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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres a fair few upset threads today

Keyboard warriors

Fabs is shit

Fatties should shag anyone

Am i ugly

Fake confidence.

So much negative energy. We need more and less (insert monster angry teeth emoji). Its so draining. I know were all going through a rough time but talk to someone, log off fab for a day, put some happy tunes on, eat a donut, anything, something just lets please balance out the bad vibes.

Love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a fair few upset threads today

Keyboard warriors

Fabs is shit

Fatties should shag anyone

Am i ugly

Fake confidence.

So much negative energy. We need more and less (insert monster angry teeth emoji). Its so draining. I know were all going through a rough time but talk to someone, log off fab for a day, put some happy tunes on, eat a donut, anything, something just lets please balance out the bad vibes.

Love you "

Great attitude. I miss partying at my house with my favourite people. The social side is my loss

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I need a hug.

But I'm also on a lot of painkillers and so pretty chilled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come here x

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

Yea hugs! Hugs offered! Hugs welcomed!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I've only just come onto the forums today, well yesterday now, I wasn't really on them.

I've just glanced at a few threads and indeed they do seem negative. It seems this place is getting to some people. This place is meant to be fun. I do question why some people log on here if all it does is wind them up or gives them negative feelings.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’ll pass, it always does. Like the sea rippling up a beach the negative vibes will wash back out to sea again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just come onto the forums today, well yesterday now, I wasn't really on them.

I've just glanced at a few threads and indeed they do seem negative. It seems this place is getting to some people. This place is meant to be fun. I do question why some people log on here if all it does is wind them up or gives them negative feelings."

Not quite understanding the relevance. But you get a hug either way

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I need a punch bag rather than a hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hey. Come at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’ll pass, it always does. Like the sea rippling up a beach the negative vibes will wash back out to sea again."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just come onto the forums today, well yesterday now, I wasn't really on them.

I've just glanced at a few threads and indeed they do seem negative. It seems this place is getting to some people. This place is meant to be fun. I do question why some people log on here if all it does is wind them up or gives them negative feelings."

I would rather give Mrs NS a hug for just being a star

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By *ig red22Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need a punch bag rather than a hug.

"

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’d probably dribble, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a fair few upset threads today

Keyboard warriors

Fabs is shit

Fatties should shag anyone

Am i ugly

Fake confidence.

So much negative energy. We need more and less (insert monster angry teeth emoji). Its so draining. I know were all going through a rough time but talk to someone, log off fab for a day, put some happy tunes on, eat a donut, anything, something just lets please balance out the bad vibes.

Love you "

Agree its been a day for bad posts today and the women have taken a bashing. Love to all the lovely ladies on here J&J (HEART)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just from my 83 year old Dear Mum. She's awesome. She nags like hell but she deserves the right. She has done the hard yards. Just 1 big hug would set the world to right....xx

But I'm obvs open to offering a hug to those who need. We all need hugs. Like food shelter and warmth. It's needed...xxx

Peace kids....love heart emoji.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just from my 83 year old Dear Mum. She's awesome. She nags like hell but she deserves the right. She has done the hard yards. Just 1 big hug would set the world to right....xx

But I'm obvs open to offering a hug to those who need. We all need hugs. Like food shelter and warmth. It's needed...xxx

Peace kids....love heart emoji.

"

Thats really sweet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a fair few upset threads today

Keyboard warriors

Fabs is shit

Fatties should shag anyone

Am i ugly

Fake confidence.

So much negative energy. We need more and less (insert monster angry teeth emoji). Its so draining. I know were all going through a rough time but talk to someone, log off fab for a day, put some happy tunes on, eat a donut, anything, something just lets please balance out the bad vibes.

Love you "

Well said . The World is still amazing

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I've lost 12 people in 12 months from cancer, heart attacks and COVID so definitely know how much we all need a hug.

Everyone take care in the meantime.

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By *ornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

In the last few months I've felt this massive urge to speak out about my past, just to talk to someone who's never met me and knows nothing about me. I'm quite open about my life but one secret thats been with me since about the age of 6 and carried on into my adulthood is the reason why I've probably been depressed for over 40 years of my life. I can't speak out, but it would be nice to get this horrible shit out of my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just from my 83 year old Dear Mum. She's awesome. She nags like hell but she deserves the right. She has done the hard yards. Just 1 big hug would set the world to right....xx

But I'm obvs open to offering a hug to those who need. We all need hugs. Like food shelter and warmth. It's needed...xxx

Peace kids....love heart emoji.

Thats really sweet! "

It was stripped down honest...that's all. The Auld Bat needs a hug as much as I need to give her one....

And thank you for saying so....xx. So sweet.

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By *ornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I tried to delete my message, so apologies for getting a bit deep. Just ignore it, I've dealt with it on my own all my life so I can do this. Night all X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heck. That’s deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few months I've felt this massive urge to speak out about my past, just to talk to someone who's never met me and knows nothing about me. I'm quite open about my life but one secret thats been with me since about the age of 6 and carried on into my adulthood is the reason why I've probably been depressed for over 40 years of my life. I can't speak out, but it would be nice to get this horrible shit out of my head. "

Drop me a message if you want Buddy, I’m not in the least judgemental and happy to lend one of my broad shoulders or indeed one of my wonky ears..lol

A trouble shared n all that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need a punch bag rather than a hug.

"

Good little boxing club open (discreetly) for business not far from you..It’s near Battersea on a street called Petworth St (I think)..could do far worse in other places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few months I've felt this massive urge to speak out about my past, just to talk to someone who's never met me and knows nothing about me. I'm quite open about my life but one secret thats been with me since about the age of 6 and carried on into my adulthood is the reason why I've probably been depressed for over 40 years of my life. I can't speak out, but it would be nice to get this horrible shit out of my head. "

I wouldn't put something like that here mate. People on the forums can be toxic. You can PM me or any of the other lads who are happy to chat to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like hugs maybe needed today too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few months I've felt this massive urge to speak out about my past, just to talk to someone who's never met me and knows nothing about me. I'm quite open about my life but one secret thats been with me since about the age of 6 and carried on into my adulthood is the reason why I've probably been depressed for over 40 years of my life. I can't speak out, but it would be nice to get this horrible shit out of my head. "

Bless you, no one deserves to feel depressed or like they can't talk and comunicate openly about what is messing with there head, I hope 2021 is a better year for you and you manage to find a way to clear your head and feel more positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always need a hug. Hugs OP

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"In the last few months I've felt this massive urge to speak out about my past, just to talk to someone who's never met me and knows nothing about me. I'm quite open about my life but one secret thats been with me since about the age of 6 and carried on into my adulthood is the reason why I've probably been depressed for over 40 years of my life. I can't speak out, but it would be nice to get this horrible shit out of my head. "

Speaking to others help, as someone who experienced childhood trauma it will make a difference to be heard and for someone to understand. There are plenty who have offered to help but it's always worth seeking professional help too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I always need a hug. Hugs OP "

Sending you a hug Sparkles

I don't need a hug, just some panadol and tea.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Virtual hugs all round have a good day everyone

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I need a hug as it is bloody freezing here and i have a 2 mile walk to the garage to collect my car.

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By *ornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a hug and a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few months I've felt this massive urge to speak out about my past, just to talk to someone who's never met me and knows nothing about me. I'm quite open about my life but one secret thats been with me since about the age of 6 and carried on into my adulthood is the reason why I've probably been depressed for over 40 years of my life. I can't speak out, but it would be nice to get this horrible shit out of my head. "

You shouldn’t have to deal with it on your own, it’s ok to say you’re struggling, and it’s ok to ask for help. Your feelings are valid.

There’s no shame in any of this. Have you thought about seeing a counsellor?

Sending hugs

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

Happy to give and receive hugs!

(mostly virtual nowadays)

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