FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have to fill the void in your life?.....

By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

To be with someone or are you happy being single? It comes after I was watching one of my utubers maxx chewnings latest video q and a's about relationships. I dont really have to do that cos I am happy being single and as well I am happy to be in my company, it is a personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having left an abusive relationship, I'm far happier single now than I was in that relationship.

I feel no need to fill that void simply because I'm scared of being hurt again so it's easier to be on my own.

Occasionally I get a little lonely on an evening but I'm fine with my own company.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I prefer being single with regular friends if I fancy some company. I get wanderlust and felt caged in a mono relationship so its better for me to stick to what I know suits my lifestyle

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm generally happy being single but (& I think partly due to the lockdowns) I find myself wanting adult company & affection a bit more than usual.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"I'm generally happy being single but (& I think partly due to the lockdowns) I find myself wanting adult company & affection a bit more than usual. "
this for me aswell

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Very happy to be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much time for fab if in a relationship.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No I don’t have to. I am happy enough being single. But being in a relationship where all your needs are being met is awesome, sexually, emotionally, etc. (although it’s a right shitter if it ends) but I would love to have that kind of relationship again. I like having a special someone and I like being someone’s special one.

A lot of folk on here have been hurt and are reluctant to love again. I’m not one of them.

I don’t NEED it, but I’m not closed off to it either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't be happy being single. I haven't been since I was very young and I don't want to be. I don't think of it as filling a void, is that how the YouTube guy refers to it? Very odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fill your void OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand what the void thing is all about

But after unsuccessful relationships and a lot of heartache being single is easier.

I'd like the Clinton Cards version of a relationship but I'm not so keen on a real one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it also depends on what stage of life you are at. I'm long time single but with work , sporting hobbies and being comfortable in my own company i'm happy enough most of the time.

As approach retirement though (not quite yet unfortunately) i think I would like to have someone to share the time with, don't think I'd like to grow too old on my own.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'd happily be by myself, but having a partner enhances my life. People aren't sticky plasters to fill voids. It's better to work on your own self happiness than to work on a relationship when you're not happy with yourself.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Voluntarily single for coming up to nineteen years now. Very satisfied with this state of affairs. No plans to alter that.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I wouldn't be happy being single. I haven't been since I was very young and I don't want to be. I don't think of it as filling a void, is that how the YouTube guy refers to it? Very odd

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Yes. I think that he referred to the void as the emptiness in ones life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Although im in a loving relationship i could never be in a traditional relatiobship. We dont live together and its perfect for us. I havent lived with anyone for 25 years and i wont again. For me ive got the perfect relationship

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't be happy being single. I haven't been since I was very young and I don't want to be. I don't think of it as filling a void, is that how the YouTube guy refers to it? Very odd

Yes. I think that he referred to the void as the emptiness in ones life

So he's saying that being single is bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having left an abusive relationship, I'm far happier single now than I was in that relationship.

I feel no need to fill that void simply because I'm scared of being hurt again so it's easier to be on my own.

Occasionally I get a little lonely on an evening but I'm fine with my own company. "

Thats a shame, you should think all men are bad, just bad in relationships. That said, I would happily warm your evenings up, you are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lockdown is lonely at times, for sure, but I'd still prefer singldom to a relationship. There is no void for me, not now anyway. Once upon a time the void seemed very real and I was desperate to connect with another person who 'got' me on a level that nobody else ever had. It turns out that all I needed was to 'get' and nurture myself (she says flippantly).

Having autism combined with being a parent dictates that any potential partner would have to fit a very limited and specific criteria. I highly doubt that person exists, but right now I'm happy with that. One day that person may present themselves, in which case I wouldn't turn them away, but I dont feel like I need that to happen in order to feel fulfilled.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes completely happy being single! And shall stay that way for the time u have left here! What I'm really looking forward to is living completely on my own! I have never in all my 64 years this year lived alone ever! Not ever! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes completely happy being single! And shall stay that way for the time u have left here! What I'm really looking forward to is living completely on my own! I have never in all my 64 years this year lived alone ever! Not ever! X"

Living alone is amazing you're going to love it!

Everything is on your terms.

It's been a year for me now and I don't see it changing.

I've told friends and family to slap me if I ever move anyone in my flat

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Living alone is amazing you're going to love it!

Everything is on your terms.

It's been a year for me now and I don't see it changing.

I've told friends and family to slap me if I ever move anyone in my flat

Yes I am looking forward to it! Have 2 daughters still home youngest 21 so when that will b who knows! Sont get me wrong its lovely having them here but yes I do want to experiance living completely alone apart from the dogs x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I feel contentedly complete when I found my other half in 2012 - when I started crossdressing. The void space is filled when both parts of me finally exist.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I wouldn't be happy being single. I haven't been since I was very young and I don't want to be. I don't think of it as filling a void, is that how the YouTube guy refers to it? Very odd

Yes. I think that he referred to the void as the emptiness in ones life

So he's saying that being single is bad? "
Not at all. I think what he means more is that for him, personally doesnt want to be single forever

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't be happy being single. I haven't been since I was very young and I don't want to be. I don't think of it as filling a void, is that how the YouTube guy refers to it? Very odd

Yes. I think that he referred to the void as the emptiness in ones life

So he's saying that being single is bad? Not at all. I think what he means more is that for him, personally doesnt want to be single forever

Oh right, I understand. Tell him to join fab

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Living alone is amazing you're going to love it!

Everything is on your terms.

It's been a year for me now and I don't see it changing.

I've told friends and family to slap me if I ever move anyone in my flat

Completely agree about living alone being amazing. I used to think I suffered from undiagnosed depression, but I was just in shared accommodation. Cleared right up when I got a place by myself. I've been here eleven years now, and the thought of ever having to share again is an utter nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living alone is amazing you're going to love it!

Everything is on your terms.

It's been a year for me now and I don't see it changing.

I've told friends and family to slap me if I ever move anyone in my flat

I was always afraid of living alone and stayed in a broken toxic relationship so I didn't have to.

I felt like I couldn't do it emotionally or financially.

But getting a place that is all mine was the best decision I've ever made and wished I had done it 20 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short, for me, NO. However, I don't know if being a parent is what changes that for me. I already have a really important person who comes first, even before me, so relationships are kinda secondary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having left an abusive relationship, I'm far happier single now than I was in that relationship.

I feel no need to fill that void simply because I'm scared of being hurt again so it's easier to be on my own.

Occasionally I get a little lonely on an evening but I'm fine with my own company.

Thats a shame, you should think all men are bad, just bad in relationships. That said, I would happily warm your evenings up, you are gorgeous

It wasn't my intention to think that all men are bad in relationships but with the amount of cheats on here and some negative dating site experiences... It's put me off.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

One of the hardest things to do in life is finding that person who makes you truly happy.. and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although im in a loving relationship i could never be in a traditional relatiobship. We dont live together and its perfect for us. I havent lived with anyone for 25 years and i wont again. For me ive got the perfect relationship"

That situation sounds ideal to me.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I wouldn't be happy being single. I haven't been since I was very young and I don't want to be. I don't think of it as filling a void, is that how the YouTube guy refers to it? Very odd

Yes. I think that he referred to the void as the emptiness in ones life

So he's saying that being single is bad? Not at all. I think what he means more is that for him, personally doesnt want to be single forever

Oh right, I understand. Tell him to join fab

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Yes. I will tell him that too, or not lol

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I've been single for 2 years now and I don't want another relationship. I'm not against having one, but I'm not looking for it. At the moment, I'm enjoying my own company.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Having left an abusive relationship, I'm far happier single now than I was in that relationship.

I feel no need to fill that void simply because I'm scared of being hurt again so it's easier to be on my own.

Occasionally I get a little lonely on an evening but I'm fine with my own company. "

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Comfortable in my single skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taken me a long time to even get a void so Im keeping it empty for now. I would like a person to share certain things with though eventually.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I don't understand what the void thing is all about

But after unsuccessful relationships and a lot of heartache being single is easier.

I'd like the Clinton Cards version of a relationship but I'm not so keen on a real one.

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I think that the void thing means the emptiness of one who lives alone

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't have a void in my life to fill.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I don't understand what the void thing is all about

But after unsuccessful relationships and a lot of heartache being single is easier.

I'd like the Clinton Cards version of a relationship but I'm not so keen on a real one.

I think that the void thing means the emptiness of one who lives alone

I don't live alone, but I don't share my bed or my life with anyone and I don't have a void.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue Lady Ga Ga..

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m single. There is no void to fill. Maybe it will be that someone comes along and I make space and maybe it won’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand what the void thing is all about

But after unsuccessful relationships and a lot of heartache being single is easier.

I'd like the Clinton Cards version of a relationship but I'm not so keen on a real one.

I think that the void thing means the emptiness of one who lives alone

After nearly 45 years of living with other people living on my own this past year has been life changing.

It feels so right - like a massive weight has been lifted.

If I have a relationship again then we definitely won't live together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can't be on their own for long the reasons they give I've never understood.

Some people feel they're a failure if not in a relationship, I think that's sad.

So they often jump feet first into a new relationship hardly knowing much about the person in question.

After two long term relationships ended I decided that living alone for life is my best option.

I just enjoy my own space far too much now it really is that simple for me.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Absolutely agree with this

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I don't understand what the void thing is all about

But after unsuccessful relationships and a lot of heartache being single is easier.

I'd like the Clinton Cards version of a relationship but I'm not so keen on a real one.

I think that the void thing means the emptiness of one who lives alone

After nearly 45 years of living with other people living on my own this past year has been life changing.

It feels so right - like a massive weight has been lifted.

If I have a relationship again then we definitely won't live together.

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Yes, that is a long time living with others too, so yes it must feel like a weight of your shoulders being on your, that is a good solution too if you meet another one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Some people can't be on their own for long the reasons they give I've never understood.

Some people feel they're a failure if not in a relationship, I think that's sad.

So they often jump feet first into a new relationship hardly knowing much about the person in question.

After two long term relationships ended I decided that living alone for life is my best option.

I just enjoy my own space far too much now it really is that simple for me."

I'd struggle to be on my own for too long. I could do it, I wouldn't like it though.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I think that the void thing means the emptiness of one who lives alone"

I live alone. I feel no emptiness.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m happy single. I do have lots of friends though. If you would have asked me that six years ago I would of laughed at you. One of the things I was scared of was being alone before I split with my ex.

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