kids though, and we found ourselves growing apart. We're still close friends at least. But I'm in no rush to find anyone else. I miss the intimacy and having someone to share trips, holidays or meals with. I don't regret being with her and wouldn't change that, but at the same time I think I'm one of those people who was made to be single. It works. It has pros and cons, as does a relationship. But I'd rather just be me. Less risk of drama, and no worry of someone being upset when I'm gone. | |||
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" Separated/divorced 12 years, two relationships that lasted 2 years and alone for the last 5 years.. My ideal is we both have our own places and can spend a couple of nights at each others leaving enough time to be free. Have free time or be free to shag around ? See I can believe in commitment but not in living together" Nope, one woman is enough for me | |||
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