FabSwingers.com forum: Viewing your profile!

By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattered

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?! "

I only get notified of women/couples viewing my profile. Sometimes I have a look to see but mostly it’s because I have written something horrible in the forum so tend to ignore that part of fab.

If somebody was viewing me daily and not messaging me, I may find that a little sinister or disconcerting but mostly it’s “meh, I put my profile out there, people can look if they want”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, once folk have taken a look at my profile they tend to delete their accounts

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Flatted. Most are either too old or too young to message but are welcome to look at pics if they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles are there to be viewed. Can always be hidden if you dont wish to be seen

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t mind it. I have a few regular viewers who never message me. I prefer to think that it’s nice they’re looking because they like what they see (and maybe having a furtive rub).

Some folk are just shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind it. I have a few regular viewers who never message me. I prefer to think that it’s nice they’re looking because they like what they see (and maybe having a furtive rub).

Some folk are just shy."

Can confirm this. Have viewed. Never messaged. Have rubbed. Am shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always flattering. More so if I get a fab.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

I don’t mind people look but don’t comment, it’s their choice

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

It was flattering until one suddenly messaged us saying happy birthday for tomorrow... We hadn't posted about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice for someone to take a peek and even say hi... Never know what may happen.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I hardly ever check who has looked at me, but when I do it's generally blokes. Most ladies prefer to take the Ninja approach, same as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind it. I have a few regular viewers who never message me. I prefer to think that it’s nice they’re looking because they like what they see (and maybe having a furtive rub).

Some folk are just shy."

Yep, I’m the same as this xx

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was here before on a previous profile a forumite checked out my profile 19 times out of the last 100 people to look, I don’t know if she forgot she was out of stealth mode, or trying to make a point.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

"One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting "

Ah, sorry about that

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting

Ah, sorry about that

Haha! You can perv as much as you like, at least we have a conversation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaallllll the time but sadly it's usually only forumites. Depends who it is but if they creep me out then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person constantly views mine. Doesnt bother me but i do wonder why when they are no longer interested in me, very strange.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

One of my friends views my profile a bit and I get it - who wouldn't want to? It's good fap material and if you get bored of looking you can close your eyes and listen to me as you fap.

He's the only one I will tease about it because it tickles me. I'm going to stop though because it's not cool. A man can wank in peace.

Everyone else, I don't mind. I don't say anything about it. I've probably posted some crap and they're looking at the profile wondering who this woman filled with nonsense is.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’re flattered up to a point, if they keep looking and don’t message we usually think they’re trying to see if they recognize us and block them

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

"One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting

Ah, sorry about that

Haha! You can perv as much as you like, at least we have a conversation x "

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"Aaaallllll the time but sadly it's usually only forumites. Depends who it is but if they creep me out then block. "

I better stop then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always surprised when I get repeat profile views, as there's literally nothing to see there.

There a couple of locals who look at my profile a couple of times most days but have never messaged me, no idea why they do it and don't message.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I'm always surprised when I get repeat profile views, as there's literally nothing to see there.

There a couple of locals who look at my profile a couple of times most days but have never messaged me, no idea why they do it and don't message."

Some are shy, others are nosey

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Love it, if no one was looking why bother. I have a few regulars and I will check out their profiles but unfortunately they tend to be straight guys.

A guy with a very homophobic and transphobic status viewed me, so he got blocked but apart from those types I have no issues

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our profile is there for people to view.

We get plenty of people looking at our profile and not messaging or Fabbing but as long as no one is rude then it’s there for people to look at.

Some people have commented to say they are going to use our pic ideas and do a version. We think that’s a lovely compliment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always surprised when I get repeat profile views, as there's literally nothing to see there.

There a couple of locals who look at my profile a couple of times most days but have never messaged me, no idea why they do it and don't message.

Some are shy, others are nosey

I know that but I don't have any public photos and very little text, so what are they looking at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting "

Sorry

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I'm always surprised when I get repeat profile views, as there's literally nothing to see there.

There a couple of locals who look at my profile a couple of times most days but have never messaged me, no idea why they do it and don't message.

Some are shy, others are nosey

I know that but I don't have any public photos and very little text, so what are they looking at? "

Maybe they think it’s a way to get noticed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea if anyone views me the regulary as I never check. It's not occurred to me to do so either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get many views to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a select hotlist. I look at when they rotate or add new pics. It’s funny knowing if your on a hotlist too. Always get a cheeky look now and then if I add a picture. I think it’s quite flattering. But then I would! I’m a single make fab user. Haha

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

I viewed and fabbed you profile OP. I’d like to think you’d be flattered

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Flattered

i dont think i view it enough.. sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised usually, but it is crap. Then again nobody stays...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely flattered, even if the men to women ratio is a bit one sided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaaallllll the time but sadly it's usually only forumites. Depends who it is but if they creep me out then block.

I better stop then

You're fine

(must be in stealth anyway)

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"Aaaallllll the time but sadly it's usually only forumites. Depends who it is but if they creep me out then block.

I better stop then

You're fine

(must be in stealth anyway)"

Maybe not doing it enough for you to notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what it's there for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaaallllll the time but sadly it's usually only forumites. Depends who it is but if they creep me out then block.

I better stop then

You're fine

(must be in stealth anyway)

Maybe not doing it enough for you to notice

Well, I keep on fabbing your pics hoping you'll notice me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I’m surprised more than anything

but definitely flattered even if someone only visits once or twice tbh

I always wonder what people think when I visit their page or if it was only me who looks through the viewed profile part

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"Aaaallllll the time but sadly it's usually only forumites. Depends who it is but if they creep me out then block.

I better stop then

You're fine

(must be in stealth anyway)

Maybe not doing it enough for you to notice

Well, I keep on fabbing your pics hoping you'll notice me

oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a straight man look at my profile twice a day for the last few days , he hasn’t messaged me , do I think it’s strange, yeh a little

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

"Flatted. Most are either too old or too young to message but are welcome to look at pics if they wish."

Thank God for the that!! I enjoy looking at your pics even though there's practically no chance of ever meeting. I'd certainly hope you wouldn't find that creepy!!!!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"We’re flattered up to a point, if they keep looking and don’t message we usually think they’re trying to see if they recognize us and block them "

Totally agree with this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a straight man look at my profile twice a day for the last few days , he hasn’t messaged me , do I think it’s strange, yeh a little "

Back in the days when we actually used to meet people, I found if I met a woman then all her male friends would suddenly start checking me out on an hourly basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re flattered up to a point, if they keep looking and don’t message we usually think they’re trying to see if they recognize us and block them

Totally agree with this x"

that's a thought I'd never even considered... I have a couple of regular viewers who just don't match what I want at all (and my profile really isn't that exciting!) so a quick block may be the way forward

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I look at profiles for different reasons.

A comment

A pic

I think they are hot

I think they are a dick

I want their dick

I wanna see if they have read my message

I just want to perv

Buy always in stealth

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I hardly ever look at who views mine

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

When someone looks at my profile (which is rare) I get all excited ONLY to be confused as most who look. Have no style guys wanted! Go figure. Then there is friends who take a look too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once noticed a serial profile viewer, so I sent a cheeky message about the fact I'd noticed he'd viewed regularly and promptly got blocked.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't mind mostly, have a few who look regularly. I just assume they forget or I'm not what they're after or me them.

There is one man who is always leaving ans rejoining though, he looks sometimes 6 times in one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and have no problem at all. Its a public forum and as long as they not being aggressive then I don't think there is a problem if they just looking ... Is there? We all look at profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?! "

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting "

I do talk to said person have been since lst yr but with him doing it every few hrs day in day out it has me thinking. He does seems a really nice guy

but you just don’t know on these sites. Don’t know if you talk to this guy but are you happy to just let him carry on with it?

Thanks for your comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

Knock knock can I perv in

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"One guy in particular does it constantly

Very off putting

I do talk to said person have been since lst yr but with him doing it every few hrs day in day out it has me thinking. He does seems a really nice guy

but you just don’t know on these sites. Don’t know if you talk to this guy but are you happy to just let him carry on with it?

Thanks for your comment x"

No I dont talk to him very much

In 2 hours hes viewed my profile 14 times... that to me is getting to the creepy stage so now blocked

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

Of course everyone checks out profiles to see if they like person or worth chatting too which is what it’s about I get that but say it was someone your friends with for them to check you out every few hrs day after day. What would you make of it?

Thanks for take time to comment x

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

Why not ,!! Most are only looking to read our profile to see if we match their requirements if that's the right word,we've made some great friends that way

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Flattered that people look at mine especially if u can reply back with polite thank u 4looking at my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flatted. Most are either too old or too young to message but are welcome to look at pics if they wish.

Thank God for the that!! I enjoy looking at your pics even though there's practically no chance of ever meeting. I'd certainly hope you wouldn't find that creepy!!!! "

If you go into Privacy settings you can change it so people don't know when you looked at them. 'Don't show on Looked at Me' or wording to that effect. Then you can look as often as you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattered, definately profiles who view us regularily.

I like to play "whos hotlist are we on" when we put up a new status or pic and you see the same profiles viewing you straight after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazed and flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattering, also I’m guilty of browsing the same profile on many occasions, updates particularly photos and videos are always appreciated

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By *rs-sensual-meWoman
over a year ago

gwynedd

I find it flattering. Nice to see the same faces pop back up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

Knock knock can I perv in

Of course

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Thought this would flop

Thanks for all your comments

Much appreciate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought this would flop

Thanks for all your comments

Much appreciate

I suppose if people are creeped out if certain people are viewing them they could block them. It's not nice to feel uncomfortable by anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

Knock knock can I perv in

Of course

Just two pics to perv

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I just had to have a look at yours op!

I find it flattering if people look but it's normally men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

Knock knock can I perv in

Of course

Just two pics to perv"

I enjoyed your 17

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

This is why I stealth perv.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No udea to be honest, I don't look at my who has looked at me list.

On my couple profile we had a local couple who looked at as regularly and even winked.

We sent them a friendly message after a few months. They didn't reply but soon stopped looking. Or they discovered how to view in nija mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not creepy, flattered a bit, grateful yes!

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I am flattered by it. If I was to think it was creepy then I would probably have to hide my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?!

No I don't mind at all . If I did then I'm in the wrong place.

Knock knock can I perv in

Of course

Just two pics to perv

I enjoyed your 17

Naughty girl. Help me to see you more

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"It's always nice for someone to take a peek and even say hi... Never know what may happen. "

That always assumes that filters do not stop them saying hi, unless you mean the group you have selected by using filters which is fine and that's the benefit of using filters to control your inbox.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I’m straight but only gay men view my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a man check my profile out regularly. Doesn't say much. Would love female to do the same. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a rarity for me

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I just had to have a look at yours op!

I find it flattering if people look but it's normally men. "

Haha that’s quite alright it’s the viewing every few hrs day after day for the lst 6 months I was needing views on that’s all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the occasional tumble roll through...

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Yes and have no problem at all. Its a public forum and as long as they not being aggressive then I don't think there is a problem if they just looking ... Is there? We all look at profiles "

Totally get the public forum and no not getting aggressive at all, we talk occasionally but to constantly do it every few hrs every day since lst yr as a male what do you make of that?

Thanks for your comment x

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Flattered, definately profiles who view us regularily.

I like to play "whos hotlist are we on" when we put up a new status or pic and you see the same profiles viewing you straight after.

Haha I like this reply

Thanks for the comment made me smile xx

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I don’t get any well about five a week if I’m lucky

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Flattered

i dont think i view it enough.. sorry

Yours is very viewable. Great pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few over the years. It’s never bothered us and we wonder what became of the ones that suddenly stopped looking after months of viewing us sometimes twice a day.

Probably just thought we were an odd couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean is do any of you lovely fabbers get other people/friends viewing your profile daily/hourly and if so do you find it creepy

or flattered by it

Will check back later for your views?! "

Wow yours is hot x

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I feel flattered really. I like to think of it as for that brief moment.. my profile sparked a slight curiosity so I'm definitely flattered

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