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I've lost interest in men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "
well now I'm hurt

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Men are a ballache, use that time and energy you'd have spent on them learning to knit or looking up rescue cats.

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "

That’s ok. We all go through phases of being interested in things and then losing that interest.

Perhaps something else could amuse you for a while instead.

I hope you’re feeling well other than that. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "

I think a lot of us are going through phases of that. It’s ok, be gentle with yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats a shame

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Take up baking

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Difficult at moment as can chat but can't arrange for it to lead to anything, and who knows how long for.

Interest might return with a vengeance when restrictions lifted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, I can’t be arsed either

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By *assunachWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

I totally understand that. I’m really missing being with women more than men. I have C here at home fulfilling my desire for men. So I most want what I can’t have.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We all need a big hug .x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Swap interest for faith and that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "

Well, let's face it, a bar of chocolate is so much more satisfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "

Oh no. It wasn’t due to the red skittles was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

me too just cant be bothered with any of it lol

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

I'm still up for it.

Just putting it out there

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I had five tinder matches recently and ended up just unmatching, as I honestly couldn’t be bothered having endless conversations going nowhere. Previously a coffee meet would happen, but as that’s off the cards for quite awhile, I don’t see the point.

So I just ended up hiding my profile on the site and realising that I’ll be on my own for quite sometime

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Lots of people seem to have lost their mojo during lockdown.

How do you feel in day to day life?

If it's just men in general, take a break from fab and concentrate on yourself for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men are a ballache, use that time and energy you'd have spent on them learning to knit or looking up rescue cats. "

I've got 2 rescue cats which would make knitting a challenge

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

That's OK. I'm not a real man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling. Go through phases of it.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've not lost interest in men, but I have lost my sex drive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had five tinder matches recently and ended up just unmatching, as I honestly couldn’t be bothered having endless conversations going nowhere. Previously a coffee meet would happen, but as that’s off the cards for quite awhile, I don’t see the point.

So I just ended up hiding my profile on the site and realising that I’ll be on my own for quite sometime "

I think that's it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of people seem to have lost their mojo during lockdown.

How do you feel in day to day life?

If it's just men in general, take a break from fab and concentrate on yourself for a while. "

It's everything.

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent


"I've not lost interest in men, but I have lost my sex drive."
think thats it with me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

[Removed by poster at 16/02/21 14:14:03]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost interest in humans

My faith in them is at an all time low

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost interest in humans

My faith in them is at an all time low

"

I can understand that x

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "

That’s find as long as you keep the interest in yourself.

Us chaps are pillocks anyway.

Keep your chin up. x

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Pandemic lockdown libido is definitely a thing, add some enforced isolation along with it and before you know it you're talking to yourself and not wanting to go out anymore.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Lots of people seem to have lost their mojo during lockdown.

How do you feel in day to day life?

If it's just men in general, take a break from fab and concentrate on yourself for a while.

It's everything."
Then you need to speak to somebody, have you got family or a close friend you can talk to. If it's something more then you need to address this.

How are you feeling?

Are you having any social interaction with friends or family?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up on us yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pandemic lockdown libido is definitely a thing, add some enforced isolation along with it and before you know it you're talking to yourself and not wanting to go out anymore."

Yeah someone made a comment along these lines yesterday I think.

Or maybe it was 6 months ago. Time means nothing anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swap interest for faith and that's me."

Have you got religion P?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op im the same have been for the past year. I think its just this lockdown malarkey thats effected me.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Totally with you on this. Been the same all year. It’s a weird overkill of boredom, stress and monotony. I’m really busy but have sod all to say.

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By *rad110Man
over a year ago

rayliegh

Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"

Aren't you an angel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"

That’s really unkind. People are allowed to be having a tough time and to ask for support.

It’d be pretty awful if we couldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pandemic lockdown libido is definitely a thing, add some enforced isolation along with it and before you know it you're talking to yourself and not wanting to go out anymore."

So true

I rarely see anyone anymore and my mojo has done a runner

I'd rather eat pancakes than have sex

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"

Dude, I came on this morning and my god you're making it difficult for me not to lose my shit.

Rude, disrespectful and a perfect example of "how not to man"

Have some empathy? Compassion?

Or perhaps you came on your period too.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Had similar conversation earlier this week. For me I’m just not feeling it or wanting to do it, but been like that most the year .... I see it as the mind has switched off, you can’t urge for something you can’t feel anytime soon, so the body’s way of coping without having to deal with the teasing.

I’m in no doubt when the time is right that switch will be flicked and it will shoot back into life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You and me both. Be warned fellas,we'll be back!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing "

Thank god for TikTok

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing

Thank god for TikTok "

And YouTube

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You and me both. Be warned fellas,we'll be back!!!"

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"
Is this how you represent yourself in your 'own business,? and do write reports or invoices using text speech, without punctuation.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I have no interest in men either

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Similar note - yesterday I took a work call. It took me 5 mins to be able to talk properly again as I hadn’t spoken a word to anyone in 4 days and my mouth was asleep.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

I believe this to be the reason certain toys may have been invented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"

It's a fair point. It's only been 11 months. We are still alive but many aren't.

Hope you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you, I think it’s their hairy bodies and knobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo

It's a fair point. It's only been 11 months. We are still alive but many aren't.

Hope you are ok. "

11 months on my own. Loss of interest in men sounds trivial but it's only bit of fun I had left,been on here.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I’ve just lost interest full stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve just lost interest full stop"

I hear you

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

From BBC website:

'With more than 118,000 people in the UK now having died with coronavirus, many of us may end up feeling a bit numb. This is not unusual, psychologist Dr Meg Arroll tells BBC Newsbeat, and is a form of self-preservation. She says that some people may be suffering from "compassion fatigue". If you're feeling out of touch with your emotions, there are things you can do to help, including remembering it is OK not to be OK at the moment, looking after your physical health and taking time out for yourself'

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