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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right so if I fantasise about a lady or couples where the lady likes to be in charge of her men folk ! But isn't a full on leather and whips feisty Femdom but more like a super kinky teacher ie asks with a firm but friendly manner,to get her way .

I'm not what you would call a submissive wimp but really eager to please ! Naturally shy so haven't got the ability to control the bedroom situation !

Also I wouldn't say I was bi as I dont have any existing urges towards chaps but get hugely horny thinking about being asked to by a persuasive friendly lady !

Oh so confusing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP. It’s a fantasy - that’s the term

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes OP. It’s a fantasy - that’s the term

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yep it is dont think I explained myself to well not quite sure how to put it !

Ha basically you can find super Dominate lasses who want a sub slave , but was getting at is there a term for a halfway thing ! Bugger still not quite find the words to explain what I mean ! I shall pipe down and settle for fantasise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you're describing is still a domme scenario. They're not all the same and people enjoy kink to different degrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FemDom can be any degree of domination from the mild to the extreme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're looking for something that's incredibly specific, it's probably best not to be in a hurry to find it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you're describing is still a domme scenario. They're not all the same and people enjoy kink to different degrees. "
Yes I guess so i think what I'm meaning if one was to be searching through profiles for the more Assertive types u can only seem to find the more extreme types! With no middle ground ! Was wondering if there was some kind of terminology

I was un aware of ! But I guess not.

Thanks tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you're looking for something that's incredibly specific, it's probably best not to be in a hurry to find it"
Absolutely how long is a hurry ? Kind of being searching since late teens ! There's still time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you consider visiting a pro domme? You can tell her what you want specifically. Worth the money to have a fantasy become reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you consider visiting a pro domme? You can tell her what you want specifically. Worth the money to have a fantasy become reality. "

Ahh I've considered this lots and lots , its probably the correct thing maybe but I'm unsure I kind of like the idea of the whole build up to it it all say for instance working for someone (I work outside gardens ,trees ) being seduced by the client or chatting too strangers in the pub and so on !

Kind of think it wouldn't feel Natural and make the whole thing more weird than it is ! But yes definitely like to experiment as we are only here the once . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider visiting a pro domme? You can tell her what you want specifically. Worth the money to have a fantasy become reality.

Ahh I've considered this lots and lots , its probably the correct thing maybe but I'm unsure I kind of like the idea of the whole build up to it it all say for instance working for someone (I work outside gardens ,trees ) being seduced by the client or chatting too strangers in the pub and so on !

Kind of think it wouldn't feel Natural and make the whole thing more weird than it is ! But yes definitely like to experiment as we are only here the once . X"

You could look online and see if any do roleplay. Part of the experience could be her 'seducing' you.

Or maybe try the Stories and Fantasies forum section. Post your idea and see if any women are interested in trying it later in the year when lockdown ends.

Either way, find someone you feel comfortable with so it doesn't seem weird and you have fun. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What label it, just try it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What label it, just try it "
I'm trying sir trying

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