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"Is it fun to laugh at folks living conditions?" Fully acceptable to expect someone to clean up before a meet. So yeah... I always remember turning up at a single girls place a few years back. Didnt realise she was living in her parents living room, they had just partitioned half of the room off. Was welcomed to a single mattress on the floor, crap and clothes everywhere. Worse part was , was that her parents were downstairs the whole time. So weird....didnt stop me though in all fairness lol S x | |||
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"Is it fun to laugh at folks living conditions?" It’s not laughing at where they live, but rather the state they choose to live in, I think that’s a fundamental difference. | |||
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"Were her parents in the cellar ?" Nope. Other side of the curtain or whatever it was they used to divide the loving room  | |||
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"Is it fun to laugh at folks living conditions? It’s not laughing at where they live, but rather the state they choose to live in, I think that’s a fundamental difference. " Whatever happened to be kind | |||
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" the loving room "An appropriate name for it ! | |||
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An appropriate name for it !"Haha autocorrect done right | |||
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"Is it fun to laugh at folks living conditions? It’s not laughing at where they live, but rather the state they choose to live in, I think that’s a fundamental difference. " I don't think it's either. It's relating an experience where you slung your hook swiftly and that is not judging the persons living conditions but judging the visitors reaction..... no harm done. | |||
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"Im ridiculously ocd with cleanliness & order to the point where i hoover daily so theres hoover lines on the carpet & food in the kitchen is in item order & the lables facing the correct way. So i expect the same in others... which is unobtainable & unrealistic therefore i meet in hotels or holiday lodges ect. I never have anyone to mine. "I'm a slob. Do you have a daily rate ? | |||
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"Im ridiculously ocd with cleanliness & order to the point where i hoover daily so theres hoover lines on the carpet & food in the kitchen is in item order & the lables facing the correct way. So i expect the same in others... which is unobtainable & unrealistic therefore i meet in hotels or holiday lodges ect. I never have anyone to mine.
I'm a slob. Do you have a daily rate ? "Yes half day rate a yellow party ring presented for me to devour on your nipple, Full day two pink party rings presented on both | |||
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"Im ridiculously ocd with cleanliness & order to the point where i hoover daily so theres hoover lines on the carpet & food in the kitchen is in item order & the lables facing the correct way. So i expect the same in others... which is unobtainable & unrealistic therefore i meet in hotels or holiday lodges ect. I never have anyone to mine. "You need to visit Scotland. I have some living chaos that needs organising. Will pay with tea and hospitality  | |||
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"Some people are bone idle lazy dirty fuckers but in this generation they all suffer with mental illness bla bla bla " wow, people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran ." I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? " Nope x | |||
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"When i was a single i met a woman and went back to her place to play. She only put a dim small lamp on in the living room when we got to hers. The house did not smell great at all she went to make a cuppa and i had a keyring torch on my car keys. Put it on and there was cat shit on the floor everywhere. Asked if i could use the toilet and just legged it. The house was stinking. Had a long shower when i got in and put all my cloths on a 60 degree wash. How can people live like that ffs. " maybe she was broke | |||
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"Some people are bone idle lazy dirty fuckers but in this generation they all suffer with mental illness bla bla bla " I was with you and about to agree till you decided to mock/undermine mental health issues. Some people are depressed and do struggle to get up and do things, that is no joke or something to shame people on. Others are just dirty bastards. | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? Nope x" Thank you. Before it was done it didn't matter how much I cleaned it, it always looked pretty dirty to me. I had bare floor as I say, and that was splattered with paint, the stairs were bare plaster, my bedroom needed a freshen and there were holes in the living room wall. Urgh, and mould and peeling wallpaper in the bathroom, you know that tile on a roll stuff. So, nearing the end of last lockdown I put a shout out on FB asking if anyone local had any leftover paint. The next morning there were 5 tins on my doorstep. A friend from here who does charity work thought I may qualify for a grant for women who live alone, you tell them what you want and they order you the tools and equipment up to a certain amount. I qualified. It's to help empower women, so they don't feel they need a man to help with the fixing and stuff. So, I got some wallpaper, tools, patching plaster and a few other bits. I did my bedroom first with the leftover paint that had been donated. Then I stripped the bathroom, sorted that and painted it. Then, when all the stuff arrived from the charity I, for the first time in my life used patching plaster to fix the holes and wallpapered. I did the best I could with what I had and no spare money. As most people know my friends did the wonderful thing of carpeting for me and decorated the stairs which I'd have never reached with a ladder and a pole. They fixed a few things too all for my Xmas present. They spent about a grand all in. My house wouldn't be in the condition it's in now without the help and gifts from others, I simply couldn't afford it. So yes, cleanliness is one thing. The rest .... well, doesn't mean someone is lazy, it could just mean they're struggling financially and keeping the roof OVER their head is more important than what's within the walls. That's my story and lesson. | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? Nope x Thank you. Before it was done it didn't matter how much I cleaned it, it always looked pretty dirty to me. I had bare floor as I say, and that was splattered with paint, the stairs were bare plaster, my bedroom needed a freshen and there were holes in the living room wall. Urgh, and mould and peeling wallpaper in the bathroom, you know that tile on a roll stuff. So, nearing the end of last lockdown I put a shout out on FB asking if anyone local had any leftover paint. The next morning there were 5 tins on my doorstep. A friend from here who does charity work thought I may qualify for a grant for women who live alone, you tell them what you want and they order you the tools and equipment up to a certain amount. I qualified. It's to help empower women, so they don't feel they need a man to help with the fixing and stuff. So, I got some wallpaper, tools, patching plaster and a few other bits. I did my bedroom first with the leftover paint that had been donated. Then I stripped the bathroom, sorted that and painted it. Then, when all the stuff arrived from the charity I, for the first time in my life used patching plaster to fix the holes and wallpapered. I did the best I could with what I had and no spare money. As most people know my friends did the wonderful thing of carpeting for me and decorated the stairs which I'd have never reached with a ladder and a pole. They fixed a few things too all for my Xmas present. They spent about a grand all in. My house wouldn't be in the condition it's in now without the help and gifts from others, I simply couldn't afford it. So yes, cleanliness is one thing. The rest .... well, doesn't mean someone is lazy, it could just mean they're struggling financially and keeping the roof OVER their head is more important than what's within the walls. That's my story and lesson. "X | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? Nope x Thank you. Before it was done it didn't matter how much I cleaned it, it always looked pretty dirty to me. I had bare floor as I say, and that was splattered with paint, the stairs were bare plaster, my bedroom needed a freshen and there were holes in the living room wall. Urgh, and mould and peeling wallpaper in the bathroom, you know that tile on a roll stuff. So, nearing the end of last lockdown I put a shout out on FB asking if anyone local had any leftover paint. The next morning there were 5 tins on my doorstep. A friend from here who does charity work thought I may qualify for a grant for women who live alone, you tell them what you want and they order you the tools and equipment up to a certain amount. I qualified. It's to help empower women, so they don't feel they need a man to help with the fixing and stuff. So, I got some wallpaper, tools, patching plaster and a few other bits. I did my bedroom first with the leftover paint that had been donated. Then I stripped the bathroom, sorted that and painted it. Then, when all the stuff arrived from the charity I, for the first time in my life used patching plaster to fix the holes and wallpapered. I did the best I could with what I had and no spare money. As most people know my friends did the wonderful thing of carpeting for me and decorated the stairs which I'd have never reached with a ladder and a pole. They fixed a few things too all for my Xmas present. They spent about a grand all in. My house wouldn't be in the condition it's in now without the help and gifts from others, I simply couldn't afford it. So yes, cleanliness is one thing. The rest .... well, doesn't mean someone is lazy, it could just mean they're struggling financially and keeping the roof OVER their head is more important than what's within the walls. That's my story and lesson. "  | |||
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"Im ridiculously ocd with cleanliness & order to the point where i hoover daily so theres hoover lines on the carpet & food in the kitchen is in item order & the lables facing the correct way. So i expect the same in others... which is unobtainable & unrealistic therefore i meet in hotels or holiday lodges ect. I never have anyone to mine. "I can here Symphonie Fantastique playing in the background right now  | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? " There is a difference between struggling and not having money to spend on the house as i been there. But a living room plastered in new and very old cat shit is completely different. She did not have any mental issues as far as o could tell also. But who knows. But i could not play in a room reaking of cat shit. | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? Nope x Thank you. Before it was done it didn't matter how much I cleaned it, it always looked pretty dirty to me. I had bare floor as I say, and that was splattered with paint, the stairs were bare plaster, my bedroom needed a freshen and there were holes in the living room wall. Urgh, and mould and peeling wallpaper in the bathroom, you know that tile on a roll stuff. So, nearing the end of last lockdown I put a shout out on FB asking if anyone local had any leftover paint. The next morning there were 5 tins on my doorstep. A friend from here who does charity work thought I may qualify for a grant for women who live alone, you tell them what you want and they order you the tools and equipment up to a certain amount. I qualified. It's to help empower women, so they don't feel they need a man to help with the fixing and stuff. So, I got some wallpaper, tools, patching plaster and a few other bits. I did my bedroom first with the leftover paint that had been donated. Then I stripped the bathroom, sorted that and painted it. Then, when all the stuff arrived from the charity I, for the first time in my life used patching plaster to fix the holes and wallpapered. I did the best I could with what I had and no spare money. As most people know my friends did the wonderful thing of carpeting for me and decorated the stairs which I'd have never reached with a ladder and a pole. They fixed a few things too all for my Xmas present. They spent about a grand all in. My house wouldn't be in the condition it's in now without the help and gifts from others, I simply couldn't afford it. So yes, cleanliness is one thing. The rest .... well, doesn't mean someone is lazy, it could just mean they're struggling financially and keeping the roof OVER their head is more important than what's within the walls. That's my story and lesson.
"Exactly that, we can all have hard time through no fault of our own, Its a shame you didn't live nearer I'm a dab hand at DIY, mechanics etc Power to the women
My garden however looks like a scrap yard because we have so many vehicles and sheds between 2 houses and several are in repair...but they are getting fixed, just slow process & scrap they are not...there's money in everything if you know how. and the rugh casting got redone so there's all that mess all over the garden including a broken fence.
My house is a mismatch of furniture because its mostly from charity shops, one for financial reasons but also environmental reasons, never had my own place so decor is limited by whomever owns it as is repairs...some landlords don't care.
(can only drive one vehicle at a time before anyone starts & we plant to offset lifetime co2 on these)
It's only when your counting the pennies that you realise how much of a luxury it is just to paint a simple flipping wall
It surprises me how many people think that this pit isn't open to them & they'll never do it...I hope you don't but you never know what the future holds.
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? There is a difference between struggling and not having money to spend on the house as i been there. But a living room plastered in new and very old cat shit is completely different. She did not have any mental issues as far as o could tell also. But who knows. But i could not play in a room reaking of cat shit. " animal shit everywhere isn't what we're disagreeing with. Its down playing folks circumstances that aren't in their control...or at least not anymore and giving examples of what appears from the outside is not what is happening inside. I don't blame you for leaving if its all over the place though & I have cats. | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? Nope x Thank you. Before it was done it didn't matter how much I cleaned it, it always looked pretty dirty to me. I had bare floor as I say, and that was splattered with paint, the stairs were bare plaster, my bedroom needed a freshen and there were holes in the living room wall. Urgh, and mould and peeling wallpaper in the bathroom, you know that tile on a roll stuff. So, nearing the end of last lockdown I put a shout out on FB asking if anyone local had any leftover paint. The next morning there were 5 tins on my doorstep. A friend from here who does charity work thought I may qualify for a grant for women who live alone, you tell them what you want and they order you the tools and equipment up to a certain amount. I qualified. It's to help empower women, so they don't feel they need a man to help with the fixing and stuff. So, I got some wallpaper, tools, patching plaster and a few other bits. I did my bedroom first with the leftover paint that had been donated. Then I stripped the bathroom, sorted that and painted it. Then, when all the stuff arrived from the charity I, for the first time in my life used patching plaster to fix the holes and wallpapered. I did the best I could with what I had and no spare money. As most people know my friends did the wonderful thing of carpeting for me and decorated the stairs which I'd have never reached with a ladder and a pole. They fixed a few things too all for my Xmas present. They spent about a grand all in. My house wouldn't be in the condition it's in now without the help and gifts from others, I simply couldn't afford it. So yes, cleanliness is one thing. The rest .... well, doesn't mean someone is lazy, it could just mean they're struggling financially and keeping the roof OVER their head is more important than what's within the walls. That's my story and lesson. "Amazing I d just say...really | |||
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"Mine was a local guy said he was single lived alone we chatted a while he seemed ok , anyway I got to his house front garden was a tip so alarm bells are ringing already when he opened the front door a see Bare floor and a horrible smell of dog shit I just turned and ran . I've never had dog shit but I did have a bare floor for 8 years in my house until very recently. I simply couldn't afford almost a grand to carpet the house. Funnily enough my front garden is a tip at the moment. 2 sofas and a chair. It looks like something from shameless. I can't afford a skip just yet, I don't drive so can't take it to the tip. Does my house look minging and dirty from my pics? Nope x Thank you. Before it was done it didn't matter how much I cleaned it, it always looked pretty dirty to me. I had bare floor as I say, and that was splattered with paint, the stairs were bare plaster, my bedroom needed a freshen and there were holes in the living room wall. Urgh, and mould and peeling wallpaper in the bathroom, you know that tile on a roll stuff. So, nearing the end of last lockdown I put a shout out on FB asking if anyone local had any leftover paint. The next morning there were 5 tins on my doorstep. A friend from here who does charity work thought I may qualify for a grant for women who live alone, you tell them what you want and they order you the tools and equipment up to a certain amount. I qualified. It's to help empower women, so they don't feel they need a man to help with the fixing and stuff. So, I got some wallpaper, tools, patching plaster and a few other bits. I did my bedroom first with the leftover paint that had been donated. Then I stripped the bathroom, sorted that and painted it. Then, when all the stuff arrived from the charity I, for the first time in my life used patching plaster to fix the holes and wallpapered. I did the best I could with what I had and no spare money. As most people know my friends did the wonderful thing of carpeting for me and decorated the stairs which I'd have never reached with a ladder and a pole. They fixed a few things too all for my Xmas present. They spent about a grand all in. My house wouldn't be in the condition it's in now without the help and gifts from others, I simply couldn't afford it. So yes, cleanliness is one thing. The rest .... well, doesn't mean someone is lazy, it could just mean they're struggling financially and keeping the roof OVER their head is more important than what's within the walls. That's my story and lesson. " | |||
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