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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people on here want to be messaged As I all ways see don’t just say hi how you doing are you meant to tell people all your dirty Thoughts and how you would like to bend them over and fuck them hard

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

How about thinking about how you first speak to someone new in somewhere like a pub?

I know it's been a while since we've been able to visit pubs ... but I'm sure your memory is good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people on here want to be messaged As I all ways see don’t just say hi how you doing are you meant to tell people all your dirty Thoughts and how you would like to bend them over and fuck them hard "

If they have public genital pics they shouldn't get upset about you talking about sex.

But many do.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Or

And I'm going to be controversial here ...

Read their profile ...

1. Are you what they're looking for?

2. Do they have anything in their profile that you can respond to ... be different

3. Are there any pictures that you can use as a starter

Don't profess your sexual desires and how you want to bang them over the kitchen table ... it's a little creepy ... and ....

You may break the vase/fruit bowl that's on the table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about: “hey Tommy, I hope you’re doing well. I totally agree with you about your post on the forum. I find it difficult to send that first message, too. It’s tough, isn’t it?

Or: “Hi Red-Monkey. Man, I’m never going to be able to cut up a lime without giggling, ever again! Lol. Hope you’re doing well.”

And then, if they want to reply, they can. Obviously they don’t have to reply at all if they don’t want to, but at least you presented a nice side of yourself, and you were non-threatening and stayed away from being weird and creepy. “Fuck, you’re fit. Fancy a fuck” is never a good way to start. Lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"How do people on here want to be messaged As I all ways see don’t just say hi how you doing are you meant to tell people all your dirty Thoughts and how you would like to bend them over and fuck them hard "

Where do you see this? I hate overly intimate first time messages.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

There you go, can only respond to what is in the profile.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"What about: “hey Tommy, I hope you’re doing well. I totally agree with you about your post on the forum. I find it difficult to send that first message, too. It’s tough, isn’t it?

Or: “Hi Red-Monkey. Man, I’m never going to be able to cut up a lime without giggling, ever again! Lol. Hope you’re doing well.”

And then, if they want to reply, they can. Obviously they don’t have to reply at all if they don’t want to, but at least you presented a nice side of yourself, and you were non-threatening and stayed away from being weird and creepy. “Fuck, you’re fit. Fancy a fuck” is never a good way to start. Lol "

Phew ... glad you clarified that ... cutting a line sounded seriously dodgy and I was close to checking urban dictionary as to whether lugging was some practice I was unaware of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about: “hey Tommy, I hope you’re doing well. I totally agree with you about your post on the forum. I find it difficult to send that first message, too. It’s tough, isn’t it?

Or: “Hi Red-Monkey. Man, I’m never going to be able to cut up a lime without giggling, ever again! Lol. Hope you’re doing well.”

And then, if they want to reply, they can. Obviously they don’t have to reply at all if they don’t want to, but at least you presented a nice side of yourself, and you were non-threatening and stayed away from being weird and creepy. “Fuck, you’re fit. Fancy a fuck” is never a good way to start. Lol

Phew ... glad you clarified that ... cutting a line sounded seriously dodgy and I was close to checking urban dictionary as to whether lugging was some practice I was unaware of "

Hahahaha bloody autocorrect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or

And I'm going to be controversial here ...

Read their profile ...

1. Are you what they're looking for?

2. Do they have anything in their profile that you can respond to ... be different

3. Are there any pictures that you can use as a starter

Don't profess your sexual desires and how you want to bang them over the kitchen table ... it's a little creepy ... and ....

You may break the vase/fruit bowl that's on the table"

This

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By *orayMint86Man
over a year ago

Moray

In all honesty, anyone thinking they even deserve a reply after sending just “hey” needs a brain transplant! Lol.

Totally agree, be conversational, be witty, or at least try to be even if it’s terrible. A bit of humour goes a long way.

There’s a world of difference being male or female on here but same applies (to me anyway) if a girl just messaged me “hi” I’d assume they can’t be bothered putting any effort in and they conversation won’t go anywhere....either that or it’s a guy!

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By *orayMint86Man
over a year ago

Moray


"In all honesty, anyone thinking they even deserve a reply after sending just “hey” needs a brain transplant! Lol.

Totally agree, be conversational, be witty, or at least try to be even if it’s terrible. A bit of humour goes a long way.

There’s a world of difference being male or female on here but same applies (to me anyway) if a girl just messaged me “hi” I’d assume they can’t be bothered putting any effort in and they conversation won’t go anywhere....either that or it’s a guy! "

*the conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice will see how I get on

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