FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden profiles

By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Would you message someone if their profile was hidden?. I always presume they do not want disturbed and not really wanting message but mainly here just for a look.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If it was someone I knew enough to be checking in on them, yes.

Anyone else. No.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Would you message someone if their profile was hidden?. I always presume they do not want disturbed and not really wanting message but mainly here just for a look."

Didn’t realise you could!

But probably not I agree it would imply they want some privacy

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

As a first message, no we wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it’s forum related and what it private then yes like a secret message things or am I on you hot last off something

But saying that I tend to not shy away from publicly saying someone’s beautiful or things like that

Other then that no I wouldn’t they profile is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't. If they're hidden then I assume they don't bwant to be pestered.

Although someone winked me about a month ago and I can't winkn or message them back because their profile is hidden

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Ok thanks. Was going to message a man earlier but his profile was hidden so did not bother. Will wait and see if he appears afain before i send the message.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Ok thanks. Was going to message a man earlier but his profile was hidden so did not bother. Will wait and see if he appears afain before i send the message."

I've had people message before when I've been hidden (forum people) that I may not have really spoken to in private before but had seen around the forums. I did appreciate it due to the nature.

Very much like you, we've never spoken but I obviously recognise you. If I noticed you'd hidden I may be tempted to message and ask you if everything is OK, as others have done for me.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Ok thanks. Was going to message a man earlier but his profile was hidden so did not bother. Will wait and see if he appears afain before i send the message.

I've had people message before when I've been hidden (forum people) that I may not have really spoken to in private before but had seen around the forums. I did appreciate it due to the nature.

Very much like you, we've never spoken but I obviously recognise you. If I noticed you'd hidden I may be tempted to message and ask you if everything is OK, as others have done for me."

I do that too but only with people i know. Will wait a day and see what happens.x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Have never messaged anyone with a hidden profile as I know there are many reasons for hiding it.

Unfortunately there are a lot of hidden profiles who use that as a way of being abusive on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have never messaged anyone with a hidden profile as I know there are many reasons for hiding it.

Unfortunately there are a lot of hidden profiles who use that as a way of being abusive on the forums. "

How do they use being hidden to be abusive?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I want a break from the site then I clear down all my messages and hide my profile. I wouldnt want to receive any if it was hidden.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Have never messaged anyone with a hidden profile as I know there are many reasons for hiding it.

Unfortunately there are a lot of hidden profiles who use that as a way of being abusive on the forums.

How do they use being hidden to be abusive?"

I've seen it numerous times. Because you can't see anything about them or if they are verified or how they portray themselves in their profile they feel that's another layer of anonymity.

They start angry threads aimed directly at people and you can't guage the context.

Most of the recent fake and trolling profiles have just a single veri which is almost always hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thanks. Was going to message a man earlier but his profile was hidden so did not bother. Will wait and see if he appears afain before i send the message."

Mine was hidden because I didn’t think anyone would bother looking. I would suggest you message him because that’s what happened to me. She responded to what I had posted, which caught me off guard but in the nicest possible way.

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