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"I'm sure we've all been catfished a number of times. Wish I knew how to check for IP addresses. If you even can. Some addresses will have had dozens of accounts. " I would happy pay an extra pound in site supporters fee, towards someones salary, for fab to employ someone to check this! | |||
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"Some might do it as they get different responses from different profiles. Maybe a fetish profile as well as a more general one? Not everything is done for nefarious reasons " | |||
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"I get if a couple have a couples profile and then single profiles. That makes sense but why to single ppl have more than one profile? Its creepy and weird. Is lockdown really messing with people that much that the can run multiple profiles. Maybe its me and i need to spend less time on fab and more time perfecting my pog collection. But anywho multiple profiles = weird. Rant over. " Because they can then be more anonymous ie treat one person badly or too cowardly to say no thanks. Ghost delete account/leave it dormant and open absorber | |||
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"People are sad. I know folk who have more than one account so when they get blocked they can still see you through the other account." i got nasty pm from some guy calling me for everything some of the language was obscene all because i put not looking for certain folk anyway i was unable to view his profile as he blocked me you guessed it I opened another account just to view it and left it at that | |||
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"People are sad. I know folk who have more than one account so when they get blocked they can still see you through the other account. i got nasty pm from some guy calling me for everything some of the language was obscene all because i put not looking for certain folk anyway i was unable to view his profile as he blocked me you guessed it I opened another account just to view it and left it at that " Personally if someone had been abusive to me I would have no interest in looking at their profile. | |||
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"I'm sure we've all been catfished a number of times. Wish I knew how to check for IP addresses. If you even can. Some addresses will have had dozens of accounts. I would happy pay an extra pound in site supporters fee, towards someones salary, for fab to employ someone to check this! " Same. And for people ‘pretending’ to be the kind of profile they’re not. | |||
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"I'm sure we've all been catfished a number of times. Wish I knew how to check for IP addresses. If you even can. Some addresses will have had dozens of accounts. I would happy pay an extra pound in site supporters fee, towards someones salary, for fab to employ someone to check this! " I fully endorse this. Granny is right, could be multiple users at one address, but when dozens of accounts come from one IP... I'm finding them easier to spot nowadays. If something is too good to be true it usually is. | |||
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"The thing that concerns us about this is that people could give themselves verifications which isn't really playing the game. We have seen a few in the past where people have one excellent verification from a profile thats hidden, of course it might be legitimate but it might not. None of us know why people would want to have more than one profile and there may well be some good reasons for it, but it can have some bad aspects. Its all down to people's intentions and in a place where there are a lot of fakes and time wasters the balance of probability is that is not for a positive reason. " I don't think they can verify themselves. Not from the same I.P. at least...... | |||
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"The thing that concerns us about this is that people could give themselves verifications which isn't really playing the game. We have seen a few in the past where people have one excellent verification from a profile thats hidden, of course it might be legitimate but it might not. None of us know why people would want to have more than one profile and there may well be some good reasons for it, but it can have some bad aspects. Its all down to people's intentions and in a place where there are a lot of fakes and time wasters the balance of probability is that is not for a positive reason. I don't think they can verify themselves. Not from the same I.P. at least...... " You can but it comes up with a big warning saying it’s not allowed. I tried to do it on our joint profile once when we first set it up then thought better not! | |||
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"Maybe they are Batman Then another night maybe Bruce wants a bit of action without bringing the kink into it. " Always the sensible one. I think that must be it. Logical. | |||
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"Maybe they are Batman Then another night maybe Bruce wants a bit of action without bringing the kink into it. Always the sensible one. I think that must be it. Logical." well if every other avenue has been discussed then logic would dictate that Batman would need 2 accounts, | |||
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"Maybe they are Batman Then another night maybe Bruce wants a bit of action without bringing the kink into it. Always the sensible one. I think that must be it. Logical. well if every other avenue has been discussed then logic would dictate that Batman would need 2 accounts, " Are you Batman? | |||
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"I.P. addresses are okay if someone lives alone...... There could be several people with legit accounts at one address. If I owned a business it really wouldn't be worth my time checking. " My internet supplier uses a satellite system and each IP address connects up to 30 households. I only found out because I had some trouble last month using BBC iplayer, it kept on saying I wasn’t in the U.K. The engineer put me on an individual IP in the end as he said the signal was probably getting masked by someone watching Polish programmes. | |||
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"One straight, one bi. One safe sex, one bareback. Both are common for couples and singles. Also singles have a profile with their pretend partner as well as their own. " I saw an update from a couple last week and clicked on it out of interest - there was a guys details and the females were blank. | |||
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"I.P. addresses are okay if someone lives alone...... There could be several people with legit accounts at one address. If I owned a business it really wouldn't be worth my time checking. My internet supplier uses a satellite system and each IP address connects up to 30 households. I only found out because I had some trouble last month using BBC iplayer, it kept on saying I wasn’t in the U.K. The engineer put me on an individual IP in the end as he said the signal was probably getting masked by someone watching Polish programmes." I have that too. Tried to sign up for something and it said I'm not in the UK. | |||
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"One profile for forums, another profile for meets. Different profiles looking for different things. " This makes sense. Sometimes it can be done in a less than positive way, others it could be because of the reasons above. I don't always understand it but unless it's impacting me negatively I don't really care. | |||
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"I.P. addresses are okay if someone lives alone...... There could be several people with legit accounts at one address. If I owned a business it really wouldn't be worth my time checking. My internet supplier uses a satellite system and each IP address connects up to 30 households. I only found out because I had some trouble last month using BBC iplayer, it kept on saying I wasn’t in the U.K. The engineer put me on an individual IP in the end as he said the signal was probably getting masked by someone watching Polish programmes. I have that too. Tried to sign up for something and it said I'm not in the UK. " I suggest you speak to your supplier - mine is a small local company and our engineer is super efficient. | |||
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"I.P. addresses are okay if someone lives alone...... There could be several people with legit accounts at one address. If I owned a business it really wouldn't be worth my time checking. My internet supplier uses a satellite system and each IP address connects up to 30 households. I only found out because I had some trouble last month using BBC iplayer, it kept on saying I wasn’t in the U.K. The engineer put me on an individual IP in the end as he said the signal was probably getting masked by someone watching Polish programmes. I have that too. Tried to sign up for something and it said I'm not in the UK. I suggest you speak to your supplier - mine is a small local company and our engineer is super efficient." In the end I signed up using the wifi at work. It was odd though. | |||
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"I get if a couple have a couples profile and then single profiles. That makes sense but why to single ppl have more than one profile? Its creepy and weird. Is lockdown really messing with people that much that the can run multiple profiles. Maybe its me and i need to spend less time on fab and more time perfecting my pog collection. But anywho multiple profiles = weird. Rant over. " In my experience it’s for those who find themselves being blocked all the time , I’ve had some really bad experiences with people on here making fake accounts , time has taught me to be a little more cynical and less forthcoming which is a great shame x | |||
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"I get if a couple have a couples profile and then single profiles. That makes sense but why to single ppl have more than one profile? Its creepy and weird. Is lockdown really messing with people that much that the can run multiple profiles. Maybe its me and i need to spend less time on fab and more time perfecting my pog collection. But anywho multiple profiles = weird. Rant over. " Multiple personality disorder? Be an interesting gang-bang though with Tom,David,Harry and Paul! | |||
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"Maybe they are Batman Then another night maybe Bruce wants a bit of action without bringing the kink into it. Always the sensible one. I think that must be it. Logical. well if every other avenue has been discussed then logic would dictate that Batman would need 2 accounts, Are you Batman? " naaa not that I mind the kink, but I'd rather be Bruce, | |||
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"One profile for forums, another profile for meets. Different profiles looking for different things. This makes sense. Sometimes it can be done in a less than positive way, others it could be because of the reasons above. I don't always understand it but unless it's impacting me negatively I don't really care. " Oh absolutely, I assume many- if not most- people with multiple profiles are doing it for dodgy reasons. We have met people who use the forums but they don't know about this profile. It was purely by accident, they didn't use the forum when we met. Forums are friend zoned. | |||
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"Maybe they are Batman Then another night maybe Bruce wants a bit of action without bringing the kink into it. Always the sensible one. I think that must be it. Logical. well if every other avenue has been discussed then logic would dictate that Batman would need 2 accounts, Are you Batman? naaa not that I mind the kink, but I'd rather be Bruce, " Phew. Bruce is definitely more appealing | |||
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"I've seen them used as honeytraps. I've seen them used as a running joke among a group of people where they verify each others multiple accounts and start forum threads under one account and comment on it through one or more of the others. Sometimes they forget which account they are using and reveal themselves with their comments. Grown adults can be childish but it's when it becomes nasty and abusive that it goes beyond a joke." There's clearly something nasty brewing in the background. The amount of thinly veiled digging threads recently........ | |||
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"I had a female stalker that’s why I had 2 " I still found you again though | |||
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"I had a female stalker that’s why I had 2 I still found you again though " I know you did | |||
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"Would it be wrong if a crossdresser had two so that they could meet and show who they are as both male and dressed? I dress once a month maybe and its kept very secret from my day to day life. I dont want to show my male side in pics with my dressing profile in case anyone from my day to day life sees me and finds me out....I do not want to be publicly outed. I wont be meeting for a social coffee in the day dressed up so for this would it be OK to have both and there is no way i would meet anyone without informing them of both sides anyway so would folk think that was OK? What are the rules regarding this too so I know whether it is not breaking site rules if I was to have two profiles?" It's allowed. I think the issue is if people use 2 profiles to get round blocks, harass people, post nasty shite on the forums etc. Many people have single and couple profiles. | |||
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"I've seen them used as honeytraps. I've seen them used as a running joke among a group of people where they verify each others multiple accounts and start forum threads under one account and comment on it through one or more of the others. Sometimes they forget which account they are using and reveal themselves with their comments. Grown adults can be childish but it's when it becomes nasty and abusive that it goes beyond a joke." This is definitely something that many of us have noticed the past year. | |||
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"A straight account, a gay one. Female, TV, furrys and sentient cucumber. I may get a reply on one of them. The cucumber gets loads of fabs from single guys. " I bet your cucumber is juicy | |||
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"Sometimes it's for very reasonable and acceptable purposes. Other times it's because an intense woman has been cast aside after she fell in dick sand and struggled to cope with not being "the one" and getting blocked by a fella. So she creates another profile to spy on him. He recognises the mole on her tit tho, so plays along for a little while to fuck with her head. Other times I imagine if one part of a couple may suspect their loving partner isn't being as cheat-free as they appear on the surface, it's to do some digging. Tis a minefield." I recognised a womans bedframe in a pic once in that exact same situation! She was trying to get me to say things so she could split me up from my new girl - oh my we had some fun there! | |||
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"I know three women that have male accounts to ‘ perv with nerve ‘ as one put it " That's OBVIOUSLY why I only get male views and fabs | |||
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"It's when it suddenly clicks in your head this is that one I blocked! Something just tells u its them again do I block or play along for a while! Have one at the moment! I'm playing along for a while! Getting to b quite a detective on here x" Sounds exciting | |||
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"It's when it suddenly clicks in your head this is that one I blocked! Something just tells u its them again do I block or play along for a while! Have one at the moment! I'm playing along for a while! Getting to b quite a detective on here x Sounds exciting " Ha ha yes it is funny I just looked at messages and he has sent a new one! The funny thing is trying to work out his agenda x | |||
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"It's when it suddenly clicks in your head this is that one I blocked! Something just tells u its them again do I block or play along for a while! Have one at the moment! I'm playing along for a while! Getting to b quite a detective on here x Sounds exciting Ha ha yes it is funny I just looked at messages and he has sent a new one! The funny thing is trying to work out his agenda x" My guess a fuck Keep me posted | |||
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"It's when it suddenly clicks in your head this is that one I blocked! Something just tells u its them again do I block or play along for a while! Have one at the moment! I'm playing along for a while! Getting to b quite a detective on here x Sounds exciting Ha ha yes it is funny I just looked at messages and he has sent a new one! The funny thing is trying to work out his agenda x My guess a fuck Keep me posted " Its complicated but dont think it is a fuck x | |||
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"It's when it suddenly clicks in your head this is that one I blocked! Something just tells u its them again do I block or play along for a while! Have one at the moment! I'm playing along for a while! Getting to b quite a detective on here x Sounds exciting Ha ha yes it is funny I just looked at messages and he has sent a new one! The funny thing is trying to work out his agenda x My guess a fuck Keep me posted Its complicated but dont think it is a fuck x" Headfuck maybe? | |||
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"It's when it suddenly clicks in your head this is that one I blocked! Something just tells u its them again do I block or play along for a while! Have one at the moment! I'm playing along for a while! Getting to b quite a detective on here x Sounds exciting Ha ha yes it is funny I just looked at messages and he has sent a new one! The funny thing is trying to work out his agenda x My guess a fuck Keep me posted Its complicated but dont think it is a fuck x Headfuck maybe? " Spot on! X | |||
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"Maybe they are Batman Then another night maybe Bruce wants a bit of action without bringing the kink into it. Always the sensible one. I think that must be it. Logical. well if every other avenue has been discussed then logic would dictate that Batman would need 2 accounts, " And Robin ? I guess he would. Is he over 18 ? I've no idea about boy wonder. | |||
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"I know three women that have male accounts to ‘ perv with nerve ‘ as one put it " I know a lady on here that has a male profile too which is always hidden. She never messages anyone or posts anything. She just likes to log in and have a nosey around without having to deal with any messages. She is not hurting anyone imo so I cannot see a problem with it. | |||
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