FabSwingers.com forum: That first message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So that first message we send, what does it need to contain and what do you all look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent question Paul, let’s put this one to the panel of experts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Excellent question Paul, let’s put this one to the panel of experts. "

You must have some good Tips

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Care to share any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't open with TADA here's my cock your good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha Na the cock pics never get sent first message

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"As long as you don't open with TADA here's my cock your good

Oh ffs

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I'm looking for coherent sentences and an overall feeling when reading any message that this is a genuine person with good intentions.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I want to be Simon" usually gets a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages I don't open... (Maybe this will help):

"Hey"

"How's you?"

"I'd love to stick my cock in..."

"Would you like to on this?"

"I'd love to (inset any sexual comment made before ever speaking to said person)"

"Why don't you reply, are you stuck up?"

"Bitch"

"Wouldn't fuck you anyway, you're fat"

Hope that helps. Don't be that guy lol.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hi, I have cake

FAF

Seriously, what might work for one may not work for the other. Read their profile and then just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I normally send quite a polite message little about me and add something I have seen on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot depends on the recipients fram of mind when they get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock, or a detailed review of the persons profile and pictures with a password and correct thread title

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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago

Away with the faeries

I'd love to be able to go back to the very first message I've received from anyone I'm still friends/chatting to.

I'd venture to guess that the themes running throughout those lovely first messages included humour, combined with some intelligence and a show of some passing interest in my profile, something I'd said in forum or even a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I have cake

FAF

Seriously, what might work for one may not work for the other. Read their profile and then just be yourself. "

Cake definatly works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for coherent sentences and an overall feeling when reading any message that this is a genuine person with good intentions."

Yes this! Coherent sentences... I can only dream of receiving one of those.

Love your profile name and status!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Excellent question Paul, let’s put this one to the panel of experts.

You must have some good Tips

Only PG

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"As long as you don't open with TADA here's my cock your good

Oh...can you recall messages? Asking for a friend...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you all reply to the messages that have made an effort even if they are not your type?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twelve arty, nearly identical dick pics, and a lengthy copy and paste message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile has just as much to do with it as the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just want someone to string a sentence together, something a bit more than 'Hi' or How's U'. Also be nice if they have read the profile instead of asking questions that it would have plainly answered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you all reply to the messages that have made an effort even if they are not your type?"

Some don't but don't take it personally. They can't keep up with the messages and the 'but whyyyy not' replies when they say no thank you.

I'm doing a profile experiment. 2.5 hrs ago I updated my profile, one pic and shite text. I have 89 messages so far.

Oh now 91, up since I started typing this reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not telling you my opening message, it's too good! Don't do the 'can I ask you a question?' thing, it's over used and a bit manipulative. Pick out something on their profile, if they mentioned Star wars, stick in an obscure reference that shows you really read their profile. If their profile is pretty much empty, it's really not worth the effort and just do a copy and paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you all reply to the messages that have made an effort even if they are not your type?

Some don't but don't take it personally. They can't keep up with the messages and the 'but whyyyy not' replies when they say no thank you.

I'm doing a profile experiment. 2.5 hrs ago I updated my profile, one pic and shite text. I have 89 messages so far.

Oh now 91, up since I started typing this reply. "

And how many have the hilarious joke 'I can fill you in later'?

60% lol

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By *ercutiojMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Let's face it. There is no formula.. everything depends from the person who receive it. With some works a simple "hi, how are you" with others filthy message straight away and others the story of your life. So just put interesting picts of yourself and write whatever you feel..be yourself is always the solution

and if they don't reply, their lost

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By *uriousformoreMan
over a year ago

Northwest

"Messages I don't open... (Maybe this will help):

"Hey"

"How's you?"

"I'd love to stick my cock in..."

"Would you like to on this?"

"I'd love to (inset any sexual comment made before ever speaking to said person)"

"Why don't you reply, are you stuck up?"

"Bitch"

"Wouldn't fuck you anyway, you're fat"

Hope that helps. Don't be that guy lol."

Thays wjere i must gobwrong, probably lots of other reasons too but my manners always revert to

"How are you?" Always thought that was being polite...

Need a rethink now

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

To be honest I think alot of the messages sent to individuals can be based on the profile the sender is sending to..

I'll explain through example.

Anyone should able to walk down a street wearing whatever they want. Without fear or intimidation or lude comments.

This can also be said about a person's profile. It could be full of sexual references,sexy images. Text describing everything under the sun.

Messages recieved without fear or intimidation or lude comments.

Unfortunately we are breeding Neanderthal behaviours and desensitization through social media and social conditioning.

Respect and being respectful to others has been given the heave in alot of cases!!!!!

So you have to educate them before they decide to send a message.

I hate the fact that as an individual I have to sensor myself because of the idiots of the world!

But that is the only way I know I can reduce and limit the amount of drivel in my inbox...

Amelia

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By *ercutiojMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"To be honest I think alot of the messages sent to individuals can be based on the profile the sender is sending to..