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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will read later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found personally, it pays to read a person/couples profile an respond as best in detail as you can. Don’t see why you wouldn’t anyway to be fair.

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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve found personally, it pays to read a person/couples profile an respond as best in detail as you can. Don’t see why you wouldn’t anyway to be fair. "

We either. Then you ask did you read profile yes eh clearly not xx

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By *rs-sensual-meWoman
over a year ago

gwynedd

They just try their luck.

Some admit they just push it to see how far the chat will go.

It's annoying but its them wasting their time in the end.

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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"They just try their luck.

Some admit they just push it to see how far the chat will go.

It's annoying but its them wasting their time in the end. "

Thats very true x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nice boobs...

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I always read the profile as there could be something in there that would specify what someone is looking for. If I don't fit that criteria, saves me messaging really but as pointed out.. you could write an essay and it will still be ignored or glanced over and miss out on the important bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"

In our experience if it’s men it’s because they go tit blind which obviously renders them unable to read which is fine!!!!

T

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

It's constant on here. They chance it by replying they have read my profile

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

To me, not reading profiles is a sign of desperation and disrespect. Like I’d open my legs for some can’t afford time to get to know me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually many do read profiles. I get loads of views but no messages.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Actually many do read profiles. I get loads of views but no messages. "

This

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice boobs..."

Thanks

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Drives me bloody insane I take the time to read folks profiles x

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"Nice boobs...

Thanks "

Nice naked photo

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By *k82Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"

Some do, still they get abuse and blocked and ignored, dont take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is simple.

If they disobey they are blocked.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Our profile title is 'Not currently looking at the moment' and our profile 1st line is 'NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING AT THIS TIME' (in block caps too) and STILL knobheads send messages about wanting to meet - I simply don't reply to them anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice boobs...

Thanks

Nice naked photo "

Get out my gallery

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"Nice boobs...

Thanks

Nice naked photo

Get out my gallery "

Make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice boobs...

Thanks

Nice naked photo

Get out my gallery

Make me "

I have a tazer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some profiles are just too long and I end up skipping bits to get to the end usually missing the bit where I should have put the word “unicorn’ or fishface or some other annoying code word!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"Nice boobs...

Thanks

Nice naked photo

Get out my gallery

Make me

I have a tazer "

But you have to get close to use that I have my whip ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allways read the profile give plenty of information to find out what we might have in common .then send a message. Only to find out later ,no reply no interest. Blocked .still have to read profile,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice boobs...

Thanks

Nice naked photo

Get out my gallery

Make me

I have a tazer

But you have to get close to use that I have my whip ready "

It’s attached to a very long pole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"

We would say in the last 20 messages we've had maybe only 3 or 4 have read our profile.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

It'd be so nice to receive a message that shows my profile has been read.. I'm getting bored of one word messages and wanna chat/cam now from non reading male halves of couple's..

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No idea as not something we'd do personally, but maybe opportunists, lack of effort, lack of confidence, it's easy to do, but it's rife and very time consuming. We have become less tolerant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd perform a forum Search as this question has been raised numerous times. Saves clothing the forums with the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"

That’s a great question, I think my favourite time of year is Spring, because you still have Summer to look forward to and everything is in bloom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd perform a forum Search as this question has been raised numerous times. Saves clothing the forums with the same thing."

If you don't like seeing a question that has been asked before it's really easy.

Scroll up and click the Back to The Lounge button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd perform a forum Search as this question has been raised numerous times. Saves clothing the forums with the same thing.

If you don't like seeing a question that has been asked before it's really easy.

Scroll up and click the Back to The Lounge button."

*drops mic*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd perform a forum Search as this question has been raised numerous times. Saves clothing the forums with the same thing.

If you don't like seeing a question that has been asked before it's really easy.

Scroll up and click the Back to The Lounge button."

Did that and the thread title was still visible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd perform a forum Search as this question has been raised numerous times. Saves clothing the forums with the same thing.

If you don't like seeing a question that has been asked before it's really easy.

Scroll up and click the Back to The Lounge button.

Did that and the thread title was still visible. "

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"
becasue most men are typing with one hand on the key board and another on their dick. Looking for genuine people is very hard on some people just want a couple of dirty messages and pics so they can have a quick wank.

Hope you find what you're looking for and sorry for your loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TL:DR

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"

Oh now let me think hard about this one.......

Could it be sex ?

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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx

Some do, still they get abuse and blocked and ignored, dont take it to heart."

I reply to everyone even those who don't read profile. I find it rude to ignore someone. X

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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nice boobs...

Thanks

Nice naked photo

Get out my gallery "

Hahaha

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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx

We would say in the last 20 messages we've had maybe only 3 or 4 have read our profile. "

Its when you say to them i guess you haven't read profile and they say yes. Well definitely not. Xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It makes me laugh when they say they've read my profile, but are then suprised I'm half a couple!

It's annoying, but a good filter and I don't feel bad instantly deleting those messages.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

I tend to look at profiles and as per _xydadbod said. Realise that I'm not in the age range or something else I think I don't fit with and back to the forums.

Though, yesterday I messaged someone who was local and I thought might have some fun with (Chatting wise.) Nope. 2 messsges from me with about 4 or 5 paragraphs per message. I think I got back 7 words spread over two messages.....Not ending in 'off btw.

Probably would have been better to have had my messages deleted. Which is why I rarely message. tbh.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Nice boobs...

Thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"
read it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find that people tend to read my profile

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By *andj17 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd perform a forum Search as this question has been raised numerous times. Saves clothing the forums with the same thing."

Well I would if I knew this was something you can do.

1. hardly ever use forum

2. I Didnt know could search.

And also there a people like me who didnt know this or people new to this page so wouldnt see old posts.

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By *asmintvTV/TS
over a year ago

Heswall


"Why do people message and pretend they have read your profile when they clearly havent. Xx"

It's so annoying. Especially the ones who don't even make an effort, had one just before.. .

"Hi babe, how are you, I'd love to come and visit you now are you free"

I think I state 3 times on my profile I don't accommodate grrrrrrrr

And that's before you consider this person is trying to meet in a national lockdown /global pandemic!

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