FabSwingers.com forum: Is it actually more acceptable for a woman to cheat?

By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here it is, whether in society it is, I’m not so sure.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No matter what sex you are, cheating is not acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham

cheating is cheating and is wrong, but men will go for sexy any time its in their genes

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Not in my eyes but there seems a greater inclination to justify it when the woman is the perpetrator, in my eyes at least. Whereas when a man cheats, there is no wiggle room for any justification. When a woman cheats there is a search for an underlying reason what the man may have done which pushed her to such a course of action. This doesn't exist when the man cheats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it "

First time I’ve ever heard of this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it

First time I’ve ever heard of this.... "

Same. I’ve not heard that anyone say that, even on here.

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By *incloudukMan
over a year ago

Medway

I think it’s down to women are more likely to be open and say they are not happen before they go with others. Men on the other hand will do it then say they not happy.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it

First time I’ve ever heard of this.... "

Regular occurrence in forum discussions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure the partners of any cheating women would be equally miffed as partners of cheating men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no it's equally as selfish and deceitful whichever sex is deciding to cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it

First time I’ve ever heard of this....

Regular occurrence in forum discussions"

What people actually saying it’s ok for women to cheat but not men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in my eyes but there seems a greater inclination to justify it when the woman is the perpetrator, in my eyes at least. Whereas when a man cheats, there is no wiggle room for any justification. When a woman cheats there is a search for an underlying reason what the man may have done which pushed her to such a course of action. This doesn't exist when the man cheats. "

Always the man's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it

First time I’ve ever heard of this....

Regular occurrence in forum discussions"

People may have different views to justify themselves.

At the end of the day, we know what's right and wrong.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it.

Hope that clears it up

You would think so wouldn't you, but yet so many times people bring up how it's double standards and it's more ok for women to do it

First time I’ve ever heard of this....

Regular occurrence in forum discussions

What people actually saying it’s ok for women to cheat but not men?"

Men making out that if a woman is cheating it is seen as more acceptable than if a man is

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By *assunachWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

I just don’t understand the need for it. I’m openly poly and a swinger. If you feel the need to cheat you need to communicate why that is with your partner before it happens, including before starting an emotional affair. If it’s a secret in any way, it’s cheating. It’s either the right relationship or it isn’t. If it isn’t you’d be better off as friends than lovers.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Cheating suggest deceiving someone or lying even if it's with holding and NO it is not morally right for either sex unless of course it is within your own moral compass and you are your own judge ......... howeverrrrrrr it is not, as a rule , accepted in society and you will be judged for it, regardless of gender.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Married women

Underaged girls

Women without pulses

The poor sheep in Wales

See the theme yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

As long as she's cleaned the kitchen and filled the fridge first

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By *ath_ocMan
over a year ago

Reading

If you feel you want to explore new pastures don't drag someone along with you.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I don’t think it’s okay either way round

Genuinely makes me sad to see it on profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I don't think it's more acceptable.

Cheaters are going to cheat regardless of gender.

I haven't got a penis so it's difficult for me to know whether is more difficult to control than a foof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x"

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it depends.

Leaving my personal opinion out of it I think if a woman cheats its deemed to be the mans fault and if a man cheats its deemed to be the mans fault. eg if a man says his wife has gone off sex it will be his fault for not doing enough housework or being crap in bed etc etc and he should have a wank and get on with it if a woman says her husband has gone off sex it will be his fault for neglecting her needs and she should go and find a man who truly appreciates her.

It does depend who you're talking to and how the "cheater" presents themselves though

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun"

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

That's a bit mean. The OP only asked a question.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

I don't think it's more acceptable.

Cheaters are going to cheat regardless of gender.

I haven't got a penis so it's difficult for me to know whether is more difficult to control than a foof

Have you ever wanted one to find out? The thought has crossed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

I don't think it's more acceptable.

Cheaters are going to cheat regardless of gender.

I haven't got a penis so it's difficult for me to know whether is more difficult to control than a foof

Have you ever wanted one to find out? The thought has crossed my mind"

I would love to try being male- but with their mindset.

I think I'd be a man slut and think with my cock and not my brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The general concept is if a man cheats he's a bastard but if a woman cheats there's always a reason, neglect, unhappy etc. Cheating for both sexes should be seen in the same light

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting. "

Even better if hubby is there ..

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting.

Even better if hubby is there ..

You find it more exciting if the husband watches? Why's that then?

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting.

Even better if hubby is there ..

You find it more exciting if the husband watches? Why's that then?"

Watches and joins in...I was surprised the first time...but it was very pleasant..sensual, a bit taboo (first time) maybe .. and I got on with them both and enjoyed there company..

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting.

Even better if hubby is there ..

You find it more exciting if the husband watches? Why's that then?

Watches and joins in...I was surprised the first time...but it was very pleasant..sensual, a bit taboo (first time) maybe .. and I got on with them both and enjoyed there company.."

Lovely when you all click with each other

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting.

Even better if hubby is there ..

You find it more exciting if the husband watches? Why's that then?

Watches and joins in...I was surprised the first time...but it was very pleasant..sensual, a bit taboo (first time) maybe .. and I got on with them both and enjoyed there company..

Lovely when you all click with each other"

I was very nervous and they were just lovely...

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I think its the naughty taboo part that men like, being the bull and I'm better than the husband is a powerful attraction

Also some men seek out married women as they are less likely to create drama with the feels like unattached women can

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

It's never acceptable to cheat, I've never done it and never will. Be taking loyalty to the grave

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Not trying to justify myself seeing p behide partners back but sometimes things arnt as straight forward and if I could just walk away I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's necessarily that it's more acceptable - I think it's that some men tend not to care as much, and possibly also that they have less options?

If I have ten people to chose from - I'm unlikely to chose the married guy. If a guy only has one woman wanting to meet him and she's open about the fact she's cheating... I think a lot of men just wouldn't care.

Not all men, obviously.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes it’s more acceptable for a woman to cheat cause they always have a valid reason.

If a bloke does it he’s just a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting.

Even better if hubby is there ..

Swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's exactly the same but women receive far less criticism for it here on Fab.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

It's funny as 2 of my friends know about me and say they don't blame me but p think his mates would tell him he a pratt seeing me.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

In the real world no, but on here it is, as we have seen on many threads, everyone then sais how ok it is.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"In the real world no, but on here it is, as we have seen on many threads, everyone then sais how ok it is."

Well glad I'm not the only one to see it on other threads lol

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Another factor could be that generally the man is more likely to be proactive in the pursuit of an affair. As someone alluded to, a man generally has less choice and has to be the hunter. Making a choice to join a website etc, everything is done as a conscious choice with purpose. Whereas a woman is seen as a victim, vulnerable to her emotions, possibly demonstrating our un conscious biases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dead fussy about who I cheat with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fab it’s perfectly fine for a woman to cheat.... I don’t read many male profiles but from the few I have read... I have yet to see a man write “ Will not meet married or attached females “

Now of all the female profiles I have read 100% say “ Will not meet married or attached men “

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On Fab it’s perfectly fine for a woman to cheat.... I don’t read many male profiles but from the few I have read... I have yet to see a man write “ Will not meet married or attached females “

Now of all the female profiles I have read 100% say “ Will not meet married or attached men “

Mine doesn’t. I’ve met married men.

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I find lots of couples or single women that I speak to don't like it that I'm married and won't continue to chat once I tell them (I'm also open and honest). Despite my wife being totally happy for me to play.

If it was the other way round I'm sure many blokes wouldn't mind

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

If it was the other way round I'm sure many blokes wouldn't mind

probably true.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Now of all the female profiles I have read 100% say “ Will not meet married or attached men “

Ahem...

It says no cheats in actual fact. Married or attached is fine with permission of course.

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By *heerymanMan
over a year ago

stoke

Both men and women cheat for a variety of reasons. Unless you know their reasons it really isn’t possible to judge them. I have been there and met married women who have also been there. . It is never simple but there is always a reason

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

Men aren’t as Fussy IMO

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Both men and women cheat for a variety of reasons. Unless you know their reasons it really isn’t possible to judge them. I have been there and met married women who have also been there. . It is never simple but there is always a reason "

Of course it’s possible to judge them - lying to your spouse for casual sex is wrong.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

As its been stated cheating is cheating its the biggest betrayal in a relationship what I say to those who are thinking of doing it at least end the relationship

And its worse when there are children involved they are the ones who get hurt the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As its been stated cheating is cheating its the biggest betrayal in a relationship what I say to those who are thinking of doing it at least end the relationship

And its worse when there are children involved they are the ones who get hurt the most "

Maybe that’s why they stay? What do you mean “what I say to those people”. How do you even know their situation and their reasons? And who are you to say to those people anyway?

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"As its been stated cheating is cheating its the biggest betrayal in a relationship what I say to those who are thinking of doing it at least end the relationship

And its worse when there are children involved they are the ones who get hurt the most

Maybe that’s why they stay? What do you mean “what I say to those people”. How do you even know their situation and their reasons? And who are you to say to those people anyway? "

I am very much entitled to my opinion whatever the reason for cheating is it is wrong up or down if you don't like what I'm saying tough it's there whether you like it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're asking two questions and trying to roll thrm into one answer you want thr hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As its been stated cheating is cheating its the biggest betrayal in a relationship what I say to those who are thinking of doing it at least end the relationship

And its worse when there are children involved they are the ones who get hurt the most

Maybe that’s why they stay? What do you mean “what I say to those people”. How do you even know their situation and their reasons? And who are you to say to those people anyway?

I am very much entitled to my opinion whatever the reason for cheating is it is wrong up or down if you don't like what I'm saying tough it's there whether you like it or not "

Haha. Ok love. I’ll get me coat

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I think the biggest difference is women are better at hiding fact their cheating! & cause fellas just fancy a shag, they really not bothered if it's not their own Mrs doing the cheating

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"You're asking two questions and trying to roll thrm into one answer you want thr hear."

I want to hear what anyone wants to say and they can answer how they see fit to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating can be soul destroying to the cheated. It is not gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're asking two questions and trying to roll thrm into one answer you want thr hear.

I want to hear what anyone wants to say and they can answer how they see fit to"

Question 1 - Absolutely no.

Question 2 - You're asking in a bias place. Ordinarily, maybe. Here? Most probably.

I stand by my first comment though - very leading.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I’m quite fussy I will have you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads"

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating can be soul destroying to the cheated. It is not gender specific."

This does not mean I judge others for it. Everyone has their reasons for it. Some need it in order to be able to stay in their marriage or with their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly."

Not when Samuel tenders making sweet love to them they don’t!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Cheating can be soul destroying to the cheated. It is not gender specific.

This does not mean I judge others for it. Everyone has their reasons for it. Some need it in order to be able to stay in their marriage or with their partner."

No one ‘needs’ extra marital sex it’s want ... let’s be crystal clear about that.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly."

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

Not when Samuel tenders making sweet love to them they don’t!"

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

Not when Samuel tenders making sweet love to them they don’t!"

Is that the men women or both?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly."

I'm really only just imagining it in my head. But I imagine that when a man gets caught, he doesn't really try to justify it. He holds his hands up and admits he's,simply been stupid... Caught in a moment of weakness. When a woman does it she will also throw in 'you're always working... We hardly spend time together...you never give me any attention, it's always work or the kids... You don't make me feel attractive... I hate myself.' Or did I just watch too much Hollyoaks when I was younger?

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over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

Not when Samuel tenders making sweet love to them they don’t!

Is that the men women or both?"

*fingers crossed for both*

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

it does seem that way on tv doesnt it.

Oh and the obligatory babe babe its not what it looks like

when the woman walks in on her other half balls deep in another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

I was referring to threads started on here etc as opposed to being caught out in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly.

Not when Samuel tenders making sweet love to them they don’t!

Is that the men women or both?

*fingers crossed for both*"

You know I’ve had my eye on your hoop for years.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Many men don't care as long as she agrees to shag him.

Many men find the thought of shagging a married woman hot and exciting. "

Some men. I’ve been in this position a couple of times and it didn’t sit at all comfortably with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating can be soul destroying to the cheated. It is not gender specific.

This does not mean I judge others for it. Everyone has their reasons for it. Some need it in order to be able to stay in their marriage or with their partner.

No one ‘needs’ extra marital sex it’s want ... let’s be crystal clear about that."

I’m sorry, I’m not quite sure what you are crystal clear about. I wasn’t talking about sex, at all. “Cheating” can be without sex. I would very gladly engage with a married woman emotionally, with dinners, etc without the need for sex. Whether it leads to sex is another matter entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is a despicable act no mater what gender is doing it. Its loathsome.

That said any married ladies wanna bang behind you hubbys back im your man hit me up.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Cheating is a despicable act no mater what gender is doing it. Its loathsome.

That said any married ladies wanna bang behind you hubbys back im your man hit me up. "

Ha ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I feel this has been created because you’re looking for a conversation.

I’ll get the kettle boiling..

Cheating is unacceptable at the end of the day , no one should be doing it.

Let’s change the topic and make good use of the post

Plenty more threads for you to read if you don't like this one Hun x

I’ve never ever seen anyone speak about this , I’m quite frequent in the forums if you must know hun

Well seen it alot so I guess we are reading different threads

I’ve been here on / off for years and in general cheating threads go one of a few ways.

If a man starts one - get the pitchfork, popcorn and tin hat ready, pile on commences.

If a woman starts one - well tbh they usually don’t & that’s the difference.

Men want to justify it, women just go about it quietly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite honestly men arnt fussy (well majority)

I used to be 'that guy' thanks for unblocking me ladies

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Cheating is a despicable act no mater what gender is doing it. Its loathsome.

That said any married ladies wanna bang behind you hubbys back im your man hit me up. "

And therein proves the point lol... banging a wife is ok as long as it’s not your wife doing the banging.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I’ve often said that any thread can be turned in to a man-basher within 7 posts, but you managed to turn this with your opener! Well done you

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

I’ve often said that any thread can be turned in to a man-basher within 7 posts, but you managed to turn this with your opener! Well done you

Not bashing just saying they possibly aren't as fussy, quite of guys on here agree with that statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab, a cheating man is the despicable lowest of the low, destroying an innocent woman.

On fab, a cheating woman is a liberated and strong individual who is rising above the shackles societal protocols have forced upon her, and living her best life despite having a man who is clearly not interested in or deserving of her.

No? When cheating comes up its always focused on men.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"On fab, a cheating man is the despicable lowest of the low, destroying an innocent woman.

No? When cheating comes up its always focused on men."

If you read the thread it's not how a lot of people see it, cheating is cheating regardless of which sex you are.

Someone did put an interesting point though, quite often attached men on here try to justify it, where as the married women tend to stay more under the radar.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

I’ve often said that any thread can be turned in to a man-basher within 7 posts, but you managed to turn this with your opener! Well done you

Not bashing just saying they possibly aren't as fussy, quite of guys on here agree with that statement."

I agree; if you have a pussy, 8 out of 10 men aren’t fussy

But you turn the focus of the thread title on to men with your opening question.......

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?

I’ve often said that any thread can be turned in to a man-basher within 7 posts, but you managed to turn this with your opener! Well done you

Not bashing just saying they possibly aren't as fussy, quite of guys on here agree with that statement."

You do realise that when you state that it is not men you are insulting but the women that they sleep with?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Well I'm insulting myself included in that too then. Just a fact though some men on here aren't fussy in the slightest. Ask any woman on here how many posts she received from guys telling her how great she is and utterly stunning she looks after 5 mins of joining fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm insulting myself included in that too then. Just a fact though some men on here aren't fussy in the slightest. Ask any woman on here how many posts she received from guys telling her how great she is and utterly stunning she looks after 5 mins of joining fab."

This is very true but to be honest I think the men on the forums and the people who read this post are a different species. I’ve had plenty of crap over the years and awful messages but not from any who are on here.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I do agree with a post above though... Aren't you asking two different questions? One about cheating relating to gender and one about standards? Or are we saying men will cheat at any given opportunity whereas women are more selective about when they choose to cheat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men are much more likely to cheat than women.

It's wrong regardless but because of this, men see it more acceptable for women to cheat than vice versa.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"I do agree with a post above though... Aren't you asking two different questions? One about cheating relating to gender and one about standards? Or are we saying men will cheat at any given opportunity whereas women are more selective about when they choose to cheat? "

It was more aimed at when I read the forums married men often moan that they get a hard time for cheating yet married women don't, so I was asking opinions if that was actually the case, that it is more acceptable for women.

The not fussy bit is, I imagine the cheating thing maybe would affect a meet decision for women and couples more than it would a man

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I just think it’s a bit sad to state “men aren’t fussy” it’s akin to stating “men will sleep with anything” and who gets to decide who the “anything’s” are? Fab is primarily a website designed for people to meet and have sexual liaisons, preferences are different for everyone and men, by and large have much more fluid preferences, not sure whether that makes them “less fussy” or “more open-minded”.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

I can see the point you are making of course. Fact is though some men on here would sleep with anyone, that's not intending to insult any woman it's just true. Within 5 mins of joining fab, I was getting people asking to meet me, before I had any profile or pictures, would you say these people were fussy about who they met?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Are you not a nice person then? I would say they are chancers. And you and I both know out of all of those people asking. Very few would “launch”. Where I live there are certain successful men and a large amount of unsuccessful ones, I think sometimes the unsuccessful ones try to put their marker down quick before the more successful ones catch whiff. Whether they would actually go the whole hog, is an entirely different matter.

If the reason you are on fab is to actually sleep with “anyone”, because you enjoy the act of sexual intercourse, Is that a bad thing?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

If the reason you are on fab is to actually sleep with “anyone”, because you enjoy the act of sexual intercourse, Is that a bad thing?"

As long as they are happy, and the other person is, any reason to be on fab is not a bad one, but if they wanted to sleep with them before they had even properly spoken to them or even knew what they looked like I'd still say that they obviously aren't fussy.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"In the real world no, but on here it is, as we have seen on many threads, everyone then sais how ok it is.

Well glad I'm not the only one to see it on other threads lol"
lol yes, it does happen on quite few threads too.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If the reason you are on fab is to actually sleep with “anyone”, because you enjoy the act of sexual intercourse, Is that a bad thing?

Aww look. I’ve derailed your thread so I’m sorry. I’m going to leave it here because I don’t think I’m articulating myself very well

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

If the reason you are on fab is to actually sleep with “anyone”, because you enjoy the act of sexual intercourse, Is that a bad thing?

Aww look. I’ve derailed your thread so I’m sorry. I’m going to leave it here because I don’t think I’m articulating myself very well "

Entirely up to you, you are more than welcome to post whatever you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if this has been said as havent read every post. It does seem that cheating women are more accepted than cheating men, rather than it being more acceptable. Reguardless of who is doing it it is the same though.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Or is it just that men aren't quite as fussy about who they have sex with?"

I do think that many men are considerably less fussy.

Cal

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

The not fussy bit is, I imagine the cheating thing maybe would affect a meet decision for women and couples more than it would a man"

Ah I get you now. Yeah I have no idea what guys put on their own profiles. But as alluded to earlier, it does seem unlikely many guys would rule out sleeping with anyone who cheats.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

The not fussy bit is, I imagine the cheating thing maybe would affect a meet decision for women and couples more than it would a man

Ah I get you now. Yeah I have no idea what guys put on their own profiles. But as alluded to earlier, it does seem unlikely many guys would rule out sleeping with anyone who cheats. "

Sorry if I hadn't explained it as well as I could have

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