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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1

How do you know if its lust... Or Love

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

When you want to put their happiness before yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think you can love someone until you know who they really are, so probably after a year or two. Before that it's lust or infatuation.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

When they say 'not in the mood' and you realise you're still sublimely happy cuddling in and sleeping.

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"When you want to put their happiness before yours."
like that answer.

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"Personally I don't think you can love someone until you know who they really are, so probably after a year or two. Before that it's lust or infatuation."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only lust to give.....and good conversation of course..

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

When you stick with that person through the good and bad times and they do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you want to put their happiness before yours.like that answer. "

Thats the one...

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"When you want to put their happiness before yours.like that answer.

Thats the one... "

That's the one thing I definitely do. Only ever want to see and hear him happy

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If it’s love I put my balls in as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s love I put my balls in as well "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"How do you know if its lust... Or Love"

When you start thinking about a possible future with them and not just thinking about the sex

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By *hapters3-4Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Fart under the covers and see if they stick around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you can't possibly imagine wanting anyone else

Ever

Because no one will come close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you can't possibly imagine wanting anyone else

Ever

Because no one will come close"

Yep...this...and yet walking away as hard as it is because it’s the right throng for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you can't possibly imagine wanting anyone else

Ever

Because no one will come close"

When they become the reference point against whom all others are judged,

When the thought of their very name makes you smile,

When their happiness is your happiness,

When you put their needs before yours,

When you count the minutes until you next see them,

When your future dreams feature them constantly,

When everything you love being and doing is made better with them,

When they don't have to do but just be,

It's a long list, but when you know you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you want to put their happiness before yours."

I think this is exactly right. Even if you’re a generous lover lust is still driven by your own desires and needs. No such thing as selfish love.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

When you know, you know. If you’re unsure you’re probably not in love.

The best feeling is being in love with the one you lust.

Lou x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When you'd leave them if they could no longer have sex.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

How you feel after you've cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best feeling is being in love with the one you lust."

The best feeling is being in love with the one you lust, AND it being reciprocated.

Without the reciprocation, you've just walked through the gates of eternal damnation!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If it's love you will think about the other person a lot...without wanting to have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if its lust... Or Love

When you start thinking about a possible future with them and not just thinking about the sex"

This

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