FabSwingers.com forum: A whiff of Arrogance...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other guys notice the whiff of it from a fair few profiles....

“Don’t message me if your not....” “don’t wink, I don’t have time to check winks” if I don’t answer I’m not interested” “ I get so many messages I can’t reply”......

Yeah ok love, do you get the same attention in the real world....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says:

Politicians and American Presidents will be blocked.

It's not arrogance, they are just tossers

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sure do.

Stuff like god's gift, guaranteed to make you squirt, offering a unique "experience", the gynaecologist line... It's bloody everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a filter, if you dont like it, move along to another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to suggest others are arrogant kinda has the same effect imho fella

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Since when has not been wasting peoples time arrogant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to suggest others are arrogant kinda has the same effect imho fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to suggest others are arrogant kinda has the same effect imho fella

Takes one to know one huh?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have to emphasise certain things on my profile so I can direct people back to it when they message me.

If that's arrogant then sue me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Any other guys notice the whiff of it from a fair few profiles....

“Don’t message me if your not....” “don’t wink, I don’t have time to check winks” if I don’t answer I’m not interested” “ I get so many messages I can’t reply”......

Yeah ok love, do you get the same attention in the real world....

It's not always arrogance. Often it's a reaction to their experiences on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to suggest others are arrogant kinda has the same effect imho fella

Takes one to know one huh?

I would never dare to argue with you Incie my valentine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance or not, just move on. It’s your own preference.

I have ‘winks ignored’ because I don’t look at them, so it’s a heads up.Also, have deleted means not interested as I see it’s a polite decline.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to suggest others are arrogant kinda has the same effect imho fella

Takes one to know one huh?

I would never dare to argue with you Incie my valentine

I need a ‘snort’ emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one gets the same attention in real life, Fabs isn’t reality, it’s a case of supply and demand on here.

Wouldn’t you prefer to read a profile that sets out what the likely outcome of a message will be? A least you know where you stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well guess that's me told

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting... how so?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Interesting... how so? "

Click 'reply and quote' then we know who you are responding to

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address? "

I think that’s what most guys assume will happen when they join

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Whiff whiff

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Any other guys notice the whiff of it from a fair few profiles....

“Don’t message me if your not....” “don’t wink, I don’t have time to check winks” if I don’t answer I’m not interested” “ I get so many messages I can’t reply”......

Yeah ok love, do you get the same attention in the real world....

It's not always arrogance. Often it's a reaction to their experiences on here"

Bingo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never mentioned preferences but get the sentiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get shitloads of attention in real life

I have to beat the fuckers off with a shitty stick

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I get shitloads of attention in real life

I have to beat the fuckers off with a shitty stick"

Gets boring doesn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think there's too much whinging about people's profiles, lack of message replies, complaining about shit that won't change.

This is the world of online dating/swinging.

If you don't like the look of someone's profile, ignore it.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep I can see that as a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are just making up for all those years of the patriarchy ruling them and who can fucking blame them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep I can see that as a reason

Same

I have no idea what youre on about, but i like to be compliant

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Women are just making up for all those years of the patriarchy ruling them and who can fucking blame them."

PREACH IT MR JEANS (LOVE)

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Yep I can see that as a reason

Same

I have no idea what youre on about, but i like to be compliant"

Sappy ? Compliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are just making up for all those years of the patriarchy ruling them and who can fucking blame them.

PREACH IT MR JEANS (LOVE) "

You go girl!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Women are just making up for all those years of the patriarchy ruling them and who can fucking blame them.

PREACH IT MR JEANS (LOVE)

You go girl!

Snapping my fingers all snappity snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you questioning women in real world who dare to tell you they don't want that drink you offered them? Or don't smile back? Or say I'm not interested in dating someone... (insert whatever preference!)?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting... how so?

Click 'reply and quote' then we know who you are responding to

Ahh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are just making up for all those years of the patriarchy ruling them and who can fucking blame them.

PREACH IT MR JEANS (LOVE)

You go girl!

Snapping my fingers all snappity snap"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep I can see that as a reason

Same

I have no idea what youre on about, but i like to be compliant

Sappy ? Compliant

I am

Im a pussycat

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Interesting... how so?

Click 'reply and quote' then we know who you are responding to

Ahh yes

Yeaaay

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Yep I can see that as a reason

Same

I have no idea what youre on about, but i like to be compliant

Sappy ? Compliant

I am

Im a pussycat"

Pussy cats have claws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find giving people an indication of what will get our attention or reply makes our overall experience of the site a better one. We are only here for our pleasure after all.... when you receive so many messages every day that they are not all able to be displayed and 99% are pure and utter bollocks from guys who think that to get unlimited shags all they have to do is “join up” and take a ticket like the old days at Asda when you’re waiting your turn at the deli counter..... spoils it for us. So we heavily specify what we don’t want!!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I think arrogance smells like the Guerlain perfume, Insolence and the yellow lenor fabric conditioner. I’m assuming so anyway because that’s what I smell like abs I’m happy being arrogant

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think arrogance smells like the Guerlain perfume, Insolence and the yellow lenor fabric conditioner. I’m assuming so anyway because that’s what I smell like abs I’m happy being arrogant

I have this picture in my head of you starring in one of those ridiculously over the top perfume adverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address? "

It may seem like folk are a bit ‘up themselves’ OP. How do you suggest we remedy the situation?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"I think arrogance smells like the Guerlain perfume, Insolence and the yellow lenor fabric conditioner. I’m assuming so anyway because that’s what I smell like abs I’m happy being arrogant

I have this picture in my head of you starring in one of those ridiculously over the top perfume adverts"

Honestly, that is my dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's preference OP, I have it on mine to a degree. It stops people from wasting their time and mine. Well it's supposed to anyway, mines states I'm useless with my inbox, doesn't stop people demanding a reply

As for getting this much attention in real life, I wouldn't leave my house if I did, that's scary shit

but I also don't run aroun outside in my pretty underwear in front of a bunch of perves so you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh! Not another one getting pissy because he's not getting any interest!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's preference OP, I have it on mine to a degree. It stops people from wasting their time and mine. Well it's supposed to anyway, mines states I'm useless with my inbox, doesn't stop people demanding a reply

As for getting this much attention in real life, I wouldn't leave my house if I did, that's scary shit

but I also don't run aroun outside in my pretty underwear in front of a bunch of perves so you know...

"This much attention in real life" (assuming normal filters and activity on Fab) and I'd have a bloody bodyguard. No thank you.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Wouldn’t say what you've mentioned is arrogant. If they're telling you what doesn't intrest them then that's being honest, not arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address?

It may seem like folk are a bit ‘up themselves’ OP. How do you suggest we remedy the situation?

Not looking to remedy, or the subject, just the views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think arrogance smells like the Guerlain perfume, Insolence and the yellow lenor fabric conditioner. I’m assuming so anyway because that’s what I smell like abs I’m happy being arrogant

I have this picture in my head of you starring in one of those ridiculously over the top perfume adverts"

I'm picturing Jennifer Lawrence being held at gunpoint in a haunted synagogue by Kate Moss with asbestos falling from the ceiling while shaved lions prowl around them.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address?

It may seem like folk are a bit ‘up themselves’ OP. How do you suggest we remedy the situation?

Not looking to remedy, or the subject, just the views. "

Well you have had plenty of 'views', and become a forum pro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address?

It may seem like folk are a bit ‘up themselves’ OP. How do you suggest we remedy the situation?

Not looking to remedy, or the subject, just the views. "

Ohhh you just want to know where the arrogance (as you put it) on ladies profiles on here stems from?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's a heady aroma, with a hint of musk, sandalwood and vetiver.

Drives the women wild

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People can put their preferences on their profile. What do you expect a picture of a fanny and a home address?

It may seem like folk are a bit ‘up themselves’ OP. How do you suggest we remedy the situation?

Not looking to remedy, or the subject, just the views.

Ohhh you just want to know where the arrogance (as you put it) on ladies profiles on here stems from? "

No, not specifically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of male attention in the real world.

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