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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have received 1 racially abusive messaging and another insulting one because i have not been interested in speaking to both profiles. Why do people feel you must speak to them or force an interest?

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
over a year ago

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They feel entitled to your attention as they have shown you some. I think some join fab assuming no one is going to have preferences or other options.

If anyone makes racial comments or are just generally abusive then please report them to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An astronomic sense of entitlement and a bruised ego. Block and ignore.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Basic narcissistic behaviour on their part, I'm sorry this happened to you but definitely add to your block list and report.

This is mostly a place of peace and love. Sadly some people are just dicks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They feel entitled to your attention as they have shown you some. I think some join fab assuming no one is going to have preferences or other options.

If anyone makes racial comments or are just generally abusive then please report them to admin."

It's frustrating because they racial abuse has happened a few times and getting a little tired of it. I don't always get a reply when i message some profiles that I like, but we are grown here. I don't result to abuses. Yes the entitlement is off the scale.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An astronomic sense of entitlement and a bruised ego. Block and ignore."

They blocked me straight after, but yea I will take note if it happens again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure how epo

Idemic it is but i thibk ive been lucky so fsr ive had very few offensove messages and nothibg really bad.

Called a shamale this morning for not replying to some guy fast enough.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Sounds like you dodged a bullet there though. I just don't get some people's thinking sometimes they can behave like that

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Because this place has its fair share of vile people, the same as in all walks of life. If people feel the need to insult us it says much more about them as a person than us. We simply ignore and move on. People who out you down are already beneath you.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Report these kinds of people because they’re zeros here and bring the place down. They shouldn’t be allowed to continue to use the site.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Because this place has its fair share of vile people, the same as in all walks of life. If people feel the need to insult us it says much more about them as a person than us. We simply ignore and move on. People who out you down are already beneath you."

*Put you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the reassurance. Just had to vent.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just delete and block these sniveling little shits that hide behind the protection of anonymity - don't even waste one second of emotion on them ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just delete and block these sniveling little shits that hide behind the protection of anonymity - don't even waste one second of emotion on them ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because this place has its fair share of vile people, the same as in all walks of life. If people feel the need to insult us it says much more about them as a person than us. We simply ignore and move on. People who put you down are already beneath you."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Lack of respect for others and inflated egos behind a screen.

Report, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have received 1 racially abusive messaging and another insulting one because i have not been interested in speaking to both profiles. Why do people feel you must speak to them or force an interest?"

Quite simply, rejection!

Some really over react when faced with it. Same as vanilla dating apps, theres always someone that will be hurt and/or angry but a few will resort to insults.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Coz you hurt their pathetic ego and now they feel the need to lash out to even things up.

I've been all sorts of fat, trampy, slag, bitch, whore and yes, I've had racist comments aimed at me too upon rejecting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coz you hurt their pathetic ego and now they feel the need to lash out to even things up.

I've been all sorts of fat, trampy, slag, bitch, whore and yes, I've had racist comments aimed at me too upon rejecting people. "

It always makes me laugh when they call me a slag, whore or something similar. Like, ok but that obviously was something that you liked about me before I rejected you, so not really a bad thing huh little fella! Lol

The same with an ex. Oh but you enjoyed that I was a slut while I was with you, but now suddenly it's a bad thing because I don't want you? lol smh. They need to find something new.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Just block & ignore. People like that are never worth of your time & effort. Treat it like a lucky escape, smile & move on.

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

Usually not getting what they want and almost always single men. Just big babies throwing their toys out the pram. Just report block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people are basically overgrown children with all the wit and charm of a public louse.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I never noticed other profiles they ever have insulted me but if they have i didn't notice because was not important to me

I just focus in the good and positive things

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By *artyLesbiansCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Usually not getting what they want and almost always single men. Just big babies throwing their toys out the pram. Just report block and move on "

Yes it is usually men, but there are some pretty nasty woman on here too! Why do people have to be nasty rather than just accepting the rejection and move on. Some of the messages we get are shocking but rather than reacting we just ignore or reply something overly nice x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Probably thinking that you’re the one being rude because they sent you a message.

Not once considering that the site clearly has a policy that ‘no reply means not interested’ so they’re actually the rude person for not abiding by that policy and then following it up by sending a rude message to you.

Entitled guys are ten a penny on this site. I don’t get too many nasty messages these days, but it’s often the straight guys not looking for TV’s on their profiles that throw their toys out of the pram when I turn them down.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Short and simple answer is because they are fucking idiots

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

There should be a zero tolerance for any racial abuse, which should result in a lifetime ban and reporting to the police. But that's just my opinion.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I have received 1 racially abusive messaging and another insulting one because i have not been interested in speaking to both profiles. Why do people feel you must speak to them or force an interest?"

Tbh op I’m tempted to hurl abuse at you because you have a superlative bottom and I’m a tad jealous!

Consider yourself abused, would you please?

In answer to your question though - I’ve no idea - but they do. If it’s not race then it’s age, gender, weight, sexual preferences etc etc etc - the list is pretty endless. Sadly there are shitty people everywhere - and fab is no exception.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Usually not getting what they want and almost always single men. Just big babies throwing their toys out the pram. Just report block and move on

Yes it is usually men, but there are some pretty nasty woman on here too! Why do people have to be nasty rather than just accepting the rejection and move on. Some of the messages we get are shocking but rather than reacting we just ignore or reply something overly nice x"

Same here! I’ve found that nothing annoys the gonads more (and yes I agree it’s not just men) than pleasant, polite, articulate responses. Makes my day!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I was told once that women in my country get killed hundreds an hour and I should piss back there to get killed too... I laugh now, but at the time I was very upset. Profile was reported, but they only create others and carry on- I have a regular harraser who keeps telling me I come from a country of whores. Such a charmer. I’ve blocked him under 10 different profiles at least, haha.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I got a really abusive one just this morning! All because I wouldnt meet the twat in the middle of a pandemic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have received 1 racially abusive messaging and another insulting one because i have not been interested in speaking to both profiles. Why do people feel you must speak to them or force an interest?

Tbh op I’m tempted to hurl abuse at you because you have a superlative bottom and I’m a tad jealous!

Consider yourself abused, would you please?

In answer to your question though - I’ve no idea - but they do. If it’s not race then it’s age, gender, weight, sexual preferences etc etc etc - the list is pretty endless. Sadly there are shitty people everywhere - and fab is no exception. "

Haha. Thanks for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone sent me a message saying there going to bleach there eyes after looking at my profile

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"Someone sent me a message saying there going to bleach there eyes after looking at my profile "

That’s so wrong. People can be so horrible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone sent me a message saying there going to bleach there eyes after looking at my profile

That’s so wrong. People can be so horrible "

Just nasty

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

OP, I would just take all this shit with a pinch of salt, there are too many numbskulls out in the real world to get wound up about rather than some moron on a swingers site

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Never understand why people turn nasty and send you abusive messages. This week I’ve been called a ego fuelled slapped and a dirty whore for not replying to messages reported and blocked. I message people first, wouldn’t dream of embarrassing myself and sending a snotty message if they didn’t respond xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this OP. Unfortunately it's just something that seems to happen on this site and probably others similar. People don't always realize how hurtful they can be when they can't see the person in the flesh. The only saving grace we can say is that not everyone is like that and those type of messages are very much in the minority, as least for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never understand why people turn nasty and send you abusive messages. This week I’ve been called a ego fuelled slapped and a dirty whore for not replying to messages reported and blocked. I message people first, wouldn’t dream of embarrassing myself and sending a snotty message if they didn’t respond xx"

Exactly! When a person doesn't respond I take the hint and keep it moving.

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sorry to hear this OP. Unfortunately it's just something that seems to happen on this site and probably others similar. People don't always realize how hurtful they can be when they can't see the person in the flesh. The only saving grace we can say is that not everyone is like that and those type of messages are very much in the minority, as least for us. "

Those who are prepared to abuse people whilst hidden behind a keyboard are in my opinion revealing their true self, no filters. Even when presented with that ugly personality type our best defence is politeness. Had a few get funny (rude and abusive) with me because I don’t want a ‘blow n go’ meet. I thank them for the compliment and wish them all the luck in finding their next cock. Then simply (block) unfortunately these plonkers are likely to be more prevalent in here because of the keyboard anonymity and lack of immediate human reaction or consequence. Essentially shallow, self opinionated cowards. (Phew that was quite a polite rant, I’m good now )

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

It's usually because u reject them I find allways politely of course! Sometimes it's just random first message and block what the reasoning is there I've no idea! X

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