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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a little curious to know if people take any notice of winks or do they just keep it moving

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Some do, some don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer winks to unsolicited messages and it says on my profile ... I check out their profile and occasionally wink back if I'd like to chat with them. Have worked for me for years ... same if I like a profile I'll wink at them first to indicate a desire to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer winks to unsolicited messages and it says on my profile ... I check out their profile and occasionally wink back if I'd like to chat with them. Have worked for me for years ... same if I like a profile I'll wink at them first to indicate a desire to chat.

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Everyone loves a wink. I check mine

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Never check my winks. I assume if a fella is interested he’d message.

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I send winks when I

Like the look of someone and always thank for the winks I’m sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer winks to unsolicited messages and it says on my profile ... I check out their profile and occasionally wink back if I'd like to chat with them. Have worked for me for years ... same if I like a profile I'll wink at them first to indicate a desire to chat.

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Sometimes I do just generally wink as it is easier to know if there could be interest before a message some may call it lazy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take notice of winks but I never know if I should wink back so they can message me first or whether I should take that as enough of a sign of interest to message them

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I like winks - they are like a smile in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am always happy to receive a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we take notice of all of our winks, we like to leave a wink with someone so they can check out our profile and see if we tickle their fancy and if we do, they can either wink back or send a message.

I always read peoples profiles before winking though as not everyone uses them and will happily send a message first if that's the case

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we take notice of all of our winks, we like to leave a wink with someone so they can check out our profile and see if we tickle their fancy and if we do, they can either wink back or send a message.

I always read peoples profiles before winking though as not everyone uses them and will happily send a message first if that's the case "

Wink*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take notice of winks but I never know if I should wink back so they can message me first or whether I should take that as enough of a sign of interest to message them"

Either way works for me ... a wink just means an interest in chatting with the other person. If they wink back I'll message them, if they wink first I'll wink them back to indicate an interest.

So many ladies find the amount of messages or the caliber of messages they get difficult but don't use the winks to alleviate this problem? Never understood it really ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont normally get many winks but would appreciate them if they appeared

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont normally get many winks but would appreciate them if they appeared"

Agreed only had a few since being on here

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nudge nudge, wink wink, say n'more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we take notice of all of our winks, we like to leave a wink with someone so they can check out our profile and see if we tickle their fancy and if we do, they can either wink back or send a message.

I always read peoples profiles before winking though as not everyone uses them and will happily send a message first if that's the case

Wink* "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Can be annoying

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I love a wink. Just a shame I rarely get them

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't even think about looking at them.

Maybe I should check them more often.

And, I never send them...maybe I should.

It's a tool I very rarely use.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We check winks and wink back if we like the look of them.

We often wink people and show our interest that way, if they wink back we’ll send a message then.

It’s a little opener...shows you are interested.

K

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Yes, if we like the profile we'll wink back. Often they don't follow with a message so that's the end of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't even think about looking at them.

Maybe I should check them more often.

And, I never send them...maybe I should.

It's a tool I very rarely use."

Send a few out see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even think about looking at them.

Maybe I should check them more often.

And, I never send them...maybe I should.

It's a tool I very rarely use."

Definitely an underused and underappreciated tool put there to use ... saves all the messaging dilemmas so many people have

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don't even think about looking at them.

Maybe I should check them more often.

And, I never send them...maybe I should.

It's a tool I very rarely use.

Send a few out see how it goes "

Maybe I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be great to have some winks. I have only ever had 2, 1 from a woman, 1 from a couple, having said that I did not notice for 6 weeks...I must pay attention more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only take notice of winks when playing a forum game.

Her x

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I don’t think ppl do. Perhaps it’s just me who have wasted the time sending few winks in the past, and never received one haha

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Depends on the profile, if there's zero interest then it's ignored

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By *ornyJ3000Man
over a year ago

Near you

I like to use winks and always appreciate receiving one when someone is interested.

I don’t thing enough people on here use them, and lots never even check them.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I only wink back if someboy winks me, it they want to take it further then they are in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take notice of winks but I never know if I should wink back so they can message me first or whether I should take that as enough of a sign of interest to message them

Either way works for me ... a wink just means an interest in chatting with the other person. If they wink back I'll message them, if they wink first I'll wink them back to indicate an interest.

So many ladies find the amount of messages or the caliber of messages they get difficult but don't use the winks to alleviate this problem? Never understood it really ... "

I think they get a bad rap for being lazy. Maybe they think that even the worst messages have more effort than a wink?

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

They seemed to be ignored by most people but the idea of them are good. A nice way to let someone know you're interested.

However if there are loads of mails constantly clogging up your inbox the last thing you'll spend your time doing is tracking down winkers

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I prefer winks to unsolicited messages and it says on my profile ... I check out their profile and occasionally wink back if I'd like to chat with them. Have worked for me for years ... same if I like a profile I'll wink at them first to indicate a desire to chat.

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I do this...

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Nudge, nudge, wink, wink

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We take note as we often use them to indicate interest ourselves

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Whether I'm on ma phone or computer, I'm directly on the forums, so hardly ever check who has looked at me or sent a wink.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nudge, nudge, wink, wink "

You read ma post from about 3 hours ago

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I do take notice of winks. I always assumed that means someone is interested in you so I'll winks back and message saying hi and try to start a convo

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