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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a song title x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Nope. I have only ever fallen truly in love once and that is with my husband.

I imagine it must be incredibly painful to fall in love with the wrong person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like a song title x"

You make me feel I am dirt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. I have only ever fallen truly in love once and that is with my husband.

I imagine it must be incredibly painful to fall in love with the wrong person."

O it is believe me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !"

Is you friend the band Buzzcocks?

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

Yup!

Salvaged an amazing friendship out of one unrequited love...

Who then helped me through the heartache of my next big love playing me for a fool.

I don't fall often, but when I do I fall hard. And I'm now old enough and experienced enough to just enjoy the fact I'm feeling so much, even if it goes nowhere. Cos it's better than feeling nothing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup!

Salvaged an amazing friendship out of one unrequited love...

Who then helped me through the heartache of my next big love playing me for a fool.

I don't fall often, but when I do I fall hard. And I'm now old enough and experienced enough to just enjoy the fact I'm feeling so much, even if it goes nowhere. Cos it's better than feeling nothing! "

Then some good came from it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Is you friend the band Buzzcocks?"

What makes you say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I have only ever fallen truly in love once and that is with my husband.

I imagine it must be incredibly painful to fall in love with the wrong person.

O it is believe me!"

it can be more than just painful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. I have only ever fallen truly in love once and that is with my husband.

I imagine it must be incredibly painful to fall in love with the wrong person.

O it is believe me!

it can be more than just painful"

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Is you friend the band Buzzcocks?

What makes you say that?"

The original question is also a song by the buzzcocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I have only ever fallen truly in love once and that is with my husband.

I imagine it must be incredibly painful to fall in love with the wrong person.

O it is believe me!

it can be more than just painful

How so?"

the wrong person can destroy your life and mindset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Is you friend the band Buzzcocks?

What makes you say that?

The original question is also a song by the buzzcocks "

That’s what I was referring to also x

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Think I was traumatised by my first love. Do you fall in love without fear and doubt so purely as you do the first time as you do subsequently later in adult life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Is you friend the band Buzzcocks?

What makes you say that?

The original question is also a song by the buzzcocks

That’s what I was referring to also x "

Are we the only ones that appreciate good music?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. my old boss. Had to find a new job in the end.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

FWIW I got the Buzzcocks reference but assumed it was a cute way to ask the question, rather than an opportunity to catch folk out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FWIW I got the Buzzcocks reference but assumed it was a cute way to ask the question, rather than an opportunity to catch folk out! "

How do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. Having too much fun for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"FWIW I got the Buzzcocks reference but assumed it was a cute way to ask the question, rather than an opportunity to catch folk out! "

It was or is a genuine question wrapped up in a jovial way. Not intended to catch anyone out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !"

Yes and it's stuck with me to this day. Nothing did or ever will come of it, I never told her out of fear of rejection, I regret that every day...

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By *ice and PeasCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Got that song stuck in my head now

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Yes unfortunately twice I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got that song stuck in my head now

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes unfortunately twice I have."

Was your heart broken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

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Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Yes"

The song is about unfrequented love being rejected and in part abused. A powerful combination of lust, passion and emotions that cause pain to one party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but we live and learn

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes, but then I came to my senses and dumped his ass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, but then I came to my senses and dumped his ass."

Was it a failed affair or was, as the song implies, a rejection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Yes

The song is about unfrequented love being rejected and in part abused. A powerful combination of lust, passion and emotions that cause pain to one party."

Really! Well I never!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Yes

The song is about unfrequented love being rejected and in part abused. A powerful combination of lust, passion and emotions that cause pain to one party.

Really! Well I never! "

You do now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I did turns out it was just lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. With someone who was a very close friend, was definitely something there but decided not to pursue it as didn’t want to risk the friendship..

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Yes she was married .broke my heart in oct .so wanted 2 end my life .never again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes she was married .broke my heart in oct .so wanted 2 end my life .never again x "

Wow, brother I hope you are on the mend?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yep.

One was an abusive so and so and the other wasn't separated at all, as lockdown part 1 exposed.

I'm done with relationships now, and making that decision is somewhat a relief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

It caused a lot of heartache - but I learnt a lot from that relationship so no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep.

One was an abusive so and so and the other wasn't separated at all, as lockdown part 1 exposed.

I'm done with relationships now, and making that decision is somewhat a relief.

Sorry to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Asking for a friend !

Yes

The song is about unfrequented love being rejected and in part abused. A powerful combination of lust, passion and emotions that cause pain to one party.

Really! Well I never!

You do now!"

I can google too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Two people and luckly enough the feeling is mutual x

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Yes. He was married and neglected to tell me. Oh and he had a whole “secret job” he couldn’t tell me about. And he knew the contents of my phone, texts of sent and to whom, and where I was at any given moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...and it hurt like hell. Shouldn’t have happened but somethings can’t be helped...however the good to come from it was learning I was capable of something I thought did not exist or I was unable of feeling...onwards and upwards.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes...and it hurt like hell. Shouldn’t have happened but somethings can’t be helped...however the good to come from it was learning I was capable of something I thought did not exist or I was unable of feeling...onwards and upwards.x

That’s the ticket.....

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Yes it's hard when you try so hard not to as you know they don't feel the same for you. I've loved and great feeling but real loved hurts And so much stronger

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

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"Nope. I have only ever fallen truly in love once and that is with my husband.

I imagine it must be incredibly painful to fall in love with the wrong person.

O it is believe me!"

Can now tell the difference of loving someone and real love and you can't have them it pain is so painful at times

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

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Nobody can choose to fall in love or any emotion for that matter, it's how we choose to deal with those emotions that's important.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

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"Yup!

Salvaged an amazing friendship out of one unrequited love...

Who then helped me through the heartache of my next big love playing me for a fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does your friend need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I was traumatised by my first love. Do you fall in love without fear and doubt so purely as you do the first time as you do subsequently later in adult life? "

i think every time you fall a little less and hold a little more of yourself back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

struggling my way out of that situation just now

but then i knew i shouldn’t have fallen in love with them so have to blame myself a little

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Yeah, been there myself. I wear my heart on my sleeve at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever fallen in love you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

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No think it was lust rather than love. Still hurt when it ended tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does your friend need to know

Because he wants to know what becomes of the broken hearted?

Additionally he also wants to know how do you mend a broken heart?

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