FabSwingers.com forum: Exploring bi side

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks how's everyone doing?. I've been in the swinger life style a while now however my girlfriend is fairly new to it but has buckets of enthusiasm (alot more than I thought! Lol) she surprised me the other week by saying its a fantasy of hers to watch me with another couple and to suck cock, and basically to be there bitch from what she was saying. While I was like wtf!! I definitely had thought about this before it's just i was more surprise at the fact she wanted something like that, surely I'm not the only one?. I suppose then that I'm asking if there are any friendly bi couples out there that are up for a chat and maybe surprising my girlfriend one time when she comes home from work?, I could send pics of us both after a brief chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd talk about it some more before you go springing any surprises

Reality doesn't always translate as well as the fantasy

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

When I read the 'wtf', my inner voice read this in a high pitch voice for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I read the 'wtf', my inner voice read this in a high pitch voice for some reason."
hahah yes very near high pitched! Ohh she was being deadly serious and something she wants 100%, I asked her a day or to later if she was actually being serious and yet again to my surprise she said she was but said she would like for me to go at it without her for the first time (her words) apparently so I feel more comfortable when the time comes and that I put on more of a show for her

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Why not open a couples profile and discuss it more. You may have more success.

Just a thought.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Why not open a couples profile and discuss it more. You may have more success.

Just a thought."

Would agree with this.

Not saying this is the case OP - but you will find a lot of cynicism that this is all just a fabrication for you to get a meet with a couple and that having got that meet your girlfriend will suddenly get cold feet and not be interested.

At least if you had a couples profile that your girlfriend was actively involved with people may be less cynical.

Perhaps consider waiting till the clubs are open and getting along to a bi night might be a better option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I get what your saying and it does look like that but I assure you that isnt the case, she isn't comfortable making a profile together just yet as she is still new to the idea, she knows I have a profile tho. She's willing to meet with the couple before hand but not join in until the second meet. You all may be right tho, thanks for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have enjoyed exploring my bi side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I get what your saying and it does look like that but I assure you that isnt the case, she isn't comfortable making a profile together just yet as she is still new to the idea, she knows I have a profile tho. She's willing to meet with the couple before hand but not join in until the second meet. You all may be right tho, thanks for the advice x"

Yea prob best making a couples profile if your partner is willing to meet the couple beforehand.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being brutally honest I'll be very surprised of you find anyone willing to meet you under those circumstances via the site and through a single male profile.

Only thing I can suggest is a bi night at a club when they re-open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, without giving you false hope...

I meet with my partner occasionally, even though we don't have a profile together here

We enjoy a very specific 'kink' / set of circumstances

People will meet you both via a single profile but, in all honesty, any meets are likely to be with a guy, last minute, with little or no communication or discussion, just meet up and get on with it

That sort of meet is often off the radar here, but they do happen

You do, however, need to accept that you will get messed about and not every meet will work out as you might hope

Oh, and I still think you both need to talk more about boundaries and dynamics

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