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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

How well do you handle criticism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

constructive criticism i dont mind

People who just like to pick fault i could happily slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I handle critiscism a lot better than a buttoned lip.

Nobody expects oodles of compliments but one word would be nice and even a carefully chosen critiscism gives you an idea about something you could improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How well do you handle criticism? "

Very well but people who do it really frickin annoy me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usualy very well. Criticism is an opportunity to improve. There is, though a world of difference between being told where you went wrong and what you can do beter as opposed to being told you are shit.....

On a similar vein i expect to be criticised in private. If done in public i will (and have) 'blown up'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone criticises me i just turn round and say

" Thank you thats the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I believe very well

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"constructive criticism i dont mind

People who just like to pick fault i could happily slap "

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"constructive criticism i dont mind

People who just like to pick fault i could happily slap "

Totally agree. If it's constructive and I value their opinion I take heed. If it's someone who just has too much to say I recognise they have wind and laugh it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many on here like to dish it out but cant take it (criticism that is) you only learn by getting things wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I handle critiscism a lot better than a buttoned lip.

Nobody expects oodles of compliments but one word would be nice and even a carefully chosen critiscism gives you an idea about something you could improve.

"

Ooooh, nail on head time! I fucking detest sulkers, I'm not a violent person in any shape or form but anybody who sulks for more than 5 minutes deserves to have their skull smashed in with a fucking breeze block. Pathetic, unnecessary, selfish and vile! Apart from that, I don't particularly mind it

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"How well do you handle criticism? "

Need to get something off your chest femme? Hmmm do ya do ya???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How well do you handle criticism? "
..with a baseball bat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who is criticising and judging.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Depends who is criticising and judging."
people judge as well as criticise?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't like art critics

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If someone say's your up your own arse, I tell them to fook off lol does that count???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How well do you handle criticism? "

Fine!!!!!!!! No problem!!!!!!! Doesn't bother me in the slightest!!!! Honestly!!!! Really, it doesn't!!!!

Just stop going on about it FFS!!!!

God - some people!!!

Next time i'll remember to put the loo seat down after - I promise!!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"How well do you handle criticism?

Fine!!!!!!!! No problem!!!!!!! Doesn't bother me in the slightest!!!! Honestly!!!! Really, it doesn't!!!!

Just stop going on about it FFS!!!!

God - some people!!!

Next time i'll remember to put the loo seat down after - I promise!! "
and dont squeeze the toothpaste from the middle either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How well do you handle criticism?

Fine!!!!!!!! No problem!!!!!!! Doesn't bother me in the slightest!!!! Honestly!!!! Really, it doesn't!!!!

Just stop going on about it FFS!!!!

God - some people!!!

Next time i'll remember to put the loo seat down after - I promise!! and dont squeeze the toothpaste from the middle either "

That wasn't me! It was the...er...cat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who is criticising and judging.people judge as well as criticise? "

I'm not criticising or judging you for shit stirring at all!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Depends who is criticising and judging.people judge as well as criticise?

I'm not criticising or judging you for shit stirring at all! "
shit stirring? i wouldnt dare, you of course remain the master at that art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I think it's valid then very well

If I think it's misplaced then depending on who it is that's offering it up, I'll either tell um to feck off or, go away, think about what they've said, why they may think it and discuss it another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who is criticising and judging.people judge as well as criticise?

I'm not criticising or judging you for shit stirring at all! shit stirring? i wouldnt dare, you of course remain the master at that art "

How very dare you madame

I never have and never will shit stir.

As Bussy said the other day "you can't trust that Femme, don't turn your back on her!"

I'm starting to believe him y'know.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

it'll never happen.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Depends who is criticising and judging.people judge as well as criticise?

I'm not criticising or judging you for shit stirring at all! shit stirring? i wouldnt dare, you of course remain the master at that art

How very dare you madame

I never have and never will shit stir.

As Bussy said the other day "you can't trust that Femme, don't turn your back on her!"

I'm starting to believe him y'know."

OMG he said that to you as well???

he told me the same thing! (actually so did the rest of the fab!) but shhhh dont tell her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How well do you handle criticism? "

Quite well, if from someone I know (that know me well) and care about then I take it as constructive, if from someone that doesn't know me then I take it as bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that bothers me a great deal, if it's from someone that knows me that's cool and I'll look at their comments and tryn improve, if it's just someone being a twat n tryn to be a smart arse I ignore....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very calmly actually, smile to their face, nod a bit, thank them... then pooh in a bag and post it to them

First Class natch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How well do you handle criticism? "

I listen scratch my chin then tell them tuf cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how it was delivered though doesn't it and who said; if its said in a constructive way, it would be well taken and thought about, if its hurled during a row or 'words', it hurts like hell, I would still think about though and the person who said, let he who is without sin cast the first stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"constructive criticism i dont mind

People who just like to pick fault i could happily slap "

Im with you on this. Too many people criticize nastily to score points and feel good about themselves.

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