FabSwingers.com forum: Big Dick Problems

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know that there is about a teaspoon full of sympathy in the world for men with big dick problems, so I decided to to some research.

The average maximum depth of a vagina is 5-7 inches. Obviously there will be some women above this figure but they seem to be a small minority.

I have had relationships break down due to the size of my cock,but most people seem to find this unbelievable,but guys who are over 9 inches will understand this as our cocks can be as much as 4 inches too big for some women. It's hard for a man to not get excited during sex and make a few deep thrusts, especially during ejaculation, but these few moments can cause bruising to the cervix that can take weeks to heal properly.

As a teenager I really wasn't certain that I was bigger than average until I met a girl who was much more experienced than me and she asked me if I had a big cock. I said "I think so" then got it out and that was the first time I saw someone's mouth drop open in surprise when seeing it.

As I moved into adulthood and joined sports teams, showering became a issue as my teammates noticed my cock and I was a target of mockery and jealousy.

Over the years I have learned to be a lot more gentle during sex and I sometimes wonder how many other well endowed guys have had bad experiences due to their penis size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humble brag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with my size too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.

I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel for those where it comes to finding accomodating underwear that can hold in one place

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.

I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots."

OP is definitely bigger than 7inch you can clearly see that on his pics... shame I cant say the same as you seen as though you have no photos on your profile

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

There’s a few positions for us that are just not possible so we’ve worked around it.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.

I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots.

OP is definitely bigger than 7inch you can clearly see that on his pics... shame I cant say the same as you seen as though you have no photos on your profile"

Agree ! Did he not look at the Sky Remote and can of Pringles photos

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

At least with length you can not put it all in. It's when it's as thick as your wrist it's difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have that problem (luckily?) but we’ve met two or three guys who have very big cocks and what you say is right. It’s not just the guy who has to hold back though, the woman has to beware pushing back too hard or else it can hurt.

It was becoming a problem with a guy we met and so we asked a friend what the solution is. She’d bragged that her guy had a massive cock and had worked out that either from behind or the woman on top so she can control thrust depth.

Since then it’s been great! I’m told that big ones are great to play with and suck which makes up for it a bit and also that sometimes long ones are girth good and that that is a very good thing. She sighs I’ve heard etc do seem to lend weight to that claim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip know this problem first hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully at 7" am just ok..

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Yip know this problem first hand "

What ? Getting your cervix bruised ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yip know this problem first hand

What ? Getting your cervix bruised ???

Nope big dick problems I am 9.2 inches lol

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I understand the struggle OP I too have the same problem haha

But I found a book (pic on profile) that's proven helpful

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

No such problems for me ..I'm bollock against clitoris slappingly, pelvis against buttocks judderingly average

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Ben is a big dick LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who’s had anal sex with a lot of very well endowed men, I agree that it can be an issue. You do get used to taking them balls deep and, as casual sex, that’s quite a thrill.

However, my last bf was nearly 10” and thick. There were times when we had to be very gentle because a previous session hadn’t been.

I’m trans, if you weren’t aware, and I now have a vagina. I want to enjoy vaginal sex from now on with anal as a treat. This now will limit my choice of men based on the size of his manhood.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

First World issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know that there is about a teaspoon full of sympathy in the world for men with big dick problems, so I decided to to some research.

The average maximum depth of a vagina is 5-7 inches. Obviously there will be some women above this figure but they seem to be a small minority.

As I moved into adulthood and joined sports teams, showering became a issue as my teammates noticed my cock and I was a target of mockery and jealousy.

Over the years I have learned to be a lot more gentle during sex and I sometimes wonder how many other well endowed guys have had bad experiences due to their penis size?"

Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.

I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.

I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him. "

That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.

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By *amanthaJonesTrans1966TV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I adore big cocks especially thick ones with a bulbous head too, even better if it's with 2 well endowed guys taking both in one hole, like my last visit to the tropics male sauna in Portsmouth for their tgirl sessions. Where I was double penetrated a couple of times. I have had many gang bangs and spit roasts by many guys, and a majority of them have been over 7 inches, I even have a 22 inch double ended dildo which is very thick, to which half of it is inside me. I can even do deep throat on well endowed guys taking the full length no matter what size, so far there hasn't been a cock I cant take in either end.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

It can’t be much fun for a man who has to take it easy. Or the lady receiving it, I wouldn’t be able to fully relax if I’d been hurt before.

My husband is a good size and in certain positions it can go a little too deep but I love getting to the point where I’m telling him to fuck me harder and we both lose control a bit. I can’t imagine that happening if he was any bigger.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.

I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.

That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about. "

To pre-warn someone on a date about my monster cock, would be perceived as boasting and gives the impression that all I want is sex. When dating it's better not mentioning it and let them find out in the bedroom if or when it happens.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.

I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots."

I’d say for someone who regularly boasts about his own penis you seem mighty envious of other well endowed men. Not a nice trait.

Lou x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Actually I don’t think the OP is making a “humble brag” why would he? In the forum? I don’t think he needs to brag about things, his profile pics show his size

But what he does bring up is a very human aspect of a fantasy. And the challenges he has faced because of something he has very little control over. The size of his penis.

Years ago I was considered “big” but over the last few years I have found that not so much. I remain the same size, however I think with the advent of more porn, more people looking for NSA etc. That I have dropped into the “average” category and rarely now encounter people that say “where are you going with that” or such like. I’m still careful, because as the OP says, you want to be a considerate lover, however I find that women are less intimidated by my size. Maybe I was never that big in the first place? Maybe the bar for “big” is now higher? Not sure.

One thing I do know, is that I can’t do anything about it, but the way some men talk about it you would think they had a direct hand (pardon the pun) in the size of manhood that life dealt them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.

I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.

That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.

Fair point..

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.

I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.

That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.

Fair point..

Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It’s all about the girth.

As said, you can always not put it all the way in, but when things are too tight (for either of you) it’s difficult.

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By *t9090Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I just use my brain and plenty of communication

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I don’t see what the problem is really. I have known a lot of women who can take and love a dick of the OP size. There’s loads of them on here. He just needs to find women like that. OP if you’re struggling DM me and I can put you in touch with a few

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand. "

What if the bloke really liked yodelling and could appreciate a good echo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your cock gets hard, does your neck go soft?

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By *rgck9Man
over a year ago

rotherham

Camera angles can do a lot to make you look bigger than you really are.

Not that big in videos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.

I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.

That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.

Fair point..

Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand. "

Mine is short but very wide. Like a tuna can. I really should warn them their cock won't touch the sides.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually I don’t think the OP is making a “humble brag” why would he? In the forum? I don’t think he needs to brag about things, his profile pics show his size

But what he does bring up is a very human aspect of a fantasy. And the challenges he has faced because of something he has very little control over. The size of his penis.

One thing I do know, is that I can’t do anything about it, but the way some men talk about it you would think they had a direct hand (pardon the pun) in the size of manhood that life dealt them. "

Porn is definitely a problem because we are fooled by camera angles and the use of very short people into believing that is a reflection of real life. Most women in porn are under 5ft 2" tall and many of the guys are quite short with a few exceptions.

Mandingo, for example is rumoured to be about 5'6" or 5'7" and about we are told his cock is 12 inches, but he is nearer to 9.5 inches, which is still huge, but if you put him with a 4'10" skinny

girl his cock looks like a tree trunk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand.

What if the bloke really liked yodelling and could appreciate a good echo?

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By *ream of Sum Yung Gai2Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I just fold mine over or you could just try anal it a longer passage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got 99 problems but my dick ain’t one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure not been able to use what you have is a problem. There’s bigger, there’s smaller, but I think mine knows what to do.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

being gentle and warming up slowly is the key... i love big cocks so be happy to chat to nice gentlemen who are well endowed. Some women have massive boobies and some men appreciate and adapt. Can't it be the same for men?

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I dont really go on dick size ive had big men and ive had average , had cracking sex with both , i have to like who's its attached to if I dont ,you could be the best sex in the world I still wouldn't be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ladies would like to try my cock to see if I’m alright, never enough of testing thought

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.

I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots."

No wonder there's never as many pringles or as much wine as I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I feel your pain OP.

I've had to turn men down, who seem really lovely, because their penis is too long.

The cervix is supposed to be pushed out of the way if the penis is longer than the vaginal cavity, but it just seems to bang against mine. At some angles an over 7 inch puts pressure on my bladder and that is very painful too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make 2/3 posts a day. Been here a few months and you’ve replied to I’d say 75%.

That some shift mate.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.

I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots.

I’d say for someone who regularly boasts about his own penis you seem mighty envious of other well endowed men. Not a nice trait.

Lou x

Quite the opposite Lou.

I pay compliments.

I do however call out people who say they’re huge and gigantic when in fact they’re neither

Photos make penises look smaller too.

I've been totally flabbergasted when a man whose penis I've seen in photos has undressed, because it has been huge.

I've looked at the OP's photos and it does look much longer than 7".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew, thankfully I don't suffer from these issues.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

I'll lie and say a robin's egg is too big for me.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

I'll lie and say a robin's egg is too big for me."

well obviously!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

good plan!

But won't we need the sky remotes for context?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

I'll lie and say a robin's egg is too big for me.

well obviously!

Might put that on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Pringles and sky remote are pushed in to the leg and start below the balls.

It’s 7’ - no bigger.

The guys with tape measure that start at 1.5 inches are my favourite.

No envy here - I have proof I am gigantic.

I'd be interested to see an alternative angle to all your pics if your "gigantic" 'lol' I could make my dick look like that from your angles... Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?"

I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

good plan!

But won't we need the sky remotes for context?

We would need different size sausages.

I'll be a chipolata.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?

I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine

And picking the shell pieces out afterwards?

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?

I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine

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go on then n i watch so I can learn to do it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?

I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine

go on then n i watch so I can learn to do it to

yeah I have skillz I might change my username to cracknutswithmyvag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Pringles and sky remote are pushed in to the leg and start below the balls.

It’s 7’ - no bigger.

The guys with tape measure that start at 1.5 inches are my favourite.

No envy here - I have proof I am gigantic.

No envy at all, none whatsoever, I mean you sound really cool and breezy about it and not at all like someone who sounds really bothered by it.

Ah there he is. My biggest fan haha

Right on Q"

You make it soooooooo easy, if you look, your comment got about 8 replies, but you only replied back to me, means so much, thanks dude.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have

Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are

It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge

Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?

I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine

go on then n i watch so I can learn to do it to

yeah I have skillz I might change my username to cracknutswithmyvag

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

This thread is a rollercoaster.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"This thread is a rollercoaster. "

Makes you feel a bit queasy in places?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is a rollercoaster. "

A Big Dipper?

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"This thread is a rollercoaster.

A Big Dipper?"
corkscrew ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seem an issue when it’s anal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest. If I see an above average pic on a profile, I'm out.

I think sometimes it's down to prior experience that put off. Not all will take into account the pain or damage they can cause and hammer at it without a thought for the poor uterus taking a beating or tears they can cause. Though not every VWE man will be the same the anxiety around it is off putting for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men^.

Sorry My typos are on a roll today

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

a big dick thread, not enough of these.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Never seem an issue when it’s anal..

I prefer length over girth with anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a big dick thread, not enough of these. "

You must be new here.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"a big dick thread, not enough of these.

You must be new here."

Do another

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