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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

. I get it but I don't know why either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it feel intrusive?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Is it because you think she thinks you’re a doddery old dear not able to look after yourself.

When really she’s just checking you’ve not slipped in the shower and put your back out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause it’s the realisation that you’ve got to the point where people don’t say ‘She fell over!’ they say ‘She had a fall!’

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't kmow Gran.

Maybe you're reading too much into it.

You think they're just being nosey.

My neighbours haven't even got my number....they'd have to knock on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I could be here for months, not weeks before anyone thought to check up on me.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ? "

We are in lockdown. You are staying at home.

But a teeny bit intrusive, and may also be well-meaning, too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they were perfectly lovely, are we not told to look out for our elderly neighbours?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Bit intrusive, made you think they viewed you as one of those old dears who would have a fall? Maybe society sees you in that way, the old neighbour you need to keep an eye on...

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I have amazingly close relationships with my neighbours, we often check up in each other. They are not nosey, they look out for me, there's a difference.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Bit intrusive, made you think they viewed you as one of those old dears who would have a fall? Maybe society sees you in that way, the old neighbour you need to keep an eye on... "

Society does. We have had some very nice people enquiring if we have everything we need and so we need help with Internet shopping. The thing is there are some people of our age who are unable to use a computer and we are likely to be more vulnerable at a time like this but these people have seen me loading ballast into a cement mixer and taking delivery of endless Tesco and Amazon deliveries

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

I get fed up when my neighbours ask intrusive questions.

"Why haven't we seen your wife for ages ? "

" Why are you always digging your garden in the evenings? "

Really annoying

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Did he or she wake you up? That's the only thing that would annoy me, or if I was having a poo!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ? "

Your neighbour has your phone number your dismissive attitude to all and sundry is slipping, Granny

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Be grateful some people have no one

Gramps

X

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ? "

Because you're a grumpy ald woman?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Probably seeing if you were in before they broke in

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"I get fed up when my neighbours ask intrusive questions.

"Why haven't we seen your wife for ages ? "

" Why are you always digging your garden in the evenings? "

Really annoying "

I may have laughed a little too much at that.

I think I've put my hip out, don't think I'll be driving for a while.

Hope my neighbour pops round to see if I'm ok.

E

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ?

Your neighbour has your phone number your dismissive attitude to all and sundry is slipping, Granny "

I joined the fucking what's app group first lockdown didn't I ? He got me through that ......

I did want to say Mind your own business......... would that be bad?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Be grateful some people have no one

Gramps

X"

I won't be grateful ..... that's just it.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ?

Because you're a grumpy ald woman?

"

I thought of that ..... but i'm not , i'm perfectly fucking happy

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ?

Because you're a grumpy ald woman?

I thought of that ..... but i'm not , i'm perfectly fucking happy "

You were picking out a new Stannah from the catalogue and they interupted you?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ?

Because you're a grumpy ald woman?

I thought of that ..... but i'm not , i'm perfectly fucking happy

You were picking out a new Stannah from the catalogue and they interupted you?"

My Stannah goes from the front door to Aldi ......... and back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Granny I have to say I think you are being a little bit grumpy and you should be pleased that you have such lovely neighbours who would want to make sure you are OK.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"My neighbour phoned to see if I was okay as my car hadn't moved for a few days.

You think i'd be grateful wouldn't you?

I wasn't.

It mildly pissed me off.

So ...... why ?

Your neighbour has your phone number your dismissive attitude to all and sundry is slipping, Granny

I joined the fucking what's app group first lockdown didn't I ? He got me through that ......

I did want to say Mind your own business......... would that be bad?"

What would Larry David do ?

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

Where were these helpful neighbours when your curtain pole needed putting up eh Granny?

E

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Where were these helpful neighbours when your curtain pole needed putting up eh Granny?

E"

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Is it because they knew you exist and all your ninja training went out the window???

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You wanna know why G-Crumps?

Coz now you're compelled to show consideration back. That mofo looked out for ya, so now you're legally bound by invisible ink to keep your peepers out and make sure that they too are OK. You didn't ask for that responsibility, it's been forced upon ya!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I would not be offended in the slightess! It's well documented that 'mental health' has taken a massive hit during lockdown. A gentle check up, check in on someone can make a massive differance to someone day.

People with mental health don't always reach out. And it can be the ones you'd least exspect who stuggle.

Take it as a compliment, that they cared enough to check in. Better than them not giving a flying frig about other humans who share this planet.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Stalkers!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Put a big "Fuck off" sign in your windscreen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would irritate me too - even if was good intentions.

Does your neighbour offer to walk you across the road too?

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