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Going outside your comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anybody met somebody who doesnt fit there preferences? For exmaple meeting somebody with a hairy back when stated on the profile no hairy back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet men and haven't

I don't have preferences for women as either we click or we don't, is find all sorts of women attractive tbh

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

If we don't explore further than our comfort zones occasionally then we would live very boring and introvert lives and also never discover new things and this goes for life in general as well as sexuall preferences. How do we really know what we like without a sample? I speak from a life of experience stretching my comfort zones but usually with extreme sports and experiences rather than sexually "I'm on with that now". My first extreme stretch of a comfort zone was having a fear of heights and I decided to take up skydiving which lasted 12 months before quitting. Sample everything once "if it's legal and morally right".

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We met a couple that were just younger than our cut off at a club. We wouldn’t have messaged them normally, but thought we’d see where it went.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm trying to be more open minded to meeting people who we wouldn't say are meet preferences. For example older and younger people. Being on here for us is about new experiences so we want to go out of our comfort zone from time to time.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave it off!

Shave it off!

Shave it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if someone doesnt fit the bill 100% im not meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found over the years having a specific preference can limit great experiences.

I dont really have a preference that I stick to outside of personality now. There can always be someone who brings something new to the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have gone for older, younger, shorter, its not a dealbreaker for the right person

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Has anybody met somebody who doesnt fit there preferences? For exmaple meeting somebody with a hairy back when stated on the profile no hairy back x"
I find women with hairy backs a bit of a turn-off.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

On this site, I’ll stick by my preferences. In a club you get to meet the person behind the profile, so I can allow certain preferences go, if their personality sparkles.

That’s why I prefer real life over the riskier chance meetings on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not I intentionally no

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If you ask the right questions at the beginning comfort and zone shouldn’t be a problem further down the line

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My preferences are much more about mindset than aesthetic.

I have, I wouldn't again.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I only have two hard no's, everything else is up for consideration. Preferences are rules to be broken when the mood takes you

C

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I only have two hard no's, everything else is up for consideration. Preferences are rules to be broken when the mood takes you

C"

Agreed, happy to bend as required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone. Let me come back after I do

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If you walk down the same path, it’s odd that you always arrive at the same place.

It’s only kinky the first time.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It can be a great experience to go out of your comfort zone. We've done it a couple of times.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple that were older than what they said when we got to their house. Hubby and I had a chat and agreed that we would still go ahead with the meet as it was our first and we just wanted to see what it was like xxx

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The biggest stretch outside one's comfort zone, isn't down to preferences, it's imaginative play

C

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By *uyfrombristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Has anybody met somebody who doesnt fit there preferences? For exmaple meeting somebody with a hairy back when stated on the profile no hairy back x"

I find people with hard aesthetic no's like that really off-putting, no matter how hot they are. Mainly because it's usually presented as anyone not meeting their criteria as being disgusting.

I have a preference, but some of the best sex I've ever had has been with people who don't conform to that. I'll always judge the person first and if there's a connection, the rest will follow.

That's why I don't get arbitrary age ranges. Like a year (or in some cases a day) makes someone less compatible...

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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