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Men 55+ are we written off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a thought...... Are we too old to be at this game?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought...... Are we too old to be at this game? "

I'm of the thinking the best is yet to come... its not what we think though but how we are percieved by others.

I'm only forty 11 btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never xx

I'm more active now than I've ever been xx

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By *apphirejadeCouple
over a year ago

London

Not a man I know, but hubby seems to thing our time is up! We are 47 & 48 now but I think age is just a number. What do you think? I would hate to think that I have no fun to lock forward to post lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not at all, no such thing as too old

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55."

Is this why your age limit is set to 52?

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington


"Nope, not at all, no such thing as too old "

Thank you!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.

Is this why your age limit is set to 52?"

I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not I’m more interested in the over 50s any day xx

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.

Is this why your age limit is set to 52?

I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably."

Good girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.

Is this why your age limit is set to 52?

I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.

Good girl! "

Posh is one of the best...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.

Is this why your age limit is set to 52?

I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.

Good girl!

Posh is one of the best... "

Aww Ace.... thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.

Is this why your age limit is set to 52?

I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.

Good girl!

Posh is one of the best...

Aww Ace.... thanks "

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not finished yet so please don't take my plate.

I'm going back for seconds and then there's dessert....

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

No way, love an older gent x

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nearly every profile on here has the 18 to 99 option ticked-so no.

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Im 54 glad to hear theres hope for me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is 56 and doesn't really get hard anymore but he's only allowed to watch me anyway lol

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have noticed that a lot of what I am looking for single ladies and couples have their upper age limit of 50 - 55 which is fair enough it’s their right and preference.When I hit 50 I accepted that there would be less opportunity’s to message certain ladies and couples because of my age and their age filters. I find for me going to a members only club , spa and London socials work best for me.I don’t believe over 50’s are written off by all it’s just a preference for some which I understand and respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the wrong side of 60 & am finding it very hard to get any interest,so many people have 50 or 55 as their upper age limit with "only" after it,so limits the number of people I can message. I do find it fustrating at times. But ever the optimist I'm still here,though for how much longer remains to be seen.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Most definitely not. I know very sexy men of 55 plus.

And yes my filters are set lower but they aren't set in stone it's to cut down on messages and guys who are a lot older lying about their age which happened when I set them higher. If I see a guy ai like I can make first contact and hope they like me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My upper limit is my age (53) as in life I've always ended up with younger lol but since being on fab (7 years!) I get more self-entitled grief off guys older than me than any other ages ... so I changed to lower than me sorry! I really don't care that you can go hours and hours (not being able to cum isn't my thing) I don't care if you think you're experienced (prefer fun and a laugh) can rarely accommodate (found this to be a poor unsuspecting wife!) or have to wait for a cockring or a pill to work (even worse take it before on the assumption you'll be getting some!)

I know I'm generalising but this has honestly been my limited experience, so on this profile I block anyone older than me! Socials, parties and clubs are the only way I'll meet older guys from now on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, not at all, no such thing as too old "

That’s good to know.

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By *reenboy 300Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

It seems that us older men have greet difficulty on this site..mine works well use it x

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

No I like a variety of ages, it’s about attraction to the person rather than an age.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Up until Covid came along I was doing very well on here so my age hasn't been a problem

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Just think of it as having been in training for many years and you are now part of an elite squad of highly expeirnced specialists. Keeping in shape will always help of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a man I know, but hubby seems to thing our time is up! We are 47 & 48 now but I think age is just a number. What do you think? I would hate to think that I have no fun to lock forward to post lockdown "

You’re pictures tell a different and more compelling story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking that at 46 I'm to old for this game.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've had a lot of grief for my age limits. I think meeting upto 20 years older is pretty open but hey. When I was in my early 20s, my age limit was mid 30s so my upper age limit has gotten further from my own age as I've gotten older and I have no reason to believe that won't continue. I've known swingers in their 80s. I don't believe there's an age limit on it. Carry on as long as you like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, give it up mate. We're on the downward slide into our twilight years. It's as good as over.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I had a lot more fun up to the age of 55 than I have in my mid to late 50’s, on here or on the dating scene. In my experience women in their late(ish) 40’s are quite interested in Guys in their early 50’s. However I have seen that when women get to they’re early 50’s they are more interested in Guys in their 40’s.

Just my experience.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Looks like I am, nothing from here or is that because I don’t fit in ? Lol

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm 66 I do get offers most I am unable to take up. Age is but a number

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Just a thought...... Are we too old to be at this game? "

Absolutely not.

There's lots of older people on the scene and several successful older guys on here.

Get to clubs when they re-open and show that you're more than just a cock on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on here. In the real world we are still viable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody is too old and nobody over 18 is too young.

People might not have the experience they'd hoped for and that could be in part due to their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit i havn't given my age much thought at all. I just get on with it and enjoy myself. If it wasn't for Covid, i'd still be meeting. Can't wait to get back to some normality and start where i left off last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55."

Only 5 years to go then

Well, actually it's nearer 4, but we don't talk about that

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only person that can decide if you're "too old" for this OP is you - and it's no different from the decision *anyone* takes, regardless of age, that decides this lifestyle is not for them.

Age is not a limitation in itself, yes your choice may be more limited as you pass outside of some peoples age filters, but that's no different from being outside any other filters or requirements or preferences others' may have.

It's just a case of finding those whose age criteria you do meet and focussing on them - I only joined the site when I was almost 51 and have no complaints whatsoever about my experience or doubts about my age restricting me.

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By *ack1970bMan
over a year ago

ipswich

Keep going as long as you can have as much fun as you can life’s too short. I’m a young lad that likes older women so must Vice versa. X

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man...

Mine, at 50 isn't even close to being written off

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer, absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple answer, absolutely not "

Thread closed

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple answer, absolutely not

Thread closed

Lu "

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By *uv2kiss2Couple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Not a man I know, but hubby seems to thing our time is up! We are 47 & 48 now but I think age is just a number. What do you think? I would hate to think that I have no fun to lock forward to post lockdown "

57 & 53 here .....and we’ve had this same conversation a few times in the last 10 months !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 52 written off by women

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We like meeting 60+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO WAY!!!

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Not at all

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Hopefully not because I'm 56 very soon

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While that is just above my maximum age limit, I would make an exception for the right person (I know, generous of me, hey!). I've seen some men in their 50s on here and wipe the floor with some of the young guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly feels like being written off

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I think when people put a upper age range in... 50 55 are nice round numbers people just put without any thought! Just because that seemed a nice number!

Pity though as someone who is 55 could be fitter better kept and experienced than someone 20 years younger!

All because it was a nice round number lol

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