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First time to a club (after lockdown)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never been to a club was wondering if people would say it’s best to go alone or with someone first time? (Not that I have anyone to go with haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been to a club was wondering if people would say it’s best to go alone or with someone first time? (Not that I have anyone to go with haha)"

I don't think it matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’ve got a fwb to go with that’ll relax you, then go with them. If you’re happy going alone, then go for it! Every club we’ve been to the staff are always massively accommodating and make maximum effort to look after people. You’ll be fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I freely admit that I'd be too scared to go alone. Take someone with you if you want to op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferable with someone who has some experience to show you the ropes and for some support if you are nervous or just for some moral support as it can be daunting as a newbie, as the above have said, the majority of staff in clubs will give you the tour and make u feel at home and answer and questions u have so u could go alone but just so you get the best out of your first time I’d suggest a companion. Once you break the ice you will never look back. Xx

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I always go bye my self lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so I need to find someone to go with then I’d say for the first time lol

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Thank you so I need to find someone to go with then I’d say for the first time lol"

I went on my own for my first time. Everyone made me very welcome. It's amazing how your inhibitions disappear when everyone is just wearing a towel or a robe, or in some cases nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's time for me to try when safe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think when this is all over anyone who put things off before the virus should just go for it, be it swinging related and also normal life x

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Definitely find a club buddy.

I make sure they are happy for me to play with others on the night though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alone on the first time was quite an experience for me and I absolutely loved it.

I kept myself to myself and showed the correct respect to everyone. Soon enough ( and a few drinks later) conversation and some dancing was enjoyed, then I was lucky enough to be asked to play with the wonderful woman giggling at my dance moves.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Never been to a club was wondering if people would say it’s best to go alone or with someone first time? (Not that I have anyone to go with haha)"

Having visited several clubs as a solo guy, I would always recommend going in either as a couple, or with a couple. I wouldn’t visit another myself, without a meet arranged inside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alone on the first time was quite an experience for me and I absolutely loved it.

I kept myself to myself and showed the correct respect to everyone. Soon enough ( and a few drinks later) conversation and some dancing was enjoyed, then I was lucky enough to be asked to play with the wonderful woman giggling at my dance moves.

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Haha thanks for the advice!! Sure my dance moves will be laughed at to lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely find a club buddy.

I make sure they are happy for me to play with others on the night though"

Yeah I did think that what if the person I go with gets jealous that I want to play lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think when this is all over anyone who put things off before the virus should just go for it, be it swinging related and also normal life x"

10000% agree with this!!

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