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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never make you cry...oh wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

A lot of my friends do this after intense orgams. Think its pretty common for a lot.

Not been there myself to know though. But it's a topic that keeps coming up among our group chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex of mine did occasionally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

A lot of my friends do this after intense orgams. Think its pretty common for a lot.

Not been there myself to know though. But it's a topic that keeps coming up among our group chat. "

This makes me feel better.

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

"I would never make you cry...oh wait

Why has this comment flew by unnoticed!

10/10 for effort, sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a porn genre dedicated to this but as with everything to do with porn, I didn't know if it was real or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would never make you cry...oh wait

Why has this comment flew by unnoticed!

10/10 for effort, sir!

I was going to reply but couldn't think of anything witty enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a porn genre dedicated to this but as with everything to do with porn, I didn't know if it was real or not

Really?? It doesn't turn me on, just makes me sad and embarrassed

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

"I would never make you cry...oh wait

Why has this comment flew by unnoticed!

10/10 for effort, sir!

I was going to reply but couldn't think of anything witty enough

I had to give him credit after I was lying pissing myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to do this quite a bit, first time It happened I was a bit gutted but then we found out its quite common and it's a good thing

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, I did once with someone from Fab. It was all very intense and it wasn't like I was crying because I was sad; it was this cathartic release of all this pent up emotion I didn't realise I had inside me. At one point I laugh cried during the fuck knowth orgasm.

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive been known to cry after intense orgasms but mostly get a fit of the giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen it happen sometimes after a shaking orgasm.

It's like blocked energy releasing my ex would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Never cried from an orgasm.

I just get sleepy

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

Crying after an orgasm is a release and a sign of deeply good sex. It sounds nice there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I did once with someone from Fab. It was all very intense and it wasn't like I was crying because I was sad; it was this cathartic release of all this pent up emotion I didn't realise I had inside me. At one point I laugh cried during the fuck knowth orgasm.

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine. "

It is even happening with masturbation...I mean I know I am good, but not THAT good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine.

It is even happening with masturbation...I mean I know I am good, but not THAT good

Your just sad because it's not me giving you them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope.

Never cried from an orgasm.

I just get sleepy"

Sleepy hey? I think I would rather that than cry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine.

It is even happening with masturbation...I mean I know I am good, but not THAT good

Your just sad because it's not me giving you them

That is definitely it wonk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine.

It is even happening with masturbation...I mean I know I am good, but not THAT good

Your just sad because it's not me giving you them

That is definitely it wonk!

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By *rs-sensual-meWoman
over a year ago

gwynedd

Yep me too. If its an intense orgasm then I could literally sob uncontrollably.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It is a massive release of oxytocin over a massive decrease of adrenaline and endorphins.

In BDSM terms it is called “drop’

At times, depending on the juxtaposition distance of the high and low, it does need supporting.

Just recognising it helps understanding.

Thing is, is it worth it?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

The phenomenon is called, postcoital dysphoria and is actually fairly common.

Have a ganders

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

"There's a porn genre dedicated to this but as with everything to do with porn, I didn't know if it was real or not

Really?? It doesn't turn me on, just makes me sad and embarrassed "

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Yep, I normally do it after a really good orgasm, I wouldn't be concerned (I'm also on the coil)

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

"There's a porn genre dedicated to this but as with everything to do with porn, I didn't know if it was real or not

Really?? It doesn't turn me on, just makes me sad and embarrassed "

Don`t be sad or embarrassed, it happens to me, scared an ex first time I did it with him, but he got to like it cos he knew he`d made me have a wonderful orgsm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The phenomenon is called, postcoital dysphoria and is actually fairly common.

Have a ganders

I did and the post above yours... very interesting and I think I know the cause now! See, fab is useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens sometimes. Its not sad or upset. I think of it as a happy release, I love it. Cuddle it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens sometimes. Its not sad or upset. I think of it as a happy release, I love it. Cuddle it out

This ^^

Her x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"The phenomenon is called, postcoital dysphoria and is actually fairly common.

Have a ganders

I did and the post above yours... very interesting and I think I know the cause now! See, fab is useful

So the better the orgasm, can mean the bigger the “drop.”

Understanding and support helps.

Personally, think the crying is worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have I ever

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Never have I ever"

What a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never have I ever

What a shame."

Savage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

There are in fact far more extreme psychological and physiological effects that may be experienced post orgasm; check out peri-orgasm phenomena; Interesting reading indeed

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Yes I have if its very intense. Its not sadness, its total release. Amazingly feeling. Only had it with exceptional connections

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

If it's a really intense session then I've been known to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this many times.

Mostly after an intense orgasm, or the first time of having sex when I hadn't for a while.

It also happened after every miscarriage I had but that was very different. A mixture of emotions and fear. And the first time after having a child. Again different and more emotional.

I'd say with the children and many losses hormones must have played a part in it somewhere along the line.

I haven't been taken away by the men in white coats yet.

To be honest it's nice to see others in this thread say they've done the same. Makes me feel better about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. This has happened to me to.. Usually if its really intense.

I also get "the drop" sometimes after..

It's all perfectly normal stuff but does make me feel a bit silly at times too.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Yes. This has happened to me to.. Usually if its really intense.

I also get "the drop" sometimes after..

It's all perfectly normal stuff but does make me feel a bit silly at times too. "

Some ladies it can last a few days.

And it’s not silly, from my perspective I’m slightly in awe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are in fact far more extreme psychological and physiological effects that may be experienced post orgasm; check out peri-orgasm phenomena; Interesting reading indeed

My ex suffered with post orgasm dysphoria. It got to the point where he would try to avoid having an orgasm.. Even alone.

The hormones and chemicals in our bodies during the various stages of sex mean that emotional or sometimes extreme responses are not rare.

The key is understanding what you need and making sure you communicate with your partner

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"There are in fact far more extreme psychological and physiological effects that may be experienced post orgasm; check out peri-orgasm phenomena; Interesting reading indeed

My ex suffered with post orgasm dysphoria. It got to the point where he would try to avoid having an orgasm.. Even alone.

The hormones and chemicals in our bodies during the various stages of sex mean that emotional or sometimes extreme responses are not rare.

The key is understanding what you need and making sure you communicate with your partner "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think it may be life stress causing it at the moment - must learn to destress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine. "

Tbf, if someone reacted like that to being with me, I'd feel pretty smug too - deserved or not

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Has happened to me only a few times after great intensity. I was a bit embarrassed but also scared partner a little as he had no idea what was happening but we ended up laughing about it after. Great release.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’m crying because of lack of sex or orgasm!!

Damn you covid19

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Is this post nut clarity?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"I think it may be life stress causing it at the moment - must learn to destress "

I put it down to a combo of pent up stress, hormones, fantastic orgasm and a full moon

I wouldn't worry about it as I view them as happy tears

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think if I was pre warned. I would be okay

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing? "

As long as you don't dribble snot everywhere, I'm sure it's just fine

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing? "

Not the best marketing, would be interested in the strap line though.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing?

Not the best marketing, would be interested in the strap line though."
best to warn people. They get self conscious themselves when they don't expect it. Though it is also part of the fun for me, hit them with a bit of shock and awe, minus the awe.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing?

Not the best marketing, would be interested in the strap line though.best to warn people. They get self conscious themselves when they don't expect it. Though it is also part of the fun for me, hit them with a bit of shock and awe, minus the awe. "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing?

One hell of a strap line.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I do it all the time. Usually because somebody finally took pitty on me, tears of thanks.. Is that not the same thing?

One hell of a strap line."

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Dire Straits Romeo and Juliette.

"Juliette, when we made love you used to cry".

Its quite normal. Some people want a brew, some want a sandwich, a cigarette or a dam good kip!

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

My wife has after a particularly intense orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/post-coital-dysphoria-miserable-after-sex-sad-relationships-love-a7526501.html

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have on the rare occasion. It was in the early days with my husband. One of them was after an intense fucking session and orgasm, overwhelmed by feelings, of the good sort obviously.

Mrs

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I can cry or laugh and I see colours when I build up to a big orgasm. I warn guys this can happen. To me just means I've had a great time want more.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I do and sometimes it's proper curl up in a ball sobbing crying. Think it's the release of tension and when I finally relax post orgasm it all comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only once! It just all built up orgasm after orgasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

This happened once after a lengthy intense session with a woman, it freaked me out when she burst into tears but freaked her out too lol

All’s well that ends well

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

He was pretty darn smug about it.

If you're sobbing and fighting a craving for ice cream, don't wank through that. If it's a sexual blissed out one, that's fine.

Tbf, if someone reacted like that to being with me, I'd feel pretty smug too - deserved or not

Mr"

I think I'd be a bit shocked/concerned. I've never been on the receiving end of it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I might buck the trend now but I’ve done it once. We’d had a very intense BDSM session in which we’d taken each other down many levels. It was raw, animalistic raw and so intense and the orgasm I had nearly blew my head off.

My eyes changed and once the adrenaline left my body, I started sobbing uncontrollably...and did not stop for a while...we hugged it out. It was a complete wave of emotion after the intensity and instead of feeling sad, it felt like a complete release...

I took it as a good thing and brought us closer as it really felt like our bodies and minds were attuned to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

There's some decent science behind it which should make you feel better about it:

"When we orgasm, our brains and bodies are flooded with hormones, including surges of oxytocin (the “cuddle hormone”) and dopamine (the “happy hormone”). Our bodies also have a physical reaction: you might notice shaking in your legs, a flush on your chest, or an increase in your heart rate. Basically, orgasms can be really intense — and different people have different reactions to them, including crying"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might buck the trend now but I’ve done it once. We’d had a very intense BDSM session in which we’d taken each other down many levels. It was raw, animalistic raw and so intense and the orgasm I had nearly blew my head off.

I took it as a good thing and brought us closer as it really felt like our bodies and minds were attuned to each other.

Amazing - great to hear.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Sometimes I burst into tears after an orgasm (mainly since having mirena fitted)

Am I mental? Is it just me?

If any men fancy a hairy, crying mess I am over here

Come and get in touch please.

Love to make you cry for all the right reasons.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I took it as a good thing and brought us closer as it really felt like our bodies and minds were attuned to each other.

This is so lovely to read K! Thank you for explaining it from a male perspective. I didn't even consider that it could happen, rather foolishly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this happen to me once when my ex husband and I were still at uni and we'd had some very emotionally intense sex. It was the first time I'd orgasmed through penetration and we came at the same time. The crying completely freaked me out and I didn't let myself connect emotionally like that during sex for years and years after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mirena coil...prepare to go round the twist and turn into an irrational angry monster!!!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"Mirena coil...prepare to go round the twist and turn into an irrational angry monster!!!"

That's dependant on the person. It suits many and makes life better for them. Me being 1. I'm on my 3 one and no issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a award winning orgasm?

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"I would never make you cry...oh wait

Are you Rick Astley?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a woman has cried after having sex with me, not sure it was ever because of an orgasm!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

My Willy cries during an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had calf cramp after orgasm and felt like crying if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv had calf cramp after orgasm and felt like crying if that counts "
Hope you had it rubbed down properly afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this sometimes after an intense orgasm.

Had it happen with a FWB from Fab also like a previous poster, and think it freaked him out a little until I explained it was happy tears. I think it's more likely for me when I feel a proper emotional connection rather than just casual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a porn genre dedicated to this but as with everything to do with porn, I didn't know if it was real or not

Really?? It doesn't turn me on, just makes me sad and embarrassed "

I’d find it very sexy .. be proud of it

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