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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why men messaging asking to "suck your dick" or whatever.

on my profile it says "looking for a woman.

here is my messages filter:

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

yet still happens a lot. whats the deal

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

But you never said ‘No’ though did you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shour at all why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But you never said ‘No’ though did you "

you have to be a chicken to not understand that, but anyway, NO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I knew how to change my filters why not just try what I did?

Take it as a compliment and politely decline.

Very few people read profiles, I am guilty of that myself alot hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone knows Tgirls suck best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why men messaging asking to "suck your dick" or whatever.

on my profile it says "looking for a woman.

here is my messages filter:

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

yet still happens a lot. whats the deal "

If they messaged you before you put the single man block on they can still message you now.

Maybe in the past you replied "no".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Before I knew how to change my filters why not just try what I did?

Take it as a compliment and politely decline.

Very few people read profiles, I am guilty of that myself alot hahaha."

i NEVER send an abusive message directed to that person. I guess you are right either this or just ingore.

But that shouldnt happen in the first place, what is the point of all these filters ?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone knows Tgirls suck best "

if people are into that, then why not ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take it as a compliment "

I dont consider it as a compliment, it's annoying and it's kinda like a harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take it as a compliment

I dont consider it as a compliment, it's annoying and it's kinda like a harassment."

Spin it around.

I get messages from straight men asking me to suck them off.

It's the world of fab.

It's best just to ignore, delete and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why men messaging asking to "suck your dick" or whatever.

on my profile it says "looking for a woman.

here is my messages filter:

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

yet still happens a lot. whats the deal "

How did they message if u block everyone? Lol

You can always delete or say no. Guess u can’t control what others do no matter how hard u try

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Just block anyone that messaged you before you sorted filters out which should have been a day one thing anyway.

Some people think they can turn anyone because they're that special

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

Will often get asked I just reply and say it's not my thing most accept a no but have to block accasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why men messaging asking to "suck your dick" or whatever.

on my profile it says "looking for a woman.

here is my messages filter:

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

yet still happens a lot. whats the deal "

Because their willies are in charge

And willies aren't that bright

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take it as a compliment

I dont consider it as a compliment, it's annoying and it's kinda like a harassment."

Agree, i used to do that, but its been many times so eventually you going to get fed up

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Why are you so anoyed with it. Either ignore them, say no thank you or dive in head first.

Be thankful you're getting messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why men messaging asking to "suck your dick" or whatever.

on my profile it says "looking for a woman.

here is my messages filter:

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

yet still happens a lot. whats the deal

Because their willies are in charge

And willies aren't that bright"

Lol. You are probably right :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also maybe put it on ur description! Maybe just re-Inforce by saying “men etc, please don’t private message me”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are you so anoyed with it. Either ignore them, say no thank you or dive in head first.

Be thankful you're getting messages."

Because its been many many times, and because i set my filter not to receive messages from a male person, but i still receive them

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Coz an awful lot of men don't give a flying fuck what the other person does or doesn't want. They know what THEY want and that's all they really care about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also maybe put it on ur description! Maybe just re-Inforce by saying “men etc, please don’t private message me” "

Agree i will do that right away! Thanks for the tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you so anoyed with it. Either ignore them, say no thank you or dive in head first.

Be thankful you're getting messages.

Because its been many many times, and because i set my filter not to receive messages from a male person, but i still receive them "

You are a site supporter so if you look at their profile you will be able to see if you messaged them in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coz an awful lot of men don't give a flying fuck what the other person does or doesn't want. They know what THEY want and that's all they really care about.

"

Gurrrrlll how right you are on this! ... sometimes it pisses me right off!!!

like how I have to be ready at all times for whatever needs some of these men have... like N O..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a whole bunch of requirements stated on my profile, they're ignored too lol. Don't sweat it OP

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I have a whole bunch of requirements stated on my profile, they're ignored too lol. Don't sweat it OP "

Everyone wants to play with kitty

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Coz an awful lot of men don't give a flying fuck what the other person does or doesn't want. They know what THEY want and that's all they really care about.

Gurrrrlll how right you are on this! ... sometimes it pisses me right off!!!

like how I have to be ready at all times for whatever needs some of these men have... like N O.."

You're there to be used and abused didn't you know?

And the funniest of it all is they think they're doing YOU a favour! Oh how I laugh and cringe and wonder what fucking planet they're on and where they got their sense of entitlement from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a whole bunch of requirements stated on my profile, they're ignored too lol. Don't sweat it OP "

I think its just a process of adopting, and learning how to ignore in peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get women asking me if I want to play and my profile says im straight, I even get couples trying to push FF...

Just take it as a compliment and say no thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get women asking me if I want to play and my profile says im straight, I even get couples trying to push FF...

Just take it as a compliment and say no thanks x "

i think i will just ignore from now on , or maybe contact admins to ask why the messaging filters are not working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a whole bunch of requirements stated on my profile, they're ignored too lol. Don't sweat it OP

Everyone wants to play with kitty "

Goodness I'd better start working my way through the phone book then!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I get women asking me if I want to play and my profile says im straight, I even get couples trying to push FF...

Just take it as a compliment and say no thanks x

i think i will just ignore from now on , or maybe contact admins to ask why the messaging filters are not working "

If you answer a message they can get around your filters, that’s why it’s better to delete and block.

I can imagine that it’s a pain to see a message and then find out it’s from someone you don’t want to meet. Believe me I get plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take it as a compliment

I dont consider it as a compliment, it's annoying and it's kinda like a harassment."

People not respecting your preferences and messaging you anyway is not a compliment. I get annoyed when men message to ask me about things I've clearly indicated that I'm not into. But there you go, a lot of men on here couldn't give a fuck

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I have a whole bunch of requirements stated on my profile, they're ignored too lol. Don't sweat it OP

Everyone wants to play with kitty

Goodness I'd better start working my way through the phone book then!"

Friends list first would be better

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"But you never said ‘No’ though did you

you have to be a chicken to not understand that, but anyway, NO!"

Is that why the chicken crossed the road to suck some cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But you never said ‘No’ though did you

you have to be a chicken to not understand that, but anyway, NO!"

Kinda Cock-a-doodle-don't?

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Why men messaging asking to "suck your dick" or whatever.

on my profile it says "looking for a woman.

here is my messages filter:

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

yet still happens a lot. whats the deal "

They either don't read profiles or ignore what those profiles say. We get it all the time. Just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maths. Averages and time.

Send 100 shitty messages quickly, and they’ll get 1 response.

Send 100 carfully crafted bespoke messages slowly, and they’ll only get 1 response and now less time to browse potn hub

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